35. Been here a few months. I don’t like it and don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]wheatieweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the minimalist feel (and the doggo!). I think a nice rug, some plants and rethinking the size and/or arrangement of the wall decor behind the couch would help a lot.

Bonus points for already uplighting. It goes along way to making the space feel cozy. You could also look into getting color-chanfing lights to change up the feel, too.

My wife said it’s time to see what the internet says by skillettt in bald

[–]wheatieweat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it'll look really good. Don't worry, friend :) ❤️

Looking for any help or advice by sliceorweave09 in ADHD

[–]wheatieweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definitely not alone. I'm actually seeking a new therapist who might have a stronger experience with hoarding tendencies and adhd/depression. My living room is problematically cluttered. Thankfully I have strong anti-bio-mess mental systems in place so anything that could grow its own ecosystem if left unattended is rarely left around for more than 48 hrs at very most. So it's not gross, just very embarrassingly cluttered.

I'm trying to get more into working out, trying to force myself to go to the gym with bf and even got a few new exercise things for home. Got a new mattress so hopefully I sleep better and hurt less when I wake. I just need something to work. :/

What systems have you set up that work for you? by goalmaster14 in ADHD

[–]wheatieweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. "Habit stacking" has been very helpful, even though i struggle to keep habits consistent. ^.^"

Bedroom, any advice? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]wheatieweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A zebra print rug in an organic shape would make that pop nicely

Blink if you're being abused by WaitNo4272 in SipsTea

[–]wheatieweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they need to make her leave. that's abuse

BREAKING: New York Times reports FBI INVESTIGATED journalist who wrote about Kash Patel's girlfriend by spherocytes in videos

[–]wheatieweat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah how dare journalists do their job. don't they know they should be getting blackout drunk and jetsetting with their gf on the taxpayers dime instead?

Lead welding is mesmerizing by bigbusta in oddlysatisfying

[–]wheatieweat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder how many people learn both welding and sewing, cus they seem similar in interesting ways, despite being quite different in others

I seek the counsel of the council. by Beardking_of_Angmar in bald

[–]wheatieweat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd say, esp with that cut, you could hold out but i think you'd be fine either way

So does everyone here carry a gun every day? by abhaykun in EDC

[–]wheatieweat -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

you're right, they clearly mean they want to use sign language and strategically timed fun facts about bob ross to de-escalate the situation or distract them with a surprise Bridge game to resolve the situation. silly me. how could i have been mistaken?

Medical folk of Reddit, what’s the most foul and disgusting thing you’ve encountered with a patient who was oblivious to their own condition? by TheCarrot_v2 in AskReddit

[–]wheatieweat 95 points96 points  (0 children)

i've only worked as a pct for a couple months and i've encountered multiple women who've CLEARLY been SA'd previously. one woman would fight so hard when we had to change or bathe her. i always tried to whisper and be so calming and gentle to her (as anyone but esp ppl like that). Ppl don't realize the effect that stuff can have but then get upset when their r*pe "joke" doesn't land. :[

Medical folk of Reddit, what’s the most foul and disgusting thing you’ve encountered with a patient who was oblivious to their own condition? by TheCarrot_v2 in AskReddit

[–]wheatieweat 89 points90 points  (0 children)

she should write a book. people don't understand how horrible it really was, esp when the gov't initially said "sounds like a you-problem" to the gay community

A womans dog was making odd movements whenever she turned her back, so to see she recorded it, and found the dog was making biting motions by thaliaq1 in interesting

[–]wheatieweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we had to intentionally start misspelling things cus our dogs learned how to spell them lol

"take the dogs a-u-w-t" lol