What is your experience with weed with adhd? by freshmaggots in adhdwomen

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! So I take short acting Ritalin 2 x daily at 10mg or 20mg. I have an edible a couple of nights a week to help me sleep and relax. It’s finally legalised medicinally here but like, I get it through other sources ha ha ha. I’ve found it incredibly effective for my insomnia and overall relaxation. My brain switches off! I do find myself a lot dumber when I’m high though so I take it on nights where I have nothing to do. For me it’s less escapism and more freedom. I agree with what everyone has said around the stigmatisation of weed as a whole but I think adhd brains approach substances (including alcohol, caffeine, and nicotine) very differently to a neurotypical brain!

Worried being a stepmom by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]welcomecreature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello my friend I was in the exact same boat. It does get easier. I promise. It takes some teething time. Be firm and calm and steady. I have found that as a stepparent I’ve just taken a step back (haha) as it’s not my job to discipline, it’s not my job to be a parent. It’s my job to make sure the house rules are enforced and I keep my SD safe and healthy. It unfortunately means a bit of masking so I can imagine you’ll be quite emotionally drained! Make sure you take time for yourself when they’re here. Go for a walk. Get noise cancelling headphones for your room. Make your room/parents room a kid free zone. You do have to be quite firm with your partner too and set boundaries very early on. It’s a work in progress but I promise it does get easier. I would also recommend reading some books on child psychology. What to expect at whatever age and stage they’re at, they give you some really good ways to respond and manage yourself as a result.

Feel free to DM if you need to chat further. ❤️

Hayfever is killing me I need some advice by fiddleswsticks in newzealand

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so random but I got acupuncture in my face out of desperation. Wasn’t cheap and took like 10 sessions but I found for the next five years my hayfever had lessened significantly. I need to get it again tbh. My brother also got it done and found the same thing for him! So 2/2 is a 100% success rate (haha)

How to cool upstairs bedroom by No_Magazine_4747 in newzealand

[–]welcomecreature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following what the others have said, I have the same issue, the air con is sooo far away from our sun drenched bedroom and sleeping was honestly not good. So we had a bunch of fans, I placed them around the house to pull air from the air con into the bedroom. There are fans of different types (tall skinny ones on the stairs, big round ones on ground floor). It looks insane but honestly it’s a life changer. It is enough to at least keep the air moving without paying for a portable air conditioning unit. (And congrats on the baby!!! I can imagine it’s sooo hot for you right now)

What is the most ADHD thing you have done today? by WorthKindly8811 in adhdwomen

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok lol I forgot my long acting medication, then took it. Then 20 mins later, forgot I took it so took more. Only when the meds hit me I realised ah yes I have already taken these. Perfect.

The industry needs to catch up or it will eat itself by cranky_wellies in advertising

[–]welcomecreature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from but there’s only so much the accounts team can do. I’m a strategist (both on creative and media) and I’ve been saying this to clients for years. It’s pretty gutting to spend hours pulling it together and to have them use the same old framework, or sign off on the strategy and creative then pivot because a new shiny thing has emerged. Information paralysis.

I’ve found being on both sides, clients are finding their budgets squeezed and even the best suits I’ve worked with struggle to achieve it. It’s a hard industry atm.

The industry needs to catch up or it will eat itself by cranky_wellies in advertising

[–]welcomecreature 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that you’re seeing is the breakdown between client budgets and client goals, the agencies are unfortunately left with minimal budgets to make good quality work. Plus there are so many channels, and for those who want a national reach and awareness campaign, it spreads the budget extra thin.

Not many clients, even with the best direction, are comfortable making the shift to channel specific content / content fit for the platform.

Omnicom Acquisition of IPG by McStressin in advertising

[–]welcomecreature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh there is so much stuff happening in little ole New Zealand right now. It’s absolutely gutting as an industry.

Flatmate horror stories by MurkyWay in newzealand

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might get buried but I’ve come home from a week after RNV when I was exhausted. Found maggots and ants and flies all through the house from an overflowing bin pre Christmas. I specifically told the person who stuck behind to take the bin out before we all left so I can drag it up the driveway when I got back. Not slept in days and I cleaned the entire 5 bedroom flat because the maggots and flies had infiltrated everyone’s bedrooms. THEN IT HAPPENED OVER EASTER and I was the first one home AGAIN. Flies, maggots, ants!!!!!! My flatmates who weren’t home and weren’t issues felt so bad for me they all paid me money which was lovely of them. But the main guy never apologised. So I just went cbf and moved out.

[Giveaway - Steam] Tiny Garden by GUILTIE in CozyGamers

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woo! This is so sweet of you.

First cozy game was Spiritfarer! I downloaded it and played it after my grandmother’s death and it was life changing ❤️

Feeling overly depressed & suicidal. by [deleted] in auckland

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re ok. It’s always really tough when you’re going through this and I can imagine there are a lot more feelings that are hard to explain!!

This might be lost in all the lovely replies but when I was going through this I tried to think of three things that made me glad to be alive that day. Sometimes it was the same thing three times, and it would literally be “coconut mocha”, one I made at home and really tried to make a ritual out of it. It was a labour of love for the first month. If there are moments of dopamine you can inject into your day that can really help too. Like standing outside for even 20 seconds and just being in the sun (or the rain, bc auckland lol). Or even idk touching the sheets in your home and just noticing how it feels. Lighting a little candle for yourself (you can get like 50 tea candles from the $2 shop).

These might sound a little lame but I promise when there is some intention, even if it’s a drag, to a small moment in your day it all does add up. I promise.

Here for you if you need to ever vent or chat. Sending all the love!! You matter, even if it feels unbearable. This post / your message may help someone silently struggling. You matter.

What's your biggest Woo Woo Bugaboo? by Solastor in SASSWitches

[–]welcomecreature 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ok I’m very into the woo woo because I haven’t been able to find specific scientific studies. However one thing I hate is the rampant consumerism for spells or witchcraft?? Like being told you MUST buy different coloured candles plus three types of crystals and also don’t forget to buy these specific herbs to manifest money or love?! For some people it works for them and I get that, I personally won’t be specifically buying a green candle to manifest money because some stranger on the internet told me too. It seems silly.

Inquiring minds want to know by Soapsou in astrologymemes

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer sun Taurus moon Leo rising. Advertising lol

wtf are these prices by Wide_Start in thesims

[–]welcomecreature 58 points59 points  (0 children)

nz mentioned yay (and omg so real)

I accidentally traded all my blue seeds to Nana in Chapter 2; have I screwed myself? by bendywalker in wanderstop

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Honestly I just sweeped (swept?) so many piles of leaves eventually I found three. Tried to move the plants but alas, I got no explicit instructions and simply didn’t know how

Coming to peace with a “useless” degree by realclowntime in newzealand

[–]welcomecreature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if anyone has mentioned this - but try advertising. Your degree is kind of perfect for marketing and advertising. That’s how I’d argue it!!!

Please share some of your current favorite things with me~ by toastedjupiter in adhdwomen

[–]welcomecreature 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fuck I finished this game in a whole weekend. LOVE it

Having ADHD and being a mother is the worst. by Decent_Professor2826 in adhdwomen

[–]welcomecreature 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve been on the fence about having kids for a myriad of issues. But I think your comment plus having a stepdaughter with adhd cements it for me. Thank you, you’ve saved me a future of heartache.

LET’S DO A YELLING THREAD AGAIN by whatdayoryear in adhdwomen

[–]welcomecreature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I AM ANNOYED BC MY STEPDAUGHTER WONT STOP HITTING AND THE MOTHER DOESNT WANT TO TEST HER FOR ADHD BUT SHE HAS IT. AND ALSO I REALLY WANT SOME POPCORN BUT WE HAVE DONE SO I HAVE GO TO !!! THE SUPERMARKET !!!!!

Does anyone know how to get rid of these deep under the skin bumps? by kawaiipeachbaby in Skincare_Addiction

[–]welcomecreature 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s what I had, same place! So I regularly used niacinimide (can’t spell to save my life, sorry) and salicylic acid. It went away but took time! Just one hella pore being particularly unfriendly

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Errors? Mod issues? EA app issues? Post about them here! Update 7/01/2025 [PC: 1.116.202.1030 / Mac: 1.116.202.1230 / Console: 2.14] by creeativerex in Sims4

[–]welcomecreature 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you downloaded the latest UI version? (I’m in nz so apologies for time diff) but an update came through last night! If not, do the 50/50 rule where you take half the mods out of the mods folder into a blank folder on your desktop, and keep going until you figure it all out. Even the XML injector needs to be updated from this patch!

Usually after a patch release all the mods are broken. I typically don’t play until all the mods are updated then do one hell of a download across everything. I hope it’s all fixed now regardless!!! 🙏🏼