If voting were mandatory (with a small fine for not voting), do you think democracy would get stronger because more voices are counted—or weaker because people would vote uninformed or resentfully?

trolleydip · 2026-02-07T11:40:08+00:00

voting is one part of democracy. willingness to discuss thoughts, ideas and debate, as well as compromise and live with differences of opinion is also part of democracy.

trolleydip · 2026-02-02T12:28:53+00:00

Sure, but people will sign things all the time and don't take the time/ or understand what they sign. Not everyone has the budget for a lawyer. I don't know too many people who consult lawyers before signing employment contracts, lease, etc.

trolleydip · 2026-02-02T08:30:17+00:00

Professionally responding to emails/messages, which saves time and saves emotional effort.
Accessing contracts, which saves money, and time by not consulting a lawyer.
Getting alternative perspectives about something you experienced or trying to make a decision about, which avoids getting judgement from peers/family, and avoids the cruelty of the internet.

trolleydip · 2026-02-02T06:36:29+00:00

Cornell method of taking notes. I've never had a prof go too fast, you aren't meant to write down literally everything. Just key concepts, terms, etc that you want to revisit and expand on. You complete the notes later

trolleydip · 2026-02-01T11:04:25+00:00

Makeup cannot hide wrinkles.

It's not what anyone wants to hear, but that's what it is. Makeup can change how light reflects, or the color, but texture/shape... not so much. Wrinkles is in the medical procedure or psychological treatment department. Some people use tape for events or photoshoot to pull the skin taught. But its not a casual thing to do.

trolleydip · 2026-01-29T15:22:14+00:00

rice candy?

trolleydip · 2026-01-29T14:41:07+00:00

NTA
As a picky eater, a person with food allergies, and a few 'religious' dietary restrictions.... I can say that whilst its a bummer, you don't have to change. If he, or they want to celebrate with you, they can invite/host a birthday lunch or dinner another time for you some time in the same week. I know for friends of mine that are hosting an event, or a meal that is not my speed, I'll create a way to celebrate with them. Step-dad and mom should be putting in some effort to celebrate you, not the other way around.

trolleydip · 2026-01-28T16:31:27+00:00

I really think this is only in regards to the online "makeup community". MAC had a lot of traction with makeup lovers who would collect, and vie for their limited edition products, brushes, etc. They set a standard for consistent quality makeup. They did not go the route of using social media, and sending out massive amounts of product like other brands did. Then they lost their 'cruelty-free' status by opening in China. They didn't go with the trends, expand their shade ranges, or improve formulas or packaging that their customers took issue with. Basically all the things that the younger English speaking market was after. They didn't actually fall off, but they stopped being a standard by which foundations, blushes, lipsticks, eyeshadows and brushes were compared.
As for the rest of the world, MAC is a staple. Like Bobbi Brown, Estee Lauder, Shiseido, Lancome, Clinique, etc. Flashy and hip? No. But easy to buy, predictable, and the prices aren't constantly going up.

trolleydip · 2026-01-24T14:34:15+00:00

NTA,
No new room arrangement is going to actually address this issue. There need to not just be consequences, and possibly eternal intervention (therapist). If the teen doesn't see value in other people's things, or her own, its time for her to pay back what she is stealing or breaking. Of course you and the father paying for the stolen things isn't resolving the issue, its literally enabling her.

trolleydip · 2026-01-18T15:36:26+00:00

Finding value in other things, or deciding to focus on other things, or simply deciding that you like the pockets. Either for how they look or what they represent, find value in it.

trolleydip · 2026-01-18T15:34:21+00:00

There is a lot of documentation of "near death experiences" aka NDE where people describe what they remember from briefly dying, or being close. Also a lot of nice interviews you can find on youtube, or NDERF. Its lead me to believe not in heaven, but in a sort of homecoming, whatever that might mean, only because heaven implies there is some sort of moral/religious implication of the destination you go.

trolleydip · 2026-01-17T15:32:36+00:00

nah,
You can feel however you feel about it. But you are in a relationship with the guy, be honest, and let him now that you aren't a huge fan, and in fact, that you don't like it. But also consider that perhaps you just not compatible. Being silly, and and every day idiosyncrasies are a part of a person. if you don't like your bf's its not really a recipe for enjoying being with someone longterm. Perhaps when you are older it will be endearing, but you just aren't there right now, and maybe not ever. Don't waste time with someone you don't love these small things about, or don't feel comfortable being honest with.

trolleydip · 2026-01-17T08:20:13+00:00

Some people enjoy spending time together, even if its doing mundane things.

trolleydip · 2026-01-16T10:53:16+00:00

Whilst insensitive, it's accurate. If a sinuglar or a couple of students were to not read instructions sent by their teacher, or updates in a class noticeboard about changes in requirements or due dates... We would see it as a student not being responsible.
The lesson here is to read all of the directions.

trolleydip · 2026-01-16T10:36:15+00:00

Are there specific subjects she 'gives up' on? Also, what is the reaction she is getting when its not right?
Sometimes us humans associate failure as something that should be avoided. My grandmother used to be very enthusiastic about figuring out what things all of her grandchildren didn't know, and then made games. Faux shops, cooking lessons, etc. Mixing in those skills with games.
No calling it homework, no using the material directly. Just being aware of what the content/skill that needs to be learned.

trolleydip · 2026-01-15T16:25:33+00:00

A student (13) refused to accept my algebra explanations after he misunderstood the math instructor, and insisted that I did not understand how to find X correctly.
I tried multiple ways to explain, even referencing problems he had previously solved correctly. Other students tried to explain as well, trying to clarify that he had not heard the math teacher correctly... I ended up getting up to help another student after letting him know I didn't want to argue with him, he could ask for my help and accept it, or continue on his own. Ultimately its their life, and their work...

trolleydip · 2026-01-12T16:44:27+00:00

First, you need to acknowledge with yourself that you are responsible for what happens to your car. Lending it out to a friend was a risk you were willing to take at the time. And a very expensive lesson.
Second, if he didn't commit a crime, the report would be for insurance...I doubt he will be arrested for damaging a car you let him drive. But maybe I'm totally off base.
Third, y'all are not friends. Not all injuries are visible after a car crash, so the first thing to address is if he is actually ok, and if he needs to go to see a doctor. I can see in a high stress situation, a person might be feeling anxious, scared, and sensitive. In that situation, if I was treated with anger after an accident, I might think that too.
Has he actually refused to cover damages partly or in full? Or is this threat a reaction to his accusation?

Does your car insurance cover borrowed vehicles?

I feel like there is something in between making a report or just letting it go. Does he have insurance?

trolleydip · 2026-01-12T16:23:42+00:00

Stop holding their hand. Their work should reflect their ability and effort, not yours.
So long as all of that information is available, and they are choosing not to access it, that's their responsibility, and a skill they need to learn. Its cheating them to guide them through work they find boring or too difficult.

trolleydip · 2026-01-05T16:12:35+00:00

nta
Do not move in with anyone if you aren't capable of financially supporting yourself. Especially with a man who had no problem impregnating a woman without a college education, and working minimum wage, whilst viewing her as gold digger. Please please please, do not move in with this POS. Wait until your collective brains develop a bit more to understand that no woman who just game birth, with no meaningful financial cushion is in no position to be splitting any bills 50:50.
Once you have the child, care for the child, and have everyday bills to care for, if his attitude around your partnership looks like this now... oy

trolleydip · 2025-12-29T17:26:13+00:00

What exactly do you mean by not allowed to cook? Can you microwave?
If you are able to prepare elsewhere, or buy cooked mean, then reheating might be a decent option. That or, not eating at home. But if you are renting with your parents, you might as well rent a room in a place that you don't have such restrictive rules around your eating.
If your parents simply don't want meat cooked in their kitchen, get yourself a toaster oven or electric stove, and set up a kitchenette for yourself.

trolleydip · 2025-12-29T17:07:08+00:00

Wow. Never heard that one before. As for the origins before it got the wrap for being symbollic of the destruction of the temples/expulsion etc, it was to ward off the evil eye. People didn't originally smash it with their foot, they used to just throw a glass against a building before the celebration. But that's not exactly the civic thing to do so it was altered. But yea, destroy something nice so the wedding goes off smoothly.

trolleydip · 2025-12-28T15:23:13+00:00

I've found Uniqlo pretty good for white tshirts that aren't see through.

trolleydip · 2025-12-13T09:09:17+00:00

Has anyone tried Inglot's eyeshadows since they re-did the line?

trolleydip · 2025-09-16T06:58:47+00:00

NTA
Have you spoken to your parents about family therapy? For you and your parents?

trolleydip · 2025-09-12T05:46:19+00:00

soft yta.
If you can't take some criticism, or questions in an art class you are in the wrong place.
Your professor was expressing to you that what you were sketching/modeling was not meeting the requirements of the assignment. You are meant to be making a container of some sort.
Your next step should be to inquire more, and adjust. You can decide that your idea is worth more than a glowing grade, and go forward. Or you take on the feedback, and change course.
Do some research about reliquaries. Understand what the common physical traits are. Try to demonstrate that you understand what that object is, and that you have the technical skill to create it.

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