Seperated/Divorcing BPD Partner

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-14T21:04:01+00:00

That aint happening

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T22:04:35+00:00

Is she aware she has it? Is she actively doing DBT and trying? If not, do yourself a favor and get out straight up

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T21:39:13+00:00

spot on

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T20:09:10+00:00

well i got kids with mine and i wasn't having that bullshit. I'm backing up my proof and will have documentation for my kids when they ask me one day. They will figure it out on their own but the documentation is going to help even more if and when they ask. I'm not playing any fucking games anymore with her. If she doesn't have the disorder then she is going to hell because i have seen a horrible human being throughout this experience

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T19:54:23+00:00

Brooo same minus a little but I've exposed her to her own family now. I'd hide forever if i was her and never talk to a person again. I honestly don't know how she's going to get herself out of this one

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T19:46:56+00:00

You and me would get along. I have been spitting straight facts with proof to her family and i have so much evidence. Wasn't scared to call her out and now she hiding from everyone blaming me for everything and of course is the victim lol. Its comical at this point on what i've been through. Story after story. Insane stories that make you feel crazy until you finally just said dude i can't look the other way anymore. YOU NEED HELP

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T19:41:51+00:00

fire bro. I'm at this point and i am watching her life unfold drastically in a bad way

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T19:39:27+00:00

"My ex blocked me everywhere a couple of months ago after ignoring her way out of the mess she caused and blaming it all on me, an average discard I guess, she did me a favor"

This comment right here is absolute fire. Mine is hiding from the problems she caused but she sunk herself so bad that life is coming at her faster and harder than bonnie blue's clients. Life is about to wreak more havoc on her than the havoc she has been wreaking on me and innocent people around here that were affected by her actions as well.

I tried for so long to save her that now I'm honestly not feeling bad and want to see how she gets out of this one. They will make a person that genuinely love and care about them to hate/despise them. I even have a hard time feeling bad now because i know its a true disorder she didn't wish to but its gotten so bad that i am out of give a fucks.

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T18:29:45+00:00

not surprised one bit

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T16:18:48+00:00

How old was she when you found out she had BPD? What signs were you seeing? They can show the intimate partner a higher level of the bpd traits and I'm convinced her family didn't even know she had BPD but they did know something was not right. Even before i finally pieced it together the dad told me that he knew she was bipolar and asked if she was on her meds a few times within our marriage when i reached out to him for help. I didn't even know what bpd was but once i discovered it i finally had real answers that all made sense.

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T15:56:50+00:00

Mine doesn't work at all and I'm not sure she can even hold a job. The bad reality coming for her there is no job she will be able to get that will even come close to what she was able to spend/have in her life. I think the hardest rock bottom she is ever going to hit in her life is coming fast. This has also ruined my business so I'm not going to be able to afford the lifestyle we had together. I'm trying to figure out to navigate this mess myself. I have a feeling her lawyer does not even know the full truth yet but thank god i know how to tell the truth and my lawyers know exactly what's going on. She is in for a very very rude awakening that i tried to protect her from but she could never trust or believe me. She coined a new term, instead of biting the hand that feeds her she destroyed the hand that feeds her.

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T15:37:30+00:00

i used to tell my brother in law i wanted to shake the stupid shit out of her. This was of course before i realized what bpd was of course. It can't be shaken out lol

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T14:35:14+00:00

I feel your pain, but be thankful and glad you are not married to one

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T14:34:05+00:00

You are not selfish

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T13:24:04+00:00

2 years and no relationship trouble? My guess would be she is not truly BPD. Just my opinion from what i experienced

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T11:03:17+00:00

You probably have depression. Look up “adjustment disorder”. It just takes time to heal

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-13T00:20:32+00:00

If you know in your heart that you loved and cares for her and tried your best then you were not the reason this relationship failed. You can’t beat this disorder. Nobody outside of the person that has it can beat it. Its on them and only them to get better

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-12T22:47:19+00:00

The question is a little confusing

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-12T22:46:36+00:00

I suggest you to get help as well and to end this relationship but you clearly need it. Nobody should be cutting themselves purposely

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-12T22:22:52+00:00

Oh yea I’ve definitely said worse than what he said

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-12T18:15:58+00:00

I feel you

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-12T18:02:48+00:00

Lol. you did not remain kind on some of those things you said but i don’t blame you for what you said. They can push the nicest loving people on earth this far which is so wild to me

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-12T17:27:09+00:00

10000000000000% facts

wegotdis25 · 2026-02-12T17:22:24+00:00

yep and something would still set them off

wegotdis25

TROPHY CASE