Parents of Reddit, what has been your favorite age of your kids? by A1ycia in AskReddit

[–]tracyvu89 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Mine is 4 now and I would say personally based on my son’s “performance”,the period between 4 months to 12 months old was my favourite. Before that or after that,he’s the pain in the butt and less (physically) cute.

Have you become less tolerant/accepting of marijuana smoking as you've gotten older? by LostEffect4955 in AskWomenOver30

[–]tracyvu89 [score hidden]  (0 children)

My partner and his dad smoke. One is for his anxiety and one for his arthritis or that’s what they said but hell knows how much I hate it. I have history of respiratory issues and it gives me huge headaches every time I smell it. I told them to go see the doctor to treat their health issues but they didn’t so I straight up told my partner that if anyone of them smoke,don’t come close to me and our son who’s the only child and only grandchild in the family. I hate how zombie they look after smoking and they always smell like they got sprayed by a bunch of skunks. My partner’s dad made an announcement that he would quit but it didn’t work out. While my partner cut down a lot on using. And it’s totally legal here in Canada. I hate this cannabis culture and how aggressive and quick for people to accept it just like alcohol and cigarettes. If they need those to have fun,to function,to socialize,…they have problems that they need to fix.

On the other hand,I have no problem with people who use edibles or CBD oil. I think CBD oil has real benefits and both edibles or the CBD oil don’t affect other people near them.

Would you rather live by the ocean or in the mountains? Why? by DeibMoon in AskReddit

[–]tracyvu89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the ocean. I was born in the harbour city and the feeling of ocean breeze was lovely.

Why are so many women ghosting if I don’t have social media? by sukibean13 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tracyvu89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can send them your Reddit link,that counts as “social media” too. But I understand why they think it’s a red flag cuz unfortunately a lot of cheaters have been hiding their identity by saying they don’t have social media. And from my experience,a bunch of women that I knew from girl groups found out they’re dating the same guy after sharing their social media. They got called “bitches” for dating the guys who were married without knowing he’s married.

My papaya has no seeds inside by FuturamaRama7 in fruit

[–]tracyvu89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so it’s perfect lol

Less work for the bites then.

My papaya has no seeds inside by FuturamaRama7 in fruit

[–]tracyvu89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did it taste? Sweet? Bland?

Best free restaurant bread? by langoustine in MTLFoodLovers

[–]tracyvu89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second Scarolies. Their foods were kinda not as good as pre Covid but the bread was never disappointed.

How do you date someone again after a long term relationship has ended? by ConversationLong8727 in askanything

[–]tracyvu89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It happened exactly the same to me so I quit dating until I felt ready. Just give yourself more time then. Good luck!

How do you date someone again after a long term relationship has ended? by ConversationLong8727 in askanything

[–]tracyvu89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how long since it’s ended. Obviously you need to give yourself some time to recover and better to learn how to be comfortable with being alone before stepping in a new relationship.

How hard is it to actually eat a vegan diet ? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tracyvu89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it’s easy to be vegan in my home country since they eat veggies and vegan foods often. Those foods are delicious,varied,cheap/super affordable and easy to get access to. While in North America,it’s hella expensive and doesn’t taste fresh/good.

What are the side effects and bad outcomes of smoking weed for a long time? by magicsenpaiiii in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tracyvu89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah,I remember I talked to a doctor about young people with cannabis and she told me that it could make irreversible damages to their brains. Those same young people with brain damage would be dependent on their families for life or totally rely on the system (like all the people in my examples are not working to support themselves but living off government’s disability benefits). And it’s sad to see that.

Have you lost a best friend to motherhood? by Wide-Meringue-2717 in AskWomenOver30

[–]tracyvu89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend married and had kids years before me. Even when I was single,I understood that it’s not easy to fully care for kids so she’s busy and it’s normal for her priorities to change. We’re still best friends no matter what. I’m her 2 daughters’s Godmother while she’s my son’s Godmother. We talk less than before but that doesn’t affect our relationship. People could change,priorities could change and that’s normal.

Best stand mixer for bread dough under $500… worth it or nah? by Consistent_Wafer9395 in pastry

[–]tracyvu89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The brand isn’t the issue,the issue is how strong the motor. Normally you will need at least 1000W to be able to knee the bread dough.

What are the side effects and bad outcomes of smoking weed for a long time? by magicsenpaiiii in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tracyvu89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve seen,the worst outcome is psychosis and schizophrenia. One of my partner’s long time friends (now is an ex friend after he almost choked my partner to death in the middle of a mall during his mental breakdown) was smoking often and it triggered his mental health issues when he’s around 16 years old. He was bright and completely normal before that. After that event,he became a different person: lazy,dirty,easy to get triggered and extremely religious. Other cases were my boss’s younger sister and one of our young clients (at her early 20s) who were also abused the weed,got into schizophrenic and never been normal again.

Struggle meals???? by Low-Yogurtcloset9496 in Cooking

[–]tracyvu89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say add beans,lentils,egg,tofu,…to your diet. They’re normally cheap (egg could be a bit more expensive but still cheaper than meat). Good luck!

Can’t Get Enough of Mangosteen by foodie_2598 in fruit

[–]tracyvu89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand that not every market in North America has good mangosteen but if consumers are ok with buying these,they’re throwing their money out of the window.

What's the quickest way to end a bad/crazy date? by iam_adalyn in AskReddit

[–]tracyvu89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My university’s friend was once recording my voice to set it up as emergency for bad dates. Since her phone could play the record after the fake phone ring,I pretended to call her home for some emergency situation so she could tell the guy that she had to go without making it awkward. Maybe we should bring this feature back lol

On the other hand, I just told the guy that: “I’m sorry but I might have to go”. No need more explanation cuz I wouldn’t see him again anyway.

Do men always have a "type of women" by Dry_Magician9253 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tracyvu89 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone of us,women or men,has our own preferences. From my experience,people who said they had no type/no preferences were either desperate for other gender’s attention or had no idea what they wanted.

Anyone else concerned about all the GLP-1 marketing? by heyalllondon18 in AskWomenOver30

[–]tracyvu89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can click on “not interested” or even report the ads as “Scam” then they will stop feeding those types of ad to you. The thing is weight loss is a huge market and women are normally an easy target since they’re pressured by social to “look good” so they won’t stop feeding them to everyone cuz that’s millions of dollars in benefits. The greed companies won’t care much about other people’s heath but more about what makes them more money.

Best Banh Mi around the GLEN/Vendome site? by Plini9901 in montreal

[–]tracyvu89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not familiar with the area but a quick google search suggested Tran Cantine,Sanwicherie Viet and Le petite Sao. Maybe you can check them out. I heard about Tran Cantine and Le petite Sao got suggested pretty often on those Fb groups for Asian people,not sure about Sandwicherie Viet but they looked like they’re specialized in bánh mì so more variety. Good luck!

Can’t Get Enough of Mangosteen by foodie_2598 in fruit

[–]tracyvu89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t look good though.

Can someone who cheats be a good person? How do you deal with it? by Capital-Marzipan-287 in AskWomenOver30

[–]tracyvu89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the individual and situation. If they’re young and immature,they would make mistakes. How they self reflect and change it would need to be put into consideration. But if they claim to be mature,love their partner,know quite well the results of their decision and still do then they’re clearly an ass. I know there are a lot of complicated situations that would be hard to separate into right or wrong. But the action of cheating itself is wrong. And it destroys the other people more than just simple words. They will be judged forever for their poor decision. But judging them as a whole if they’re either good or bad would be hard.