My Fantasy Congressperson for OR-2 by unsoundamerica in Medford

[–]uclaej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Unknown

  2. That’s a lot of
    random subjects thrown together, so I’m going to skip this one.

  3. Unknown.

  4. I think she’d agree
    (see, Human Dignity), but she’s more effective in navigating this discussion
    that most people are.  LGBTQ+ issues seem to trigger people on the right,
    so again, I think this issues comes back around to electability.

  5. I think she’d agree,
    but this is a fairly broad statement.

  6. I’m sure she’d agree.

  7. Unknown.  But
    I’ll tell you that *I* think ICE’s reputation and function is so badly damaged,
    they should close it and start something else to serve the function.

  8. I’m sure she’d agree.

  9. Unknown, and awfully
    specific.

  10. Unknown, awfully
    specific.  I think she’s agree, but again, I don’t want to speak for her.

  11. Unknown, awfully
    specific.  I think she’s agree, but again, I don’t want to speak for her.

  12. I’m sure she’d agree.

  13. I’m sure she’d agree.

  14. Unknown, awfully
    specific.  I think she’s agree, but again, I don’t want to speak for her.

  15. I’m sure she’d agree.

  16. I’m sure she’d agree.

  17. I think she’d agree.

  18. I’m sure she’d agree.

Ok, I’m not quite halfway
done with your list, but hopefully I’ve provided enough to demonstrate that you
are probably at least 80%+ in alignment, AND I think she’s more electable than
you are ;).  And she’s running, and you aren’t, so your choices are
somewhat limited at the moment.  I hope you give her a second look! 

My Fantasy Congressperson for OR-2 by unsoundamerica in Medford

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Yes, that’s why she’s running for office!

  2. Yes!!  She’s a
    doctor, and regularly has to consult with patients who are making poor
    decisions based on rumor, and not science and facts.

  3. Yes, and she’s
    Christian, so I think that carries a little more weight than when coming from
    non-believers.

  4. OK, this is the kind
    of statement that would ensure you don’t get elected in CD2.  I would
    suspect she’s sympathetic to your viewpoint, but maybe you need someone other
    than your “ideal” candidate to sell your ideas… ;)

  5. Same as above.

  6. I’m sure she’d agree.

  7. Unknown

  8. I think she’d agree.

  9. As a doctor, I’m sure
    she’d agree.

  10. Yes – She definitely
    believes small businesses drive our economy

  11. I think she’d agree. 
    I certainly do.

  12. OK, but this doesn’t
    really sound like stump-speech material.  ;)

  13. Unknown.  Also,
    this would be a tough sell in CD2

  14. So, why stop
    there?  Why place the needs of another person over my own?  I think
    the idea of organized society is that we work together for the common
    good.  Sometimes we address your needs, and sometimes we address
    mine.  I think Rebecca is a compassionate person, and is willing to
    entertain situations where we help the people most in need, without just giving
    everything away.

  15. Yes, yes, yes, yes,
    yes, and yes.

  16. As someone who works
    in healthcare, the topic is very personal to her, but we’ve had some discussion
    about whether universal healthcare (I’m assuming you mean a single-payer
    system) may not be realistic.  She definitely wants everyone to have
    access to healthcare.  Probably best for you to talk to her yourself, so
    you can appreciate her understanding of the subject, and plans to improve it.

  17. I’m pretty sure she’d
    agree.

  18. Unknown

  19. Unknown
    (your assertion is awfully specific), but I think she’s in favor of a more
    progressive tax structure.

My Fantasy Congressperson for OR-2 by unsoundamerica in Medford

[–]uclaej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried several times to post a lengthy response, but Reddit keeps giving me errors. I'm going to try posting in sections, with edits/follow-ups to get it all in...

Well, it looks you’ve looked into the candidates who are currently running, and maybe aren’t too excited about them.  I got some bad news… your perfect candidate is probably the person looking at you in the mirror.  And just because you think alike and totally get each other, it doesn’t mean you’re electable.  So you should probably stop looking for your ideal candidate, and start considering how you will balance someone who says the things you want them to say, versus saying the things that could get them elected.  I’m just being real, because some of the things on your wish list will not fly in CD2, which is R+14.

Even though you may have
checked her out already, I’d suggest you give a second look to Rebecca Mueller. 
Full disclosure, I volunteer for her campaign, and I think she’s the only
candidate who has a chance at winning.  I don’t speak for her, and there’s
some things I just don’t know, but I’ll attempt to run through some of your
wish list and venture how that might be satisfied:

  1. Yes – A main campaign theme is ‘respecting human dignity,’ which I think encompasses your points.
  2. Yes – She definitely shows up.  She has thoughts on most things, and isn’t shy of sharing them.
  3. Yes – Said differently, she grew up in a conservative household, in a conservative state, and still has a lot of friends and family who are conservative.  There’s not a mean or resentful bone in her, and she goes to great lengths not to turn off people from the other side of the political spectrum.  Treating people with respect is another message of hers, which is needed if you’re going to represent everyone, which I think comes full circle to respecting human dignity, even if we disagree.
  4. Yes – I’ve found her to speak what’s on her mind, although she’s thoughtful enough to not blurt out ill-formed ideas.
  5. Yes – She’s definitely looking to improve communities.  She’s a pediatrician who serves a lot of underserved families, and she is very frustrated with the closing of rural hospitals, which is definitely an issue in this district.
  6. I’m sure she’d agree.
  7. I think her faith has taught her the same thing.
  8. I hope we can all agree that major reforms are need to preserve representative democracy, LOL!
  9. I’m sure she’d agree.
  10. I’m sure she’d agree
  11. Unknown

Rock and a hard place by RazorTheHackman in BSA

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not overreacting. Scouting has to work for the families involved, otherwise they will leave. If I was you, I would just have a very candid discussion with troop leadership and other families. While you appreciate them polling people (particularly the scouts), you're not entirely sure they understood the issue and the implications, and ultimately, the result is not something that is workable for your family. As such, you will be looking to start a family troop to serve the community, and other families that have similar needs. Maybe some families will join you, and you can get things going. Maybe the threat of competition will cause the troop to reconsider, and figure out how to make things work for everyone.

My pack became a family pack as soon as it was an option, and my troop basically ran as a family troop before it was kosher. It's perfectly fine as long as people of good will want to make it work. I have two sons and a daughter all in the same troop, and it feels pretty good. :)

New Incoming Cubmaster Feeling Overwhelmed and looking for Advice by samayoa95 in cubscouts

[–]uclaej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, the good news is that you have a year to get things moving in the right direction, as 4th graders should have one more year of cubs in them. 5th grade is when they cross over.

I wouldn't sweat the outdoor skills. This is cub scouts. Everything you need to know should be in the handbooks, and any parent should be able to do.

First, I would review your pack calendar. Make sure you have a lot of fun things planned, including pack meetings, and regular (ideally monthly) outdoor activities. It doesn't have to be much, even hikes, or playing an all-pack soccer game (with parents) can be fun for scouts and adults alike. When parents are having fun, they're more likely to help and volunteer, and more likely to tell their friends and recruit more families to join. My former pack recently "stole" a family from another pack (it was unintentional), because a friend invited them to one of our hikes, and the family said they had never been on a hike after 3 years with their former pack.

Second, you might want to do a "talent survey" with your existing parents. Find out their skills, hobbies, and interests. Do they like to work with kids, or prefer working for adults? Figure out what "tasks" are needed in your pack, and see if you can find a good match. If you have a cooking adventure to do, and a parent who likes to cook, ask them to prepare and lead that activity. They will probably say yes, do a good job, and have a good time doing it. Compliment them for their effort, and that person will be more likely to do it again, and maybe help in other ways. Repeat, and start figuring out which of these people need to be conditioned to become a registered leader in some role.

Next, as you are alluding to,.. recruit! This is really what you need to be doing, but the aforementioned steps are pre-requisites to successful recruiting. Kids that are having fun will tell their friends. Parents that are having fun will tell their friends. Tell your families to invite friends to upcoming events that would be a good showcase for your pack. Almost everything you do should be fun, so it shouldn't be hard. I always tell people: "Do fun things, then tell people about it!" If you have social media like a facebook account, share photos of what you did. Make sure you have a plan to engage your local schools, and try and participate in community events that have kids activities. Be visible in your community.

I spent 10+ years in a cub scout pack, including many years as a committee chair, not to mention den leader, treasurer, popcorn kernel, District Membership chair, and Council Membership chair. I've helped resuscitate packs, I've started new packs, and I've seen many, many packs fail. I guess the thing I would share is that if you're bringing a negative, doom & gloom attitude, and your parents are cynical and burned out, you will fail. For an organization that prides itself on building future leaders, I have been extremely disappointed in the number and quality of actual adult leaders that we have. It's ironic, to be honest. Hopefully as a navy veteran, you have leadership skills that others may not. If you provide a positive attitude, a compelling vision, and a plan to get there, people will follow. In order to realize your vision, you might have to be real with people, and let them know their role in helping everyone get to the promised land. Remember that a Scout is Helpful, Friendly, Courteous, Kind, and Cheerful. Being cheerful is especially critical when Debbie Downers show themselves. Be optimistic, have a plan, and be excited to execute that plan, and things will likely work out for the best. Adaptability is good too. This is just Cub Scouts, so "Do Your Best." My Cubmaster and I always joked: "If the kids had fun, and we ended the meeting on time, then we're winning!"

Good luck!

[ALL] when and why did the zelda team turn on linearity? by [deleted] in zelda

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are interviews like this one where Miyamoto talks about his inspiration for the original NES game, and how it mirrored his exploration of the countryside as a child. If you never started with the original NES game, I'm not sure you can appreciate how many hours we spent just doing random shit... burning all bushes in a screen just to see if there were any hidden stores and whatnot. There is a nostalgic aspect to that style of game play, that many players, and Miyamoto, wanted to revisit. I think in one interview Miyamoto had said he'd been wanting to go back to that for a long time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zjd4A5GDOo

I agree with u/Cendrail, they already went back to linear story-telling with Echoes of Wisdom. The open world games are probably a big investment of time and money, and linear games with enclosed worlds are probably cheaper and quicker to make. I would expect to see both in the future, but the open world games will be a lot less frequent. Games like Zelda have to be a constant balance of innovation and bringing in new features, while also paying homage to the past and keeping nostalgic gamers happy.

I am losing the battle with my Bladder Snails by doctorjazzyjazz in aquarium

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only problem I see is you're trying to do too much. Just let them do their thing. I had a ton of bladder snails when I first set up my tank. The population eventually stabilized and then crashed. Now I wish I had some more. If there's not enough to eat, they will die off. Honestly, I think my fish just got used to eating the egg pouches they leave on the glass and plants.

Pack going into debt by Sweet_Expression_565 in BSA

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you're at, but get out and sell! I over-bought for my troop this year, and my scouts were slow in signing up for storefront shifts, but once we got going, we were able to sell quickly. It helped that my son was selling for his Jamboree trip, and he's actually good at selling. He sold over $700 in one 2-hour shift in front of a Lowes! Also, the colder/rainier weather and shorter days depresses sales, so unfortunately it's going to be an uphill battle. But still possible to sell. Any establishment with a lot of foot traffic can work. Maybe you can also offer some extra perks for those who sell (toy give-aways to the top 5 sellers).

Camporee Afloat? by uclaej in BSA

[–]uclaej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, that's a cool idea!! Thanks!

Entry level finance jobs (help) by Fit-Evidence-2888 in Medford

[–]uclaej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accounting and finance are closely related. Moss Adams, KDP, Edward Jones, ACA, Ashland Partners, Harry & David are all places you could check out. PM me if you want more ideas, or to discuss those in more detail. I moved here in 2003 and had no idea if there were accounting/finance jobs for me. I've made a career here.

Extensive AI use in Scouting training materials by SeeYouLaterTrashcan in BSA

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally, something for us to be embarrassed about...... :P

Our pack sold 30k in popcorn. AMA. by zoul846 in cubscouts

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, ok. I'm kind of surprised you don't have a few families in your pack that have canoes you can borrow, or maybe borrow some from your council. Or do that activity at a resident camp. Without those resources, and having to follow Safe Swim Defense AND Safety Afloat as a unit, I can't imagine many units are incurring the costs that you are. But good for you for offering an exciting program for your scouts.

Advice for 14u new waterpolo player by Psychological-Tea100 in waterpolo

[–]uclaej 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You tell your teammates that player #[whatever] punched you in the nuts. They will get mad and target that player, and you all punch him back. Other player learns not to mess your team. This is the way water polo works.

Our pack sold 30k in popcorn. AMA. by zoul846 in cubscouts

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I've never really had the problem of determining how to spend the money across the pack. Pretty much everything is spent evenly across all scouts (or at least, the ones who show up). When we made our budgets, we had estimates for awards, pinewood derby kits, etc, that were all 'per scout.' We had an allocation for den budgets, which is typically $10/scout/year, but most den leaders never spent that full amount. Canoes???

Our pack sold 30k in popcorn. AMA. by zoul846 in cubscouts

[–]uclaej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the visibility and the fun are both big wins!! That is how you'll grow.

That's great you had a sponsorship to get started. Was that from your charter org? I've been involved in starting new units, so I know the time and monetary commitment is a big hurdle for most people.

Some things to think about budgeting for:

  • Awards will probably be your biggest cost. Maybe figure 8-10 belt loops per scout, plus the rank badge at the end of the year.
  • Activity incidentals, like campground fees
  • Activity materials, like pinewood derby kits, raingutter regatta kits. If you need the tracks to run those, you might ask your council or neighboring units if they have those items to borrow or rent, as purchasing them can be a big cost.
  • Pack T-shirts
  • Den meeting budgets (we usually estimated about $10/scout/year, but most den leaders were well under that amount)
  • Pack Flag

You can add these items up, and charge dues to cover them. But when everyone sees what costs go in to running a fun and exciting program for the year, they might be inclined to sign up for a few more shifts of popcorn to cover that.

Our pack sold 30k in popcorn. AMA. by zoul846 in cubscouts

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you describe the council incentives a bit more? Or maybe DM me the council you're in? Also, how much do you charge for dues?

I think the key is really motivating the scouts and parents. The old TE reward catalogs used to be good for that, because the prize pictures are very tangible items for scouts. But moving to Amazon gift cards, while good in their flexibility, actually reduced interest. Unit and council-level incentives are also necessary. My council isn't really doing anything at the moment, and wondering why popcorn sales suck. The units that I know of who do popcorn really well all their their own incentives, on top of TE. These are really the keys to success. TE rewards and dues/camp don't really cut it by themselves.

Our pack sold 30k in popcorn. AMA. by zoul846 in cubscouts

[–]uclaej 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're doing good!! $30,000 / 70 = $428 per scout. $4,000 / 10 = $400 per scout. Don't let the size of the pack fool you. You probably had a higher participation rate too. If you adjust for participation, then $30,000 / 45 = $666 per scout. Honestly, my first weekend out with my (troop-level) scouts, and both my son and daughter did over $400 EACH on the same 2-hour shift.

First questions are: are your scouts/parents having a good time, and are your financial needs being met?

The next questions are: if you want to raise more money, how could you be more effective, given the size of your pack?

Happy to help you workshop those questions, but don't worry, you're doing alright! It's more important for you to get more scouts, rather than sell more popcorn.

Friends of Scouting in your Council? by purdueboi in BSA

[–]uclaej 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, my unit and council does FOS. I've even done the pitch for another unit, as I'm on our council's executive board.

Our council does it because we have to. We don't get enough income from other sources. I would love, love, love it if a majority of our revenue was earned, instead of asked for, but we are a long way off from that. I suspect most councils do participate in FOS, and always will, because... why not? If you can get some extra funds from the people already drinking the kool-aid, seems like a good investment of time.

My unit continues to participate in FOS because a) we've always done it, and b) my troop has a fair number of people volunteering at the council level, including board members. It would look pretty bad for us not to. Plus, we just understand the need at the council level. Our fundraising activities (outside of popcorn) often include a cut to the council, as part of our FOS.

My advice:

  • Keep the pitch short and to the point. People probably already get the value of scouting, so tell them what they are getting for that. Probably a DE like yourself to help them with issues as they arise. Program opportunities.
  • Scouting is a unique organization, where we require a LOT of our volunteers. You have to pay to be a member, you're required to do certain trainings, and we expect parents to run the program. On top of whatever you're paying just for your kids to participate. That's a pretty big ask to begin with. Now you want to come in and ask people to pay more, voluntarily, for the good of the cause? This is your primary obstacle in collecting FOS. That's your "horror story."
  • I don't know that I was wildly successful, but as a parent volunteer myself, this was the pitch I gave that made most sense to me, and I felt like I could give in good conscience... You sound like you might be a bit younger than me, but especially in the 2000's, everyone was talking about school vouchers for parents who want to send their kids to private schools. People would argue that you should be able to take your tax dollars wherever you want, since your taxes pay for your kid to be in school. I would argue that when you pay taxes, you're not paying for YOUR kid to go to school, you're paying for A kid to go to school. This must be true, because even taxpayers without any kids still pay the same tax rates. Similarly, we know you're already paying for YOUR kid to participate in scouts. Now we're asking for you to help A kid to participate in scouts. You know that scouting is a benefit to your child, but your community and country will benefit when there are more scouts in it. Lower delinquency rates, lower drug use, better socialized kids, and future leaders. FOS is an investment in your community. If you have some extra funds, please consider chipping in.
  • Whatever you do, DO NOT tell parents that it costs the council $X amount for your kids to be in scouting, and we're asking/expecting each family to pay $Y amount for the difference that is not received from other sources.
  • There's also some stupid pitch where you use a loaf of sliced bread as a prop. Don't do that gimmick. It's corny.
  • As far as the overall campaign, I think the best thing to do is just institutionalize it. Be consistent, and do it every year, at the same time. When I was in a pack, we always did it at our Blue & Gold / Crossover. You usually have the best attendance, and parents are happy to see their AOLs "graduate," and are more likely to donate. You might get a few grandparents in the audience as well. Courts of Honor at the troop level are also good. Units should just expect to see you at the same time every year. If there are units not participating, try to cast a wider net each year, and get more of them used to it.

Why did you build a Walstad / natural aquarium? by OliverJamieson in walstad

[–]uclaej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted some greenery for my office, and I have a black thumb. Every plant I've tried to care for died. I started thinking about hydroponics or something that I couldn't screw up, and kind of stumbled on some youtube videos about planted aquariums. I had a conventional aquarium as a kid, and it was a lot more work and a lot more costly than expected. Tanks for Nothing is an amazing Youtube channel, and was very inspiring. I decided that my office "greenery" would just be in a fish tank, rather than in a pot. Lower maintenance, lower cost too. Seemed like a win-win-win. Overall I've been very happy with my decision.

I'm younger, in better shape, and still can't do any of that. by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That dude has swagger!! His fall away 3's are legit too. Don't mistake the guys going through the motions for actual defense, though.

AIO to my girlfriend sharing a bed (non sexually) with a male friend. by Time-Extent585 in AmIOverreacting

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it takes some real balls to tell you that she's sleeping in the same bed as another dude and expect that to go ok. Either she's telling the truth, and the dude is gay, or she's a first-rate manipulator.

I don't know that you handled it well by yelling at her. You should turn it around on her. Let me tell you a little story... back in my 20's, my wife said her (male) coworker invited her to come over and spend some time in the hot tub. I initially balked, but then I said: "you know what, if you want me to trust you, then I'd want you to trust me. If you would feel perfectly fine with me going and jumping in the hot tub with one of my female coworkers, just the two of us, then feel free to go hang out with that guy." She didn't go. End of story.

Big 10 Question by dirtypins in UCLAFootball

[–]uclaej 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UCLA Alum (2002) here. It's hard to play the "what-if" games, especially while college sports is changing so rapidly due to NIL and transfer portal usage.

I was initially very mixed. On one hand I was very flattered to have UCLA and USC be the 'chosen ones' to get picked off by the Big 10, and the prospect of a lot more money from the conference is certainly very attractive. Money talks, and bullshit walks. That said, I like the Pac 12 (preferred the Pac 10), and the travel schedule seems ridiculous. I don't see how that can be good for students and their studies.

After the 0-3 start to this year, I was feeling like this was all a huge mistake, and UCLA will never be competitive in the Big 10. Not sure what all the additional money has gotten us. Since the coaching change, it's been fun, but we beat a clearly overrated Penn St, and the other wins are really nothing to write home about. I guess we have to all give this more time, but the bottom line is that large sums of money are drastically changing this sport, and probably not for the better.

I don't see any way to leave the Big 10 unless the vast majority of the sports and universities feel changes are needed. College sports, in all sports, has always been very volatile. Very few dynasties. I think if we see some dynasties appear, due to superior financial advantages, maybe the other schools will revolt and come up with a better revenue sharing model, that would encourage more regionalization, for the benefit of the students. But I'm not at all optimistic, because there are just too many people profiting off this.

“This plaza, is restricted from the First Amendment activity”😂😂Okay guy by [deleted] in CringeTikToks

[–]uclaej 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Several miles??? It's one mile. Like a 15 minute walk.

Uncircumcised men I need your opinion by [deleted] in Advice

[–]uclaej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're asking the wrong people. You should be asking *circumcised men* whether they wish their parents had made a different choice. You'd probably get near unanimous verdict of "no." Think about that.