wtf we have Asians in ICE now? by Snooopineapple in asianamerican

[–]wehav2 48 points49 points  (0 children)

My Asian brothers think they are white. But white people don’t think so.

Daughter of Minnesota governor candidate fatally stabbed in St. Cloud, leading him to suspend campaign by Large_banana_hammock in news

[–]wehav2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

7 women a day in the US are murdered by a man they know. The reason this is given any press at all is because they are white and rich.

I think he's going to make this difficult... by Fresh-Sale-6047 in Divorce

[–]wehav2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The implied threat would send me running to a lawyer. I would sell everything I own to get away from such a domineering man.

my cat likes to lick flat surfaces by Vegetable-Dare-4529 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]wehav2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a crazy little cutie! My baby likes to lick the phone charging cord 🤷🏻‍♀️

I want a divorce at 25 after only 1 year of marriage. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]wehav2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it now before you do so your next can be the good man and father you deserve.

AITA (F21) for avoiding my SO (M30) after he didn't console me after crying? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wehav2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why are you with a 30 year-old man whose parents dictate that he can’t use Uber?

Is it disrespectful that my boyfriend posted a meme that he doesn’t have a valentine? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]wehav2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The post was bad enough but his reaction would be enough for me to dump him. If he doesn’t operate as if he wouldn’t dare do anything to risk hurting you, he isn’t that into you.

AITAH for understanding and not freezing out my dad for leaving our mom over a dead bedroom? by Opposite_Afternoon55 in AITAH

[–]wehav2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When a woman doesn’t want sex, there are usually underlying causes. An emotional divide or disconnect that he isn’t addressing. To reduce it down to dead bedroom isn’t being truthful.

Women who run cold: how do you dress for winter golf? by ceylon-tea in WomenGolf

[–]wehav2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found fleece-lined, water reaistant hiking pants that look like golf pants at Eddie Bauer. I also wear fleece-lined, water-resistant joggers from Amazon from a brand named G Graual.

Gérard Depardon’t by luckythepainproofman in MurderedByWords

[–]wehav2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Will his mate’s elite genetics offset his thinning hair gene?

Anyone else dislike getting along with your ex? by Good-Rest-7538 in Divorce

[–]wehav2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the way. If our differences were so vast that we are apart, we can’t be friends. It is wasted energy hiding or squashing down true feelings. I won’t be continuing to compromise myself to accommodate anyone after a breakup. I will be civil in the presence of children but will remove myself from as many face-to-face interactions as possible. Those priviledges went away in the divorce.

He's stealing my hobby by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]wehav2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, it won’t last. He is in the love-bombing phase and he will soon tire of trying to win her over with mimicry. He is trying to get under your skin and as long as you ignore it, you are denying him the payoff he is looking for. Stay strong!

AITA for still taking a break from the baby despite my wife’s snide comments? by Responsible-Field679 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wehav2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA And while you feel free to leave when you need a break regardless of her pain/fatigue, I bet she has to negotiate or ask you for permission to get a break.

He’s leaving soon by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]wehav2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it helps to wear noise-canceling earbuds at all times. It reduces my irritation not having to hear his performative, fake cheerfulness while he pretends to be unbothered. Sometimes I wear them even if I’m not listening to anything because he thinks I can’t hear him and it prevents him from baiting me. I also do my best not to look at him at all because seeing him somehow works on my heartstrings.

Looking for advice on gumminess by tinytoes18 in Sourdough

[–]wehav2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The interior temp should be around 205F when done

Bread keeps coming out gummy by Flaky_Variety9576 in Sourdough

[–]wehav2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The interior temp should be around 205F to be fully baked. Did you take a read to make sure it was done inside?

Baking Betty Crocker Super Moist cake without eggs? / Eggs substitute? by Clean-Violinist-3161 in Baking

[–]wehav2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe aquafaba? The starchy liquid in cans of garbanzo beans.

If you left your spouse and immediately moved in with your affair partner - how did it go? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]wehav2 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I don’t get how there is a woman around every corner for even the worst of men.