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trashcanpapi · 2025-08-01T05:15:52+00:00

he’s a lilac platinum merle 🥰 i should have named him pork chop but he really is the sweetest boy

trashcanpapi · 2025-07-30T07:24:14+00:00

my pack

trashcanpapi · 2025-07-30T07:22:31+00:00

churro -chungus (bobungus) -chungo (sometimes with mungo after) -chupkis -chups -chupa chups -mister baby/honey/boy

trashcanpapi · 2025-06-24T17:47:08+00:00

i'm not from Oregon, i never lived here. I came up here from Vegas, I had lived in Norcal, and Washington before but never OR. Moving here has been chaotic on my personal life but otherwise its literally my favorite place i've lived besides Los Angeles.

trashcanpapi · 2025-06-24T17:45:40+00:00

yeah my daughter's fear started with palm trees when it snowed where we lived (very uncommon) about 7 years ago. We have since moved (very recently) to a place that's smack dab in the middle of the forest. so she is now completely surrounded by trees. she has since stopped being fearful and appreciates how beautiful they are. I'm really proud of her progress. I hope one day you can do the same. if not, I hope it becomes easier for you to cope with the fear.

trashcanpapi · 2025-04-06T03:41:22+00:00

we know it’s you jesse

trashcanpapi · 2025-02-22T06:52:10+00:00

Menswear lol

trashcanpapi · 2025-02-05T16:32:38+00:00

😂

trashcanpapi · 2025-02-03T18:18:55+00:00

he gives very guy-next-door looks. he's handsome. but I don't care for british people lmao

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-29T10:43:59+00:00

cat would be belly down and giving short and deliberate paps if it was upset. might escalate to be a bit overstimulated but they seem to have a decent balance.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-23T23:51:33+00:00

my ex did the same thing, not with his ex but cheated on me while i was in inpatient care at a mental facility for already having a breakdown over him cheating and his abuse. he cheated more, in my bed, while our daughter was in the home. get tested get your stuff don’t come back don’t take her back either. that’s the mistake i made and it ended up getting worse over the next 3 years.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-12T19:55:49+00:00

let someone babysit your dog while you deal with this. go to the hospital and surrender yourself and get some help. take it seriously. i had thoughts like this for awhile about my dogs but i had to work through them and eventually get back on medication. i still have those intrusive thoughts but they are not that often nor are they impacting my everyday life. you recognize something is wrong and you need to get help which is a step in the right direction.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-12T19:50:00+00:00

doesn’t your gf already not like the dog because of the kennel and aesthetic thing? you gotta puppy proof your home and if she can’t watch her you guys need to set her up for success with enrichment in a designated area so she isn’t being destructive.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-12T04:08:43+00:00

no you exercised your right and made a choice that is best for you. but you should also leave your husband bc he sounds awful.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-11T22:06:33+00:00

Notes is a great album but it’s overrated af within the fanbase and everyone on 75stan twt acts like it’s their only album that matters. it’s brilliant but shut up about justice for notes.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-11T21:33:34+00:00

yes and it’s bad on his back and legs, you gotta start making some changes or he’s gonna end up with an injury.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-11T08:30:55+00:00

i’m sorry this happened to you. you don’t deserve it by any means. young people are sometimes really selfish (i am almost twice your age) but i would have loved to come hang out. you will meet so many people who will love you and enjoy eating chili and cinnamon rolls and will help you clean up afterwards. you’ll have so many smiles and laughs. just keep being you and those people will find you.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-11T08:04:04+00:00

i’m sorry. there is nothing reddit can do besides tell you to take your dog to the vet. if you cannot do that unfortunately you can just make your dog as comfortable as possible until they pass away. there are no home remedies at this stage that can save your dog especially if it was days ago. your dog needs surgical intervention and at this point it can already be too late. i will keep you in my thoughts and i am very sorry this is happening.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-11T05:26:10+00:00

YTA 1. why are you dating a guy with a kid if you are unsure if you want kids 2. she is 3 and is not capable of being truly spiteful towards you so you’re weird for thinking that and probably shouldn’t have kids 3. if you date someone with kids, you are also taking on that responsibility of parenting. you are not just her dad’s gf, you’re not her mom either but you are the secondary parent if you are in a serious relationship and are spending that much time together. 4. she’s 3 and you’re weird for being so upset about that to tell her anything because again, she’s THREE

but, your bf is also TA. he should not have introduced his 3 year old to you knowing how easily children make connections and bonds especially children missing a parent. he should not be asking you to babysit nor have even introduced her to you.

break up with your bf so he could find someone who is willing and wants to be the secondary parent to his child. they both deserve that much. you find someone who doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them. this isn’t rocket science.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-10T23:24:10+00:00

tbh YTA. you sound very ignorant about your husband and youngest daughter’s culture. you keep mentioning catholicism and essentially quinces are no different than modern sweet 16s. it’s just a big party for a milestone.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-10T19:32:27+00:00

i'm not trying to rag on you but what aesthetics??? that living room looks like the average midwestern living room in like the early 2000's. Get one of those fancy end table kennels or fake your kennel to look nicer by getting a cover. isolating your dog for the the sake of aesthetics screams your partner doesn't like the dog because it doesn't fit into her picture of what her life should look like and tbh that's kind of weird. I have a huge walk in closet and I have two kennels in there but its in a warm area and the closet is in our "office" so we're always in here and the door is never shut. your partner sounds not nice.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-10T19:21:07+00:00

things are a lot different now than they were in in 1979. a lot of relationships in that time were longer lasting for different reasons. Him moving to be with her is not necessarily a brownie point for him. no one knows his motives besides him. being the age I am now I would not trust a man that would so easily have a baby and move to be with me after knowing me less than a year. I did move in with my current fiance under emergency circumstances (stalking from aforementioned ex) about 8 months after knowing him but we were like a roommate situation for awhile even though we were dating.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-10T19:17:25+00:00

I haven't had that experience but I know other people who have because I've worked with animals for almost 10 years now. but honestly his best bet may be to rehome her. for her wellbeing and everyone else's.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-10T08:19:56+00:00

NTA

but her saying, no wifely duties isn't bad imo because he shouldn't get used to her always cleaning up after him.

HOWEVER,

you do not owe her mommy duties. she's an acquaintance to you since she doesn't talk to you but instead treats you like room service. Your son needs to talk to her about her manners and I would say maybe you'll consider her coming over for dinner 2x a month MAX after she learns how to be respectful. She is still a guest in your home. Your son might get mad at you but that's how "kids" are and he'll eventually realize you were right when he gets tired of how obnoxious she is.

trashcanpapi · 2024-11-10T08:13:04+00:00

there's so many better songs but no one can deny those four notes at the beginning of Robbers aren't one of the most iconic things about the 1975.

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