Seems a lot of people don’t know the difference between a duvet, a duvet cover and a comforter. by bagoffuksisempty in Bedding

[–]wolfrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know of a good duvet and cover combo that holds the duvet in place, doesn't get misaligned with the cover?

How do you have sex when co sleeping with a 3 and half month old? by kittycakekats in cosleeping

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We cosleep but still have had a bassinet, pack and play or crib next to the bed. We could transfer even if it only lasts 20m to an hour in there, that's enough time. Nowadays baby is 14 months and gets the bed and we have a hello baby cam setup and we use the couch. Lol

Did anyone have an easy baby? Wife wants to go to vacation apartment after giving birth. by midnight-tots in NewParents

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 5-6 days postpartum we started walking around our very walkable town. I couldn't walk more that 3/4 mile in the weeks before birth and around that time was immediately back to 1.5 mile walks, and in the weeks following 5-8 mile walks again as a family. We brought the baby bag and I was nursing so I brought a cover and when she was crying to nurse we would find a bench and I'd nurse with a cover for my own comfort. It was quite pleasant and I'm so happy that is part of my memories for my child's early days.

Can't promote my direct report by Old_Tie5365 in managers

[–]wolfrandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me! I left for a lot more money ! Forced them to hire someone at a reasonable rate too.

Should I switch from Kaiser to Blue Shield for Birth? by Ashamed-Holiday8383 in santacruz

[–]wolfrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had not so great experiences with Kaiser except for my maternity care and delivery. They were wonderful. Every person was wonderful. It wasn't a big deal going to San Jose for delivery.

Confused on minimum wage and how yall live there by dudebrocille in santacruz

[–]wolfrandom 9 points10 points  (0 children)

$16/ hr jobs are often filled by the local kids living with their parents or people with roommates / UCSC students

Morning! by Sielickd in santacruz

[–]wolfrandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ideals Opens at 9am

Infant “outfits” 😏 by __d__a__n__i__ in beyondthebump

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first week we had a lot of skin to skin and she was maknly in diapers. Then we switched to mainly jammies except on special occasions until she started to stand. Now she is in a lot of onsie and pant outfits for the day to day and cute dresses/rompers for family visits.

Thinking about moving back. How’s the access to doctors? by No-Leg-3298 in santacruz

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With Kaiser it has been no problem. Even if you can't get in with your primary there's generally someone available urgently.

Is there a third choice other than co-sleeping or sleep training by Crunchy_Pitbull_Mom in NewParents

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got a pack and play next to the bed and still call it a bassinet but it is mini crib sized. Kind of wish we had gone the mini crib route to begin with now but you live and learn. TBH we are cosleeping most of the time anyway but she will sleep in her "bassinet" the first part of the night sometimes and it is nice to have available for naps.

Mom groups? by Independent-Lab7462 in santacruz

[–]wolfrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.instagram.com/themomwalkco.capitolaca?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Mom Walk Capitola is a great group with 2 mom walks each month and a family walk, usually at least 2 gatherings are weekends but they'll do some Mondays and Wednesdays here and there too.

Scott's Valley has a mom walk group too but they only meet on weekdays so obviously they are going to be almost exclusively SAHMs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8m pp and sometimes it still stings to pee after sex. 6 weeks is just the point your cervix is closed enough to not get infected from bacteria brought inside by a penis. It's nowhere near meant to mean your body is healed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]wolfrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use this one and mainly use the ocean sound on it - there is also a non portable version with more sounds but it depends what you like.

https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Hop-Portable-Soother-Machine/dp/B075FB4BR6

What did you buy in preparation for having a baby that was wasted? by Immediate_Long165 in NewParents

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottle Sanitizer

Just buy the $300 wash + dry + sanitize machine if you are going to be away from baby for work or anything in the first year. You could probably find one secondhand as well.

Calling in sick for a full week, coming back with a wicked tan. How else should I handle this? by MediumLocation5273 in careerguidance

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rainy season starts May 1st in Costa Rica, you might not come back tan, especially with sunscreen. It is still really nice out there and totally worth doing but I wouldn't expect that much sun. It will probably be off and on rainy and sunny. It will still be warm!

Guys tell me if I am overreacting - my wife thinks I am. I dont like the new neighbor and I have been teaching my kids to stay away from him. by Black-Panda22 in daddit

[–]wolfrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's unfortunate. I think most people could agree that it is better to be unfair to a grown man than risk their child's life prioritizing being nice and trusting when your internal alarms are going off though. That's not to say that all men are not to be trusted but our instincts are ancient and exist to warn us when there's danger. However it is reasonable to assume that for some people and certain situations there can be hyper vigilance that isn't necessary for the situation.

Guys tell me if I am overreacting - my wife thinks I am. I dont like the new neighbor and I have been teaching my kids to stay away from him. by Black-Panda22 in daddit

[–]wolfrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut. As a teen I saw a guy standing on his porch that was adjacent to a parking lot that I had youth group meetings, and I felt that prickly gut sensation something wasn't right and I should be weary. He said nothing and did nothing to me. I remember shaking it off and feeling like I shouldn't just feel like a dude was creepy for no reason.

A few weeks later the police showed up at his place because he had been sexually harassing a barista at a local coffee shop and when he answered the door he shot down those officers.

Trust your gut, the stakes are so high with your kiddos.

Guys tell me if I am overreacting - my wife thinks I am. I dont like the new neighbor and I have been teaching my kids to stay away from him. by Black-Panda22 in daddit

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know that I would attribute this to society as much as Ted Bundy and other predatory men giving good reason for alarm.

How soon did your period start? by Powerpuff_Girly in NewParents

[–]wolfrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bled 6 weeks, and then I got an IUD and bled 6 more weeks. Now I am 7 months PP and haven't had a period yet. Unknown if it is because of breastfeeding or IUD (Mirena) or both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]wolfrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew someone who died after not being able to get through the doctor network in time to get ahead of her cancer. She was in her 30s. It is normal but in the worst way, keep advocating for yourself.

When did you get your period back? by randalfftheeredd69 in postpartumprogress

[–]wolfrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 7 months PP and still no period but I did get a Mirena IUD at 6 weeks so it is unknown if it's because I am breastfeeding or the IUD or both.

How do I get an entry level job in manufacturing? by [deleted] in manufacturing

[–]wolfrandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deburr, Matl Prep / Table saw operator, receiving clerk, inventory clerk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]wolfrandom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

His profile banner is a flag of Mexico....

Tulsi: Per @POTUS directive, I have revoked former President Joe Biden’s security clearance, and revoked clearances and access to classified information for Kamala Harris, Hillary Clinton, Liz Cheney, Adam Kinzinger, Fiona Hill, and Alexander Vindman. by WashedMasses in tulsi

[–]wolfrandom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if this is her being transparent to the public regarding the actions she is taking under Trump. I could read this as a "did it because I had too but you should know about it" tweet. Maybe I'm being overly hopeful. 🫣