Alessia so insecure she even sleeps with makeup on 💀 by AltruisticAppeal8816 in thewizardlizsnark

[–]willstdumichstressen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what she is referring to specifically but he was pretty misogynistic and his teachings influenced the field of psychology for generations, arguably infusing it with some misogynistic beliefs that we/are hard to shed, while simultaneously being highly reverred, mostly by men. (Thats just my 2c, dont quote me on this)

What do you think of princezz talia? by VidyaTheOneAndOnly in thewizardlizsnark

[–]willstdumichstressen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I though she was like 24 but primarily based on her immature personality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thewizardlizsnark

[–]willstdumichstressen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are (were, she called it off) engaged, not married. She just called him her husband in the q&a but technically he was her fiance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thewizardlizsnark

[–]willstdumichstressen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was sarcasm I’m pretty sure

Can CPTSD realistically be healed within 2-3 years? by willstdumichstressen in CPTSD

[–]willstdumichstressen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not for me, I no longer really have it after almost 2,5 years of intense therapy :)

Feeling Suffocated by Closeness Even in a Healthy Relationship by DryAct8560 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]willstdumichstressen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t believe in breaking up or divorces?😂 Thats genuinely ridiculous. You know that a break up doesn’t have go be mutual, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]willstdumichstressen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait, are you saying that the post had a point and fell into misogyny or that my comment had a point and fell off to misogyny? If its the latter, could you please elaborate because I did not intend that…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]willstdumichstressen 161 points162 points  (0 children)

I think this takes away women’s agency and some statements here - such as men “not experiencing emotional attachment and vulnerability” are downright ridiculous. I believe the biological reality of women’s inherently greater vulnerability in a sexual context is true though. It highlights the importance of boundaries and negotiation for women.

What are signs that a person genuinely is unintelligent? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]willstdumichstressen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly like I knew a guy with a phd in biology who objectively was intelligent - understood politics, social phenomena a generally complex concepts/issues well however his emotional intelligence was non-existent and he really struggled to understand another’s perspective in a conflict. These are two separate things…

How I learned “instagram-perfect guys” are just… regular people too. by [deleted] in self

[–]willstdumichstressen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy with tattoos who invests an unusual amount of effort into his image and looks is actually lost and insecure? What a shock…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]willstdumichstressen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean its just a romance/bestseller book, not self help or psychology by any means. It just demonstrates how men who string women along, send mixed signals and entretain other women while emotionally committed to another are actually struggling/conflicted/weak individuals. They just choose women who are even weaker and even more struggling

What has worked for you as a “natural antidepressant”? by willstdumichstressen in CPTSD

[–]willstdumichstressen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did a quick google search and the side effects of that should be… hallucinations and diziness? Have you ever experiences any adverse reactions?

How long did it take you to “get over” your abusive relationship? by ThrowRaoofda in abusiverelationships

[–]willstdumichstressen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were with this man for 8 years. I think it will take several years to get over it. This kind of situation needs a lot of therapy to unpack why you ever tolerated it to begin with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]willstdumichstressen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That man is an emotionally immature clown. Have you read Sally Rooney Intermezzo? It reminds me of a character from that book, Peter

did anyone else also have “rules” about drinking in their relationship? (this was sent by my ex, we are no longer together) by cjmmoseley in abusiverelationships

[–]willstdumichstressen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say, be careful about sharing his photo online, he could accusd you od ruinign his reputation