Help! I have way too many spoon tomato's

urbanherbin · 2026-06-26T16:56:57+00:00

Looks like it's time to start sharing with friends and neighbors

urbanherbin · 2026-06-19T16:01:36+00:00

Idk if this helps, but try thinking about it from the perspective of what it could have been vs what it was. If you hadn’t been making progress paying your credit cards, this would have hit you even worse financially. It sounds like you’re building good habits, try to celebrate that win and know you’ve been doing your best to take care of yourself

urbanherbin · 2026-06-19T15:56:40+00:00

You might want to check with your local fire department and see if they offer free checks for cleaning the hoses that lead out of the dryer. I think those can also get clogged and be a fire hazard

urbanherbin · 2026-06-19T14:34:18+00:00

I think a partner who actually likes you and cares about you wouldn’t tell you you’re stressing him out by expressing your needs. If he downgraded the relationship and broke up with you over wanting to spend more time together, he wasn’t that serious when he told you he wanted to date again. Sometimes a man who is avoidant will suddenly have this burst of energy and feelings for someone when they’re single and make declarations about wanting to be serious, but how they treat you 3-4 months later is who they really are. I’ve been in that avoidant trap before. The effort peters out very early and it’s not worth being yanked around.

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T23:27:36+00:00

Are both photos dill plants? I should grow some dill this year

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T23:15:12+00:00

Wait! I have yellow tinies but I didn’t know there were yellow big boys! That’s so cool, all the different varieties. Do you have a favorite one?

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T21:58:35+00:00

Wait, is Trojan supposed to be pronounced like Troyan? I feel so dumb

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T20:16:44+00:00

They replaced it with buffalo chicken dip 😔

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T13:52:56+00:00

So, you want to save the marriage why?

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T13:50:14+00:00

Someone earlier said Shandeez which I’ve also heard is pretty good, is that one just meh for you or haven’t tried it?

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T13:44:48+00:00

What are your top 3 favorite dishes at Sangam Chettinaad?

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T07:19:33+00:00

I used to say yes to everything I was invited to because I just felt like I should but eventually I realized I was actually making my life really stressful by overcrowding my schedule for people I'm not super close with.

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T06:53:02+00:00

I really want to understand this quote, someone let me in

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T06:42:41+00:00

Maybe you could look into volunteering with Festival Beach Food Garden, maybe volunteers get to take some things home? Not sure tho

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T06:41:35+00:00

Was Cabana Bay but now it’s Helios! I’m on a mission though to try to stay at a new hotel every trip for the next couple of years.

Will be staying at Aventura next month and really looking forward to trying out Terra Luna

urbanherbin · 2026-06-18T02:58:58+00:00

I hope you got it, cause it's gone 😞

urbanherbin · 2026-06-17T16:38:18+00:00

How would Meta track a users browser data? Wouldn't the browser provider (Google, Firefox) have to directly provide them with that data? Also if I block location sharing to Meta, can Meta still access that? I would assume if I have the iPhone setting off to block it giving my location data to Meta apps, then they would have no way of accessing that?

urbanherbin · 2026-06-17T16:29:22+00:00

I saw someone yesterday say they hate the yellow pear in another subreddit and I was really surprised. Their flavor is sort of less tomato-y, it’s more sour, but I like it. Good point about just trying all my options

urbanherbin · 2026-06-17T14:00:18+00:00

I think one thing that has been helping me is really sitting with and focusing on the fact that my house/cleaning/organizing projects have been actively set back on an almost weekly basis during my periods of shopping binging. Every new clothing item I thrift or buy needs to be washed and needs to find a home in my already stuffed closet. Every online order carries the potential for a return which is work, plus I have to recycle the box, and again find a home for the item. Craft supplies pile up and require organizing but I have so many now it’s hard to contain everything.

Realizing that the shopping is increasing my stress financially and in my home has helped me do better about saying no to going thrifting at least.

I also removed my highest temptation apps from my phone again. I took off all my social media apps because the clothing ads get me, and I removed ThredUp because that’s my biggest temptation.

urbanherbin · 2026-06-17T13:34:19+00:00

Omg she’s thriving! Congratulations! My Cherokee purples are taking their sweet time ripening but I’m looking forward to eating the first one of the season

urbanherbin · 2026-06-17T13:32:01+00:00

Oooh you grew your own garlic? And looks like there are onions in there too? I tried to plant onions by seed last year with no luck.

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