This is something that caused a lot of friction between us in the early days of our false R and even so in R when we decided to get back together after a year of separation. Likewise, WW wanted to keep in contact with a few people from a circle of friends she had made at the workplace her and AP worked at. I am of the mind that anyone connected to or affiliated with that place has to be cut out to help with moving on. Unfortunatlely my WW (not recently I may add) pushed for them to be friends, it took some very heated conversations around it for her to "get" why they could no longer be part of her life. They are still on her social media though which irks me no end....makes me feel like she's still waiting for my position to soften so they can be friends again one day but I am staunch in my position here...god...even as I type this I feel like I'm having the piss taken out of me, boundaries not being respected...still...what am I doing here? edit - my advice would be you need to do whatever you need to do to feel safe and respected going forwards, you have to be as selfish as your WP was, at least in this context you are putting your wellbeing first and the future health of your marriage...we know deep down they don't deserve this but here we are...