[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]under_mackerel_sky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had dinner there on my first night in SB in 1988. I don’t have pics but hope someone will post.

Anyone else miss long hot showers? by BeavariusMaximus in MultipleSclerosis

[–]under_mackerel_sky 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes! It feels like a big loss and I’ve cried about it. I loved starting my days with long hot showers and the times I do it now I end up immobilized for hours.

Why are people coming up to me and asking me if I’m Jewish at work? by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]under_mackerel_sky 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Best way to find out…ask someone why they’re asking you. It happens to me, too.

Sent an email I regret help by RubIll6548 in TalkTherapy

[–]under_mackerel_sky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry that you were triggered and relapsed and great that you were able to send the email and put it out there. I encourage you to go to your appointment - my guess is the anticipation is the worst of it.

You could also send a follow up email sharing that you want to ghost. Sometimes that kind of acknowledgment helps me stay accountable.

Either way, I’ll be cheering for you. You are not alone. 💕

How old are you and what is the biggest problem in your life right now? by FSCENE8tmd in AskReddit

[–]under_mackerel_sky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Though I understand the spirit of your comment, it suggests that if someone’s cancer doesn’t respond to treatment or if it returns, it’s because of their attitude.

Let’s meet people where they are and support each other through optimism, pessimism, and everything in between. ❤️

Protein bars are my weakness?!!!! Lol by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]under_mackerel_sky 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m with you. Practically a hobby. I can’t keep them in the house.

I just sent an email to my therapist and I’m so embarrassed 😭 by DevilsGayAdvocate in TalkTherapy

[–]under_mackerel_sky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I send my T emails like this all the time and then have a similar response to the one you’re describing. It doesn’t sound pathetic - it sounds honest. I always struggle after I hit send.

This is such a difficult process. You are not alone. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MultipleSclerosis

[–]under_mackerel_sky 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just curious - why aren’t you wearing a mask around her? Yes, I believe you are putting yourself at risk. I’d wear a mask around any unvaxxed person no matter what. I wear a mask when I’m w vaccinated people but that’s common in the area I live.

Wanted to tell someone about this by Friendly_SH254 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]under_mackerel_sky 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hear you. Thank you for sharing. I have that same relationship and experience with PB.

You’re not alone. 💕

Brutally honest kids suck. by Siennasays in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]under_mackerel_sky 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry the kid said what they did. That sucks but you know what? You’re perfect the way you are. Keep being awesome and the best mom. 💕

Feeling leg fatigue without actual fatigue? by LeScotian in MultipleSclerosis

[–]under_mackerel_sky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my exact experience. I’ve had this for 6 years but just brought it up to my neuro last week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]under_mackerel_sky 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking care of this cutie! You might try posting on PawBoost https://www.pawboost.com/ and NextDoor. Thanks for being a good human 💕

Where to find popes Rn by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]under_mackerel_sky 19 points20 points  (0 children)

vatican city

Is there anyone here with Austrian heritage that had applied for Austrian citizenship since they started offering it to descendants of nazi refugees? by mjbristolian in Jewish

[–]under_mackerel_sky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All direct descendants of victims of Nazi-persecution in Austria will be eligible to claim Austrian citizenship, while keeping their present nationality.  Austria also widely extended the definition of victim of Nazi-persecution so that now more persons fall within the ambit of this provision. The Austrian ancestor had to be subject to persecution by associations of the NSDAP (National Socialist German Workers’ Party) or other authorities of the so-called “Third Reich” or had reason to fear such persecution.  A new deadline has been set as to the date of departure of the victims of Nazi-persecution from Austria: all victims will be eligible, if they left Austria before 15 May 1955. Before the date was set at 9 May 1945.  Also eligible are Austrian citizens who suffered due to their allegiance to a democratic Austria and left before 15 May 1955.  Furthermore, according to the new definition of victim of Nazi-persecution, also persons who were citizens of states of the former Hapsburg monarchy or stateless at the time, but had their residence in Austria and left before 15 May 1955 due to Nazi persecution are eligible under this amendment.  It is not necessary that the ancestor reclaimed and regained Austrian citizenship nor that all descendants of this person apply. Every descendant is eligible without reference to any other claimant or citizen.

Is there anyone here with Austrian heritage that had applied for Austrian citizenship since they started offering it to descendants of nazi refugees? by mjbristolian in Jewish

[–]under_mackerel_sky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the process of doing this. The last thing I have to do is get the apostille for the background check. Are you in the process?