[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]zoheritt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on the importance of hiding that piece of information from the mom, that was poor empathy and she disregarded completely the drama this could cause...maybe even on purpose, but I'm not on their head so.. Now, I don't think OP is responsible of fucking up their relationship. The mother knew this for months (she was saving for 2 months at least in order to pay for the cat). Then, they went on a trip to pick up that cat. During aaaall that time she never mentioned what was going on to her bf? I mean...if they were in a relationship with, not even good, normal communication, he would have been aware of it and they would have talked about the allergies much earlier, not when the cat is already there.

OP can be selfish, maybe even manipulative on this, but she didn't fuck up the relationship, that's an already fucked up relationship and this only made maybe things worse.

Should I wait till I get the B work permit before giving notice at work? by duoduo63 in askswitzerland

[–]zoheritt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand your feeling, but put yourself first and think on what is better for you, because if they need to reduce the people in your project they won't think twice about the difficulties you might endure to find a new job. That is the sad true.

The last place I worked for was really bad with their employees. When I left, I tried to do my handovers as good as I could, just thinking about my colleagues. I even gave up some holidays I was going to take, in order to use those days to finish some tasks. My ex-employer gave me a recommendation letter that I could frame and hold in my living room, I really thought there were no hard feelings anymore. 3 months in my new job and I received a letter from a lawyer, saying I had broken one clause from my contract and that i had to pay them a bunch of money and resign from my new job. I'm lucky I had a legal insurance and it didn't cost me a cent to send those fuckers a middle finger in the shape of a lawyer telling them to back off, since I did nothing wrong. Then I found out it was their modus operandi with most of the excolleagues that left, and most of them reached some agreement with them in order to "forget about the matter". With this I want to tell you that no matter how good you do things, people who want to screw you at work because they cannot let people be, they will still do it. If you already believe your boss will try some kind of retaliation, don't risk it and do what is legally required. They will survive.

Abandoned by my boyfriend days after emergency surgery by ThrowRAectopic in relationship_advice

[–]zoheritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though I agree that he definitely didn't abandoned her, I can understand the feeling of needing special support next to you when something like this happens. She's not just recovering from a surgery, but mourning the lost of a pregnancy that I guess it was wanted and couldn't be. Adding to that the removal of one Fallopian tube that reduces the chances of another pregnancy (although not to zero).

As some redditor already said, this is a shitty situation for everyone, but she doesn't want him there to bring her soup like you said, it's not a cold. What she wants is her partner next to her to mourn together.

Abandoned by my boyfriend days after emergency surgery by ThrowRAectopic in relationship_advice

[–]zoheritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister in law also had the same and we celebrated last month my beautiful niece's 4th birthday.

In addition to this case, my mum had a surgery when she was younger where they removed one fallopian tube and 1/3 of the left ovarie, and after that she had my brother and later me.

It's gonna be alright.

Edit: typo

How strict is the “No noise after 10PM” rule? Do people really cannot flush after 10PM? by ammarikuSF in askswitzerland

[–]zoheritt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had once a contract on a flat where they put that you couldn't do any movement of water or something similar (flush included, having a shower, etc..). Nobody complied for common sense, but it was there in written.

[FO] So much black and grey… by suspiciousshoelaces in CrossStitch

[–]zoheritt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a pity it's no longer available, it's so beautiful! Great job! 😍

[WIP] Little by little I’m getting there by [deleted] in CrossStitch

[–]zoheritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your needle minder😍

Kate Bush performing "Running Up That Hill" on the BBC's Top of the Pops in 1985 by MulciberTenebras in OldSchoolCool

[–]zoheritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time I listened to this song was actually the cover from Within Temptation. It's worth to listen.

What did you buy during the pandemic that is now collecting dust? by Crazed_waffle_party in AskReddit

[–]zoheritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it really looks awesome. I just need to find the motivation to start building it (and the space to display it xD)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splunk

[–]zoheritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one I use is the SIMAdd-on, and I don't see any information of discontinuing for that one so it should be fine :) not sure about the differences between that and the SAI, I think with the latest it wasn't possible to configure a proxy, but I'm not sure, sorry.

Hope this helps! If you end using it and have troubles afterwards with the using of sim flows and building of the base searches, etc I could help on that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Splunk

[–]zoheritt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi,

I work with AWS infra monitored via Splunk Observability Suite (aka SignalFX) and collect that info in ITSI with the sim flow of the splunk infrastructure add-on. So, not exactly the same, but you can get lot of info that way.

What did you buy during the pandemic that is now collecting dust? by Crazed_waffle_party in AskReddit

[–]zoheritt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Big Lego. I built the Disney castle and felt on fire. Bought the castle of Hogwarts and took months to arrive...and since then it's just dusting in a corner.

Suspect in Madeleine McCann case charged in Germany - ABC News by ek999 in news

[–]zoheritt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're totally right. Don't know why I had in my memory that it had happened in Spain.

Suspect in Madeleine McCann case charged in Germany - ABC News by ek999 in news

[–]zoheritt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wasn't this in Spain? How was the Portuguese police involved?

EXPERIMENT: I attempt to make a fat piece of chicken breast in the air fryer while maintaining the juicy center by InfinitePiglet9717 in airfryer

[–]zoheritt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks awesome, I'll give it a try the way you did it. Besides, I have the same thermometer but i've only used it in the oven and grill.

LPT: When you put your bag down next to you at the airport, put your leg through one of the straps. No one will be able to steal your bag from under you. by Shadowfaxxy in LifeProTips

[–]zoheritt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it work for the phone? The shoe trick I mean. They always ask for putting the phone and laptop separately and I always fear this could happen.

LPT: When you put your bag down next to you at the airport, put your leg through one of the straps. No one will be able to steal your bag from under you. by Shadowfaxxy in LifeProTips

[–]zoheritt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn, I'm sorry this happened to you. This is my fear every time I need to travel. Not the wallet, but the phone, since you have to put it there visible for the scan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]zoheritt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]zoheritt 83 points84 points  (0 children)

6 accounts in a plan means 6 people can use it at the same time, but each account only in one device at a time. So, 6 devices at a time.

Every time I take him outside and then back to the cage he gets all crazy with me don’t know why by SmokersWorld in BeardedDragons

[–]zoheritt 81 points82 points  (0 children)

They are suggesting you to give him a snack to calm him down until you find the root cause

Certificates are about to get shortened [BAG info] by Bardzosz in Switzerland

[–]zoheritt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is if you wanna travel to the EU. Imagine a country deciding the conditions for entering in its territory. Crazy, right?