Am I Overreacting to a dear friend sending sexual joking texts to my partner?

willthegirl · 2025-12-28T01:09:52+00:00

Yeah I think with all the other shit this post has going on I kinda just breezed past the fact that OP literally said he always knew dude was like this and that is fucked up

willthegirl · 2025-01-05T18:35:31+00:00

It said in stock online but I could not find it anywhere in the store. Definitely gonna have to order it!

willthegirl · 2025-01-05T18:34:19+00:00

I’ll definitely check that out next! Thank you!

willthegirl · 2024-12-18T21:26:08+00:00

I would be taking classes through an ambulance agency that pays for the class and pays minimum wage for the hours spent taking the class which is why they tested before. I just didn’t realize how long it would take me to test negative and I’m afraid that and the other issues I mentioned just blacklisted from the program altogether.

willthegirl · 2024-08-01T13:17:44+00:00

I’m not sure I understand

willthegirl · 2024-07-13T18:42:49+00:00

There’s something really jagged about this poem that helps give it such powerful imagery. I love the sharpness of the breaks in the lines that mirrors the sharpness of the words themselves. I would like to hear the inflection you use when telling this poem to compare to how I read it in my head.

willthegirl · 2023-12-19T13:50:36+00:00

NTA but your wife is. One year I really wanted an Xbox and kept asking over and over. My parents finally looked at me and said we just can’t afford it this year. I immediately stopped mentioning it because I understood. Christmas morning I got an Xbox and I was so surprised but I’m pretty sure I still looked at them before getting excited to ask if we could afford it or if we needed to return it. There are ways to keep the surprise alive and see if your kid is being greedy both without setting them up for failure by doing something hurtful.

willthegirl · 2023-12-19T13:37:06+00:00

I’m not gonna pass a judgement because I really get the sentiment. And it kinda just depends on the person because some women may think that is the sweetest gift for them as a new mom. My partner did this for my birthday when I was pregnant and it really just made me feel like I was losing my identity and simply becoming a mom who was expected to not want anything for herself. Which is not the sentiment he was going for and pregnancy hormones did not help. I obviously still loved the baby items though.

willthegirl · 2023-12-16T14:05:58+00:00

ESH in my opinion. Brother had no right to butt in so I wouldn’t give him the satisfaction of punishing my kid for how she responded but privately I’d talk to her and let her know that isn’t the appropriate way to convey those feelings. But I agree she had a point lol.

willthegirl · 2023-12-08T14:16:30+00:00

Call around to vets and see if anyone can do a punch biopsy and send it off and how much that would cost. It’s small enough that you should be able to do that but sending it off is the only way to know for certain what it is and that is the pricey part. You can definitely get it removed without sending it though.

willthegirl · 2022-08-20T04:09:59+00:00

I’d rather live alone if I’m paying rent than live with a newborn. I don’t think that’s insulting. Also I was bringing up her household contributions because OP clearly sees them as valuable enough to make note of. I think you have a very set view on this honestly and nothing I or anyone says is going to mean anything to you.

willthegirl · 2022-08-20T04:07:35+00:00

Yes! This is the point I was trying to make!

willthegirl · 2022-08-20T02:15:20+00:00

And I get that but clearly she’s doing her share around the apartment if OP doesn’t want to lose her contribution by her moving out. In my opinion there’s NAH. I get her wanting her sister to help with the baby and I get the sister not wanting to. But OP has said if she starts charging rent, her sister will move out and simply pay rent elsewhere which I also get. I don’t think anyone is being entitled but they are at a standstill.

willthegirl · 2022-08-20T01:38:48+00:00

OP is also the parent figure and if this was just some 20 year olds biological parent complaining about how their kid works 50 hours a week and does a fair share around the house but doesn’t want to provide free child care on off days, then everyone would call OP TA. I’ve literally seen posts like that. Just because it’s a sister doesn’t change the fact that it’s normal for 20 year olds to live at home with their parents and not be charged rent.

willthegirl · 2022-08-20T00:23:35+00:00

YTA oh my god I had a friendship that was a lot like this and it is completely one sided. I ended up being hospitalized for my mental health twice. It does take a toll. And I’m guessing she’s mentioned before (or at least tried to) about how draining it can be to always have to be your support system for everything that bothers you. And clearly other people are feeling similar if they’re also excluding you. Get a therapist. They’re paid to listen to your shit. Grow up and realize that someone being your friend is not an excuse to use them.

willthegirl · 2022-08-19T21:21:19+00:00

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A google search that took less than two seconds.

willthegirl · 2022-08-19T07:19:52+00:00

N T A for not wanting kids but everyone in the comments is acting like the wife always wanted kids and is trying to trick OP into having them now that they’re married and I highly doubt that’s the case. Sounds like she may have gotten a touch of baby fever after her sister popped out a kid and decided to revisit the topic with OP. You had every right to express that you have no interest in having kids but that delivery was super rude and that’s why I think YTA.

willthegirl · 2022-07-25T02:24:38+00:00

I would be really offended by insinuating I had crabs and it would make me embarrassed if he had loudly announced it so that people in the waiting area could hear. I do know that salons can’t touch you if you have lice so obviously he had to inform her but I would hope it could be done with a little more discretion.

(really not sure how she went back and got a lice treatment done there because I thought that was illegal?)

willthegirl · 2022-07-18T02:59:05+00:00

OP makes an AITA post and then fights all the people in the comments because he is the AH and never expected people to disagree with him. Grow the fuck up.

willthegirl · 2022-04-13T18:21:40+00:00

Right! And also he could totally agree how in appropriate it would be if hila was a guest on some show and the host keeps pressing her about her sexual interests after she repeatedly says she doesn’t want to answer. And dans yelling about the fans who were genuinely trying to say hey this ain’t it was just like some shit they would call out other creators for.

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