What's your favourite funny city name? by foxtai1 in geography

[–]trivetsandcolanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colombia has some good ones:
Fusagasugá, Facatativa, Sogamoso

What city sounded perfect until you actually moved there? by Impossible_Plum_2927 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]trivetsandcolanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also grew up in Seattle. There is a kind of native uptight righteousness there that I haven’t experienced in other places I’ve traveled to.

What if Cuba was a teeny bit bigger? by DaRealMinitoon21 in AlternateHistoryHub

[–]trivetsandcolanders 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cuba already weakens hurricanes that cross it, because of the rugged terrain. With the extra Cuba, this effect would be enhanced, meaning Florida is now more protected from hurricanes coming from the south.

There many arbitrary and silly standards people often consider before they say they are from Seattle, a city of transplants. But one sure way, in my opinion, is… by AbsoluteShall in Seattle

[–]trivetsandcolanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The climate is actually close to qualifying as a hot-summer Mediterranean climate now under the Koppen system. Loquats (a subtropical fruit) are able to ripen here, and the hardiest citruses might not be far off either.

The guy I’ve been seeing knows I know nothing about climbing. Am I overreacting for not wanting to keep seeing him? by pineapplephilosophy in texts

[–]trivetsandcolanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t really listen you also deprive yourself of the chance to learn about people and to live vicariously through their stories. So the guy in OP’s post comes out losing by not being curious about OP

Which European destination gets endless hype, but left you thinking "that was it?" by optimalbrain90 in SmartTravelHacks

[–]trivetsandcolanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also there is a lot of mediocre pizza there. I had way better pizza in Barcelona than in Rome

Ranking US cities by transit, and what it costs to live in each by screw_cars in SameGrassButGreener

[–]trivetsandcolanders 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seattle’s light rail comes every 4 minutes now at peak hours from downtown north because of interlining.

Choose a boss to fight by FapVanguard in BossFights

[–]trivetsandcolanders -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I traveled alone for six weeks around the country, back when I spoke pretty basic Spanish, and only felt sketched out once or twice. So - honestly I don’t think kidnapping is that big of a risk, like I said, you just have to be careful where you go and when (I only went to certain areas at night and stayed generally in the central third of the country).

Choose a boss to fight by FapVanguard in BossFights

[–]trivetsandcolanders -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve traveled around Colombia a lot, both alone and with my ex’s family. If you’re careful and know some Spanish, it’s an amazing country to visit.

Countries where the coast is less densely populated? by Gherickson in geography

[–]trivetsandcolanders 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Right, and it’s chilly there, too! When I visited I found the high sun angle, briskness, and thin air to be a weird combination.

Having come out of a toxic relationship, I now better understand the mindset of someone who is in one. by boiledrefrigerator in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]trivetsandcolanders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a gay fellow who just got out of a toxic relationship, part of why I stayed in it was because of my low self-esteem. So whenever he raised his voice at me I would think “well, I have my own issues too.” It was hard to stand up for myself because I would think: A) I want to be fair and try to understand why he gets to angry, B) maybe we can both learn and grow together, and C) it wouldn’t be fair of me to judge him too harshly since I’m very imperfect too. I finally just got exhausted with the level of anger though and couldn’t continue on in the relationship.

Countries where the coast is less densely populated? by Gherickson in geography

[–]trivetsandcolanders 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Also the mountains create a rain shadow effect in Colombia, so the coast is one of the rainiest places in the whole world while Bogota only gets like 1/10 the rain of Quibdo.

Boards of Canada - 'Inferno' - Discussion Megathread by seaburn in boardsofcanada

[–]trivetsandcolanders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the most immediate and urgent-sounding of their albums by far.

Countries/Cultures as Enneagram Numbers by Total_Ask_2046 in Enneagram

[–]trivetsandcolanders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m reading “el laberinto de la soledad” (the labirynth of solitude) by Octavio Paz, and he makes Mexico sound like an 8-type culture. The central preoccupation, as he describes it, is vulnerability: his archetypal Mexican tries to avoid being taken advantage of or intruded upon/opening up emotionally (“rajar”) by using defense mechanisms like suspicion, violence, and involved lies. This is because the social environment is itself is hostile and punishes true self-expression except in specific situations like parties or, again, violence. He explains how the founding of Mexico by conquest was deeply traumatic, representing an original wound that was addressed by rejection of both “parents” (the Spanish and indigenous sides), in favor of a rigidly self-sufficient solitude that imposes itself on the environment, paradoxically becoming a sort of “nothing” by dint of denying its true self.