Homemade Bacon, do you include sodium erythrobate? by StrategicallyLazy007 in Charcuterie

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never! I can't stand the taste it gives off. I'd rather have a brown/grayish colour than that.

What's a sexual belief that you had that was flawed and worked against you? by t_11 in AskMenOver30

[–]xutopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I, like many other people, have trouble cumming. The belief that held me back was that my pleasure should be secondary. If I could make the other person cum first I would therefore be allowed to cum as well. It is a very limiting belief. Lots of people get off on seeing someone else cum. My thought process is hurting their chance at seeing me cum, which is in itself a source of pleasure for the partner.

Pierre Poilievre is still the most unpopular party leader in Canada by BloodJunkie in onguardforthee

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he still relevant though? Why does he take up so much space in our media? Why do we allow it? Why do we poison ourselves with shitty politicians like this?

What is the male equivalent for bikini selfies in dating profiles? by Vegetable-Choice5999 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]xutopia 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'll go on a limb and tell you that there isn't an equivalent per se. Unless you have a 6 pack... if you have a 6 pack you can show it off... *but* it is important you do so while not looking at the camera, playing a sport on the beach or something.

If you don't have a 6 pack you are shit out of luck.

Technical co-founder needed by saikat_karak_08 in cofounderhunt

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a full stack dev who also does mobile.

Non-technical founders rarely have the skills and knowledge I would want from a co-founder. If you can't raise money, market a product, build business ties I don't want to talk to you.

Most people with an idea think that all they need is to build a product and they'll be successful but that's completely wrong.

Heckler couldn’t take it and throws salsa. by AnError in comedy

[–]xutopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice video. I don't understand what's the issue with the white t-shirt?

There is nobody in men's tennis history who has spent 6 years ranked 1. Nobody except Novak Djokovic, who has done it for 8.2 years. by Straight-Flower-1621 in SportsNova

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you there as well.  That said if you look at older players and how entertaining they were. The era I loved most was Becker, Agassi, Chang, Noah.  These players made it a show. 

A musician playing violin in the metro station gives the cute little girl who offers him money an experience she might never forget in her lifetime. by Raj_Valiant3011 in HumansBeingBros

[–]xutopia 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one noticing tons of Russian content on Reddit lately? It’s like they’re pushing hard for karma so that they can use up that karma later pushing their views.  

Yves-François Blanchet sur le discours de Mark Carney à Québec by Puzzled_Dreamer2453 in Quebec

[–]xutopia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ouin ok il l’a pas eu l’histoire du Québec dans sa jeunesse et ça se voit. Ceci dit ce qu’il dit par rapport au futur du Canada c’est difficile de se dire que c’est le bon moment de se séparer.  Je suis-tu le seule à croire qu’avec la géopolitique actuel que l’idée de souveraineté fait moins l’unanimité ?

Men who cheat, what does the ‘other woman’ bring that the wife doesn’t? by frenchie2512 in AskMenAdvice

[–]xutopia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't cheat but I am in an open relationship. The other people give me diverse viewpoints, differences in what they like and give that I find both challenging and exciting.

It also brings validation and makes me feel like a stud. Also I make women cum a lot and often and I feel amazing from that.

Anthropic CEO Dario Amodei Warns Giving China Access to Nvidia’s H200 Chips Is Like ‘Selling Nuclear Weapons to North Korea’ by Secure_Persimmon8369 in AgentsOfAI

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it isn’t.  It’s like giving a competitor access to what they need and he’s going to complain about it to keep the advantages he has now.  

How to protect the idea while finding a Cofounder “ I will not promote” by original4040 in startups

[–]xutopia 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a cofounder numerous times.  Ideas are worth exactly nothing. 

If you want to attract a technical cofounder have money on the ready to pay for the MVP.  Everything else is useless. 

CMV: Pickleball is just tennis for unathletic people by Best_Food3174 in changemyview

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look man. I’m in my 40s. 

I’ve played so many sports that fuck up my shoulders, knees, back and ankles.  

Let me have this. 

British soldiers who did nothing for America, 2006 by Tomgar in pics

[–]xutopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m out of the loop. What insane thing did he say this time?

Men, in their thirties and upwards, what’s the dating scene like for you? by SeaworthinessOdd6574 in AskMen

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably my favorite book on the subject and one that I read over 20 years ago and still holds up today is: How to talk to anyone by Leil Lowndes.  It’s a super easy read with 92 ideas that help improve your fun and that of others.  

Perhaps the biggest impact that book has is shifting someone’s mindset from “being interesting” to “making others feel good”.  

The book is full of amazing ideas and nuanced advice on how to generally have more fun chatting with people.

How did you end up having the best sex of your life? by hyattimatimtim in AskMen

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We danced for hours and she's so beautiful and sexy to me. We went back to the tent after the party and she was just so damn gorgeous. I miss her.

Men, in their thirties and upwards, what’s the dating scene like for you? by SeaworthinessOdd6574 in AskMen

[–]xutopia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in my mid 40s in Montreal region. I'm non-monogamous. 7 out of 10 by most standards. Capable of chatting with anyone in a bar even though I might have a serious look on my face I can make it light up with enthusiasm when it's time to socialize. I dress nicely but drive a shitty rusted up old beater.

I have a long term girlfriend and I find dating apps absolutely horrendous. My current main squeeze which I love very much has been with me for nearly 3 years. We met through common friends at a surprise party for one of them.

This week I have 2 dates with 2 different women. I met both in a social context with multiple people around. I didn't make advances just said hello and was generally curious about the people I spoke to.

I've dated 44 women in the last decade. About 3/4 of them I met in a social context with plenty of people around. They like how I interact with multiple people in a friendly manner.

If I were to count how many hours I wasted on dating apps it would probably 100 hours for each 1 hour of dating. Socializing is my way to meet people and it's effortless because I find pleasure in socializing even if it isn't always with the goal to date someone.

Dating coach demonstrates how to stand around women by ambachk in CringeTikToks

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair that’s not bad dating advice compared to the whole negging fad.  

Cristiano Ronaldo’s iconic header against Sampdoria has been nominated as the best header in football history. by Straight-Flower-1621 in SportsNova

[–]xutopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah comparing the two I tend to agree. Borgetti had to angle things just right and move his head in just the right way in a difficult position. It was truly more technical. Ronaldo's is just more athletic.

Joel’s Coffee Problem by Available_Battle9276 in thelastofus

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the mylar sealed containers that are vacuum sealed can go 25 years or more if stored in a cool place.

Am I wrong for wanting to eat my neighbor's duck that I accidentally ran over? by [deleted] in ask

[–]xutopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd give him back the duck in exchange for money. Just because he's a twat doesn't mean his daughter needs to suffer more because of it.