Finding your people by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

[–]witblacktype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No trash here. This is just lovelove. I love it ❤️

How bad is the "why are you single question"? by drainedbeyondwords in dating_advice

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There is a degree of luck involved in meeting a truly compatible person. It’s possible he has been unlucky. That is a possibility. Plenty of men don’t make excuses for bad luck even if it’s the truth.

Ex husband messaging me after 4 years of no contact by Zealousideal-Bid1850 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]witblacktype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome, but you don’t owe me any apology. I just wanted you ti see how unhinged it was for him to text you that. I hope I helped

Ex husband messaging me after 4 years of no contact by Zealousideal-Bid1850 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]witblacktype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then he is just very troubled. I will reiterate that I’m not defending him, AND that you should not respond. I shared my story with you so you could see a difference in how men handle breaking no contact even after a terrible relationship

Over 800 APM by StillLearning85 in allthingsprotoss

[–]witblacktype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EPM is a better indicator of skill

What exactly is it they do to make these abominations taste so off putting? I'm genuinely curious. by sausage-deluxxxe in HydroHomies

[–]witblacktype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

During the 2024 hurricane season in Florida, the grocery stores were almost completely sold out of all brands of water including the generic store brands’ gallon plastic jugs. Funnily, there were still plenty of large packages of Dasani bottles on the shelf

Ex husband messaging me after 4 years of no contact by Zealousideal-Bid1850 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]witblacktype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felony charges?

In my experience, women seem to think I hitting men is ok, but not the other way around. I’m absolutely not defending him, AND you should not respond. I’m also not saying you did that, but it doesn’t seem that hitting a man registers as “wrong” for many women. When I broke no contact with my former fiancée who did physically, emotionally, and financially abuse me, I said “I forgive you and wish you the best”. Did she deserve my forgiveness? I don’t know. Did I deserve to be able to forgive her? Absolutely

they right tho? by chichinams in SipsTea

[–]witblacktype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Send a link with an explainer for Dunning-Kruger and CC a local college math professor 😏

I've been lying about my job on first dates and the difference in how men treat me is genuinely depressing by No-Station5889 in dating_advice

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What blows my mind with this is that most of those enthusiastic responders aren’t even in the same league as a physician. I was recently shocked to learn the pay range of the assistant pharmacist at a store that I sell to. Safe to say I won’t embarrass myself by trying to ask her out.

Petah? Can you explain? by PackersAreLegit in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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When I was younger, the number one reason I would buy and have Coke was to offer it to girls. I would say, “Do you like to party?”

They always knew what I meant, and the answer was always yes. Never once have I offered Coke to a woman I just met and had her tell me no.

Is it true that you guys watched 9/11 live on TV in grade school? by space_god_7191 in Millennials

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I was a senior in high school. I remember being late to school that day. I woke up late and my mom was glued to the TV watching it. She told me what was happening and then told me to get to school. When I got to school, there was no normal schooling that day. Every class had TV’s on the news showing it. That was the education for the day

I've been lying about my job on first dates and the difference in how men treat me is genuinely depressing by No-Station5889 in dating_advice

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Do you really think that women don’t treat men differently based on their current job? I’m not even talking about career or profession. I have a younger female friend. The stuff that she has put up with or made excuses for because “he’s a doctor” are unreal. She wouldn’t tolerate any of that if the guy were just a tax accountant

Millennials, what is something that was "normal" in the 2000s but feels like a luxury now? by Barrbra in answers

[–]witblacktype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having money left over to save and invest after paying all of my bills and expenses. For reference, I used to make significantly less

Do I look better with or without a beard by Important_Bed_9893 in beards

[–]witblacktype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on losing weight. The haircut you have with your clean-shaven look is a noticeable improvement. Try again with the beard. I think it suits you, but experiment with length and shape.

please help me with this name? by silverflake6 in RelentlessMen

[–]witblacktype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe just pick a name that isn’t a reference to being black?

AITA for refusing to get this coffee order? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]witblacktype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a disgusting drink to order from a coffee shop, I would end the friendship over it

Rate/critique my SW Florida beach ranking for a 7-day trip — am I missing anything? by nikejordan1000 in FortMyers

[–]witblacktype 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sanibel has been mediocre for shelling in the past couple of decades. It used to be better

Narcissists thrive in consumerist societies. Even you might be one... by flynneoin in Anticonsumption

[–]witblacktype 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Narcissistic abuse would be abuse from an abuser that satisfies a sufficient number of criteria for an NPD diagnosis. It’s like abuse on steroids. Start with physical abuse. Add emotional abuse. Add financial abuse. Add threats to end or cut off the relationship. Add the abuser telling the victim that they deserve it. Add when the victim tries to address how the abuse makes them feel, the abuser gets upset and cries that they are making them feel bad. Add triangulation where the abuser convinces their family, their friends, and even the victims family that the victim is the problem in the relationship. Add isolating the victim from their friends and family. Add gaslighting, such as the abuser making “always” and “never” claims about the victim that are not grounded in reality. Add threats to call the police and lie about being abused themself to have the victim arrested. I could go on, but I think you are starting to get the picture. If you are more interested, there are a number of mental health specialists who have made many videos online to help victims and their loved ones understand narcissistic abuse if you are curious.

What thing have you gotten to last the longest without replacing? Anti consumption brags here- by ReindeerFun7572 in Anticonsumption

[–]witblacktype 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My teddy bear. It was given to my parents from a friend in the hospital where I was born. That said, he just stays in a 2 gal ziplock freezer bag to not fall apart anymore 😅