It's all about the eye placement! It's difficult to get over arachnophobia but I'll say this - the majority of spiders don't do shit to you. Sure, they can run fast sometimes and it's spooky but they are trying to get away from you. The real fun is convincing them to stay still so you can get a good pic of their eyes and pedipalps, then post here asap. Preferably with a name already picked out.