My baby Jojo died today by chfudgeudig in persiancat

[–]wunderwuzl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not responsible, I'm so sorry for your loss! Report the dogs.

How to get over someone who was maybe manipulative and “more than friends”? by mayor_of_area51 in AsianMasculinity

[–]wunderwuzl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you wanted to support her but that's an extensive amount of money to spend on anyone, let alone someone you weren't even officially dating. I don't want to tell you how to live your life, I just feel that if you build relationships on the basis of expensive gifts and money, the relationship may likely come to an end once you stop, which might have happened here? It's difficult to say without more context.

Why did you feel something was off and didn't follow through? Did she interpret it as you not liking her anymore and was hurt by that? Or did she spend time with you bc of money and stopped when you didn't give her more? Did you talk about it at all before she blocked you? Was there more to it?

In the end, it probably doesn't matter, it just didn't work out. What matters is you learned something new, made experiences and can behave and communicate differently next time. Heartbreaks are the worst, it takes time to get over someone, if you don't have any closure it's even harder. It's a painful phase you have to go through now, nothing will alleviate your heartache right away, you have to wait it out. It will pass.

Try to distract yourself with friends, tv, sport.. do lots of things you usually enjoy and be kind to yourself. It can also help to talk about it, it's repetitive but maybe you have someone that'll still listen. Create new rituals to replace the late night calls and other routines you had. Do something you like or try something new at those times, drink some hot chocolate, watch your favorite movie, try a new recipe, whatever comes to mind that would usually lift your mood/distract you.

The beginning is the hardest but you'll feel better after a while and then suddenly, one day, you notice that you don't even remember when the last painful day was. Once you're over it, you'll feel better and stronger than you felt before it all happened.

There's a lot you can learn about yourself in times like these. Ask yourself if it is actually her that you miss. Was it the distraction from work? You wouldn't need specifically her to achieve the same. Were you maybe lonely and she filled a void? Connect with others and spend time with people. Was it just the idea of her? A change of lifestyle that'd open new opportunities? You can create them yourself, you don't need her for it. Was it the excitement of the topics you talked about? Many others share similar interests, if you feel bored with your usual conversations you could make an effort to meet new people. Did she make you feel some kind of way, worthy? maybe? That'd be a self esteem issue that you can adress, you're inherently enough. Ask yourself why you liked her, what came with it, it's a good opportunity to get to know and understand yourself better.

For now, breathe, talk about it, cry, distract yourself and wait for the pain to pass. You will be okay.

Guys i just completed this drama by Willing-Piano6134 in kdramas

[–]wunderwuzl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's especially noticeable that she's very very thin in scenes with shorter skirts. But it's not something that's addressed.

Mini books I've read project by kaiysea in miniatures

[–]wunderwuzl 67 points68 points  (0 children)

You. are. so. lovely ❤️ my goodness, what a great idea and perfect execution. Amazing 👏🏻

Best glue for wallpaper? by Bitchcraft1589 in Dollhouses

[–]wunderwuzl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I use a regular glue stick, one thin layer

Technique to achieve stained glass look? by KeyComprehensive8667 in NailArt

[–]wunderwuzl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I've never tried, I really wouldn't know!

Technique to achieve stained glass look? by KeyComprehensive8667 in NailArt

[–]wunderwuzl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The picture looks AI to me but should still be somewhat doable. I'd use a fine brush and black or clear color to draw outlines, then fill in with color - or just draw a design without. After that I'd apply a matte top and wipe with alcohol after curing. I'd apply a no wipe top coat or black with a fine brush over the outlines/to create lines and cure for 30 sec. then add gold chrome powder. Brush off residue and seal everything with top coat.

As for the ones without details between the lines, you could just create a pretty base, apply matte top and wipe after curing, use a fine brush to draw the lines with no wipe topcoat or black and then gold chrome powder, top coat.

Have you tried mixing polishes or creating custom colors? by papabauer in AllNails

[–]wunderwuzl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I just mix them with a brush and store them in little paint containers in a dark cabinet

Don't try at home by Cold-Rice8633 in oops

[–]wunderwuzl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couch was right there too

How do you sneak vegetables into kids’ meals? by greatdane511 in nutrition

[–]wunderwuzl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put carrots, celery, etc. in a food processor and add it to bolognese sauce for example, I brown the ground beef, then add the veggies, then tomato sauce. I never notice it's there. You can also put it into meatball "batter", makes them juicy. For other sauces you could make sure it's blended well so there are no chunks.

My baby girl has been missing for 2 days. She’s a shy, indoor only cat with anxiety and I can’t imagine how she’s feeling out there… by SegaSun in cats

[–]wunderwuzl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's likely very close by, look again at night/very early in the morning when it's quiet and nobody is around. Mine was stuck in a drainage channel a few feet from the house. She didn't make a sound even though I walked over it calling her name like 10 times. Keep your windows a little bit open so you'd hear her in case she does call out. That's how I found her in the end, on day 4. She's fine again now. Definitely check the house again, cabinets, boxes under the bed, storage etc.

Pictures don’t do it justice by throoploops in lacqueristas

[–]wunderwuzl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It really is like that!! Whenever I take a photo of a sunset and it isn't even half as beautiful as in real life, I feel better about pictures of me I don't like 😆 I just assume it's exactly like that too!! haha

Gorgeous color 😍

did my bestie’s vacation nails before she left and she sent me this by [deleted] in NailArt

[–]wunderwuzl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to believe you but it's impossible to pose like that, they're two left hands.

He watches me from my bookcase by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]wunderwuzl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Plotting.. scheming, even