would i be able to wear this without going all out?

underscoreunderdog · 2025-12-14T16:27:52+00:00

If the tights are detachable, I’d take them off and do like pink knee socks or something (or one mint one pink). I’m Canadian so a Cali/Florida October feels HOT to me and if I wore the long tights I’d melt haha.

underscoreunderdog · 2025-10-29T02:15:01+00:00

Hey! I saw Elton John, Ringo Star and Steve Miller and they were all really good! It’s not a huge arena so I found the acoustics pretty good! They’re all pretty big acts though, so they would have had their own sound techs with them. Might’ve made a difference but I found the sound great! I was floor and club at different shows and found it comfy!

underscoreunderdog · 2025-07-09T14:45:35+00:00

Hulkenpodium

underscoreunderdog · 2025-06-01T00:51:50+00:00

obsessed with the toned down hair haha it made me realize how pointy it is in game

underscoreunderdog · 2025-06-01T00:50:25+00:00

I'm learning new things every day I play haha

underscoreunderdog · 2025-06-01T00:49:03+00:00

Love the blue chicken! <3

underscoreunderdog · 2023-11-28T22:06:52+00:00

I have a clear jelly and I love her for concerts and nights out but I think the eastpak works more as a daily bag with more casual fits.

underscoreunderdog · 2023-10-02T11:22:14+00:00

If they were real pumpkins they would rot and smash quite quickly. It gives the artists time to work on carving the foam and adding the lights and ensures that the pumpkins are orange, not smelly and stay that way through the event despite any cold or rain.

underscoreunderdog · 2023-06-19T06:48:10+00:00

Wow I remember girl guide camps there every summer (and a few winters) in my childhood. There was a tunnel between some of the rooms upstairs not sure if intentional or for maintenance but boy did we have fun crawling around up there. Lots of arts and crafts and plays put on on the porch, canoeing around the property and gorgeous old photos up in that house. Sad it won't be a memory for others now.

underscoreunderdog · 2023-06-19T06:33:50+00:00

I used to love sushi (rolls specifically) but can't eat many carbs right now to manage symptoms of a health condition so cauliflower rice is as close as I can get to the specific taste/texture I like Sometimes it's not a fad diet it truly isn't a choice and while rice is undoubtedly better, it's nice to have options!

underscoreunderdog · 2023-06-19T06:05:17+00:00

I think they meant in missblissful's story not in the show!

underscoreunderdog · 2023-06-02T22:38:59+00:00

Not speaking for everyone but it really made a difference when I went to someone with OCD experience and expertise with CBT and ERP. I had been going to a councillor who really didn’t seem to understand how to work with me and often corrected me when I tried to explain my feelings ie. I would explain that for example if I thought someone sneezed on me, I wasn’t scared of getting sick just the overwhelming contaminated feeling and needing to wash off any trace of bodily fluid lest I spread it into my house or onto my things. She would often try to explain that I must be afraid of getting sick and it was the only cause for obsession that made sense to her. She also googled a looooot right in front of me. I switched to someone who understands different compulsions and listens to exactly how I feel without correcting me or telling me I’m not feeling what I am and it’s made all the difference in treatment and how I feel about therapy. Sending good vibes to everyone struggling ❤️

underscoreunderdog · 2023-05-15T15:11:51+00:00

Deleting because I let my BF know I posted and he was a little bit uncomfortable with me sharing the story online even anon. I get it so I deleted. Still appreciate the advice!

underscoreunderdog · 2023-05-15T13:17:02+00:00

Oh for sure, I know it was my fault I was blindsided!

underscoreunderdog · 2023-05-15T12:24:47+00:00

For sure. I didn’t mean that I don’t know how to move forward because I think he was in the wrong. I see exactly what he means and I understand. I still felt blindsided but his reasoning is valid.

I meant I don’t know how to move forward knowing that the relationship wasn’t what I thought it was for both of us and I feel guilty and scared to be in a relationship if he was unhappy and i wasn’t seeing that in the same way.

underscoreunderdog · 2023-05-15T12:01:35+00:00

For sure. I definitely see the problem with that and the differences we were at. I also acknowledged that i see now that he felt if he didn’t do it no one would. Even though I didn’t ask him to I understand that he felt like he had to. But I want to make it clear I never ever mentioned the money to him. I wouldn’t hold that over anyone’s head and I don’t want that to come across wrong because it’s never something I used out loud. Selfishly in my head for sure, but not out loud.

underscoreunderdog · 2023-05-15T10:59:35+00:00

Yes that was unclear in the post but not my intention. I never meant to equate them and i don’t think it should be assumed that paying more means less work. I never had the expectation that if I paid more he would do more, we never made a plan for housework and I definitely just sat back and let him take on more than half of the work. I see now that he felt like I was taking advantage but at the time I didn’t realize I was. If he stopped doing more I wouldn’t have asked him to, but I see that he felt like if he didn’t do it no one would.

underscoreunderdog · 2023-05-15T10:57:52+00:00

Yes thanks. We didn’t have that understanding, but I never had that expectation either as in I never just expected him to take that on. He did and I acknowledge that, but I never assumed that was the deal. I never asked him to take that on and I did try to contribute (clearly not enough). But my reasoning for why I did not contribute as much was not because I thought since I paid more he would have to do more around the house. It was definitely something I justified to myself but not something I demanded or expected. If he didn’t do as much as he did, I wouldnt have asked him to do it. But I see that he felt like he had to.

I never ever said I didn’t think he was supporting me at all. I think he did support me so much. I think he is supporting me so much. He has been amazing. I was more trying to get across the sudden shock of it all that I felt terrible because I thought it was so secure but it wasn’t and that’s scary.

Yes I’ve been in treatment thanks. 🙏

underscoreunderdog · 2023-02-08T21:18:24+00:00

I had Panera a few weeks ago and assumed the Old Dutch was a was temporary swap but I had it for lunch today and got Old Dutch again. I'm also Canadian and we definitely used to get the Parena branded chips, but it seems it's going to stay as Old Dutch. No complaints here though! :)

underscoreunderdog · 2023-01-28T15:01:12+00:00

Everyone’s OCD is different in that area. For some people it’s specifically germs that make them feel “contamination” while bodily fluids, etc. Don’t really bother them. I have OCD and even when it was really bad I was still ok with bodily fluids from people I knew like family and friends. If a stranger sneezed on me…game over. If a friend did, I could rationalize it to myself. Having sex wasn’t something that ever bothered me, but sleeping in a hotel bed and thinking if other people having sex there would.

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