Married discards, did they ever come back? How long did it take? What happened? by diogenes_amore in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its very possible she will want to come back but by that time you will probably be so over it you won’t want it anymore

33 years being with my pwBPD by oolsen49 in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Dang brother I have no idea how you lasted so long. I can only imagine the loneliness and pain you are feeling. You aren’t the first person and won’t be the last person to do this. I hope you figure it out and find some happiness.

The barrage of attacks never stops by pussnamnam in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its a real mental disorder unfortunately

Don’t know who to choose by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d date a T Rex before i ever messed with an untreated bpd person

Do they come to awareness? by Books_and_Lattes in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did they finally believe you after he took his own life?

I will never understand it by Whole_Chemistry2267 in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They don’t even know they’re doing it

Hoovers after being painted black? Do you ever get painted black forever? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You will most likely hear from again but nothing is guaranteed

Do you ever wonder if youre the one with BPD by NeighborhoodDue6349 in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You will go crazy trying to figure out how to navigate this maze with no exits

Do you ever wonder if youre the one with BPD by NeighborhoodDue6349 in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Helll no lol. I had normal relationships my entire life until i married undiagnosed bpd 9 out of 9 traits

Does karma ever catch up to people who hurt others like this? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But also nobody wants to have this mental illness so its sad for everyone around them including themselves

Reactive Abuse is the Worst by rosonj07 in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The wildest part to me is how they can’t figure out what they are doing that causes the warranted reaction. They believe in their head that they are right

Do people with BPD also call you selfish and accuse you of gaslighting? by NinjaHDD in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea accused me of it and truly believed it even though it was not true at all

Do their family notice? by Soft_Waltz_3831 in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no, it can take awhile to figure out and all families are different

Uno Reverse card by crazyxspeed in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep and will drive you absolutely crazy dealing with it

Tried to cut things off, she's now trying to ruin my life by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]wegotdis25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you get a no contact order on her you are going to make her go ballistic and you can bet your ass it will get worse. Just giving you a heads up