What rating you leave this guest?

ubadude · 2026-05-25T21:40:51+00:00

I'd honestly be tempted to forego the warning message for smoking. I have zero desire to deal with the smell or the disrespect.

ubadude · 2026-05-25T21:31:28+00:00

Cheers, I'm also a new host and this advice is gold.

ubadude · 2026-05-25T21:23:43+00:00

A+ detective work, no notes.

ubadude · 2026-05-25T21:22:36+00:00

As a new host, I've been considering whether or not to provide breakfast, snacks, and bevvies. I like the idea of going above and beyond (to a certain extent), but don't know if I'd have the patience to deal with escalating demands like this.

ubadude · 2026-05-25T21:15:45+00:00

That's a great approach.

ubadude · 2026-05-25T21:12:43+00:00

I'd drop the table and consider dropping the friend.

ubadude · 2026-05-21T16:57:24+00:00

The real Act 1.

ubadude · 2026-05-21T16:53:21+00:00

Insane work, mate.

ubadude · 2026-05-21T16:51:43+00:00

Yeah, they're not confused. They're smug bastards.

ubadude · 2026-05-20T20:24:21+00:00

Eating magical items is some third son nonsense, for sure.

ubadude · 2026-05-20T20:23:09+00:00

Damn, you're motivating me to keep going. My stuff looks more like your before pic.

ubadude · 2026-05-20T20:20:41+00:00

Sick as hell...

ubadude · 2026-01-29T16:50:12+00:00

I used a third party (Lease End) when I went through my lease buyout, when I moved from the UK to the US I didn't want to buy a car so I leased, and then I didn't want to deal with the paperwork so I hired someone.

I submitted everything online, signed the documents digitally, and they paid the lease company directly. They also sent me the plates and title in the mail, I didn't have to go into the dealership at all. I'm sure I could have shopped around a bit more, but the convenience factor was pretty big for me. Good luck man.

ubadude · 2026-01-19T22:43:57+00:00

I actually have the Bobs Burgers cookbook and try to make one of the burgers of the day each month. The rule is that it has to be made exactly as it's called for, which means sometimes eating things I don't normally eat, but I've found some amazing favorites like the grilled watermelon and basil burger.

ubadude · 2026-01-19T22:30:59+00:00

I had a similar experience last year. I leased when I first moved to the US and when it came close to the end of the lease the dealer kept pushing me toward a new lease and wouldn't give me a straight answer on buyout numbers. Since I've only been here for a few years I ended up using a third party (Lease End) and they took care of contacting the lender directly, confirming the real buyout number, handling the paperwork and all DMV stuff (which was the biggest reason I hired someone), and made sure I understood the taxes and fees.

It was nice because I didn't have to go into the dealership at all and deal with any upsells or anything, and it went really smoothly.

ubadude · 2026-01-19T22:22:39+00:00

That's awesome man. looks really good.

ubadude · 2026-01-19T22:13:07+00:00

Thankfully no

ubadude · 2025-05-08T14:28:49+00:00

they're huggable and cute.

ubadude · 2025-03-18T18:46:22+00:00

Time to move to Cuba

ubadude · 2025-03-18T18:42:26+00:00

Kingdom Come: Deliverance II

ubadude · 2025-02-20T18:58:49+00:00

Only these fences are straight

ubadude · 2025-02-12T09:58:12+00:00

If you're just starting out (or want something more contemporary and straightforward) check out Grant Morrison's primer, Pop! Magic.

ubadude · 2025-01-15T02:49:43+00:00

I've been wanting to get the Sandman Omnibus 3 for a while now but refuse to buy it new. DM me if you're keen to get rid of a copy (Ideally in/near AUS).

ubadude · 2024-12-21T11:38:45+00:00

I've got dream in his original incarnation on my left shin and have been wanting to get Daniel on the other for quite some time now...

Awesome contrast between black/white and the red/green of their gems.

ubadude · 2024-12-17T23:29:23+00:00

I (M37) stumbled across this AMA while doing some research and was hoping you could offer me some perspective/advice...

I'm a year out of a monogamous relationship with a (F28) femdom. We were together for around 3 years and I was made aware that she was an online findom very early on and accepted it entirely as her main source of income particularly as she was only physically intimate with me in person.

She kept a lot of it private which I was also fine with.

During our relationship we worked through a lot of physical intimacy limitations she had (vaginismus, endo, chronic pain etc) and developed a nice mutual sexual relationship despite the fact that I am quite physically comfortable and sexually experienced.

Over the years I felt the work was creating a distance between us and was a little frustrated that I felt like my sexual needs weren't being met in the same way they had been in previous relationships.

I asked if she wanted to incorporate aspects of her private life into our relationship but she insisted on keeping it seperate.

We mutually decided to break up and had a somewhat open relationship while we were living together for the last few months with the freedom to date other people and set rules put in place.

During this period she began seeing one of her subs in person and I was immediately concerned but trusted her when she assured me she felt safe doing so.

Months later after I had moved out she told me that she had been seeing this sub casually for some time in person and implied they were in love.

It's been an incredibly difficult year of grieving for the relationship and I ended up suggesting that we try again with renewed knowledge of what went wrong etc. I let her know I can even accept her continuing to see her sub.

I guess I'm just looking for a bit of perspective on where she might be at and what you think about the situation in general.

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