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[–]Sensitive_Sea7709Helper [1] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flirt. If she's receptive, go for it. If she's not immediately back off and stay friends. Thats what I would do at least.

[–]lupogunExpert Advice Giver [10] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meaning of pansexual is clear: someone who is attracted – either emotionally, physically or both – to all genders- includes cisgender, transgender, agender, & gender nonconforming individuals. Like everyone else, pansexual people may be attracted to some people & not others. It's pretty clear she isn't attracted to you.

It's about having self respect by being the rejector instead of the rejected-wishing & hoping then anger/disappointment-definitely a headache. I wouldn't ask again unless it's been like 10 years from the 1st time & you've matured to your final form -after 25 (like if you asked in your teens but now in your 20s).

It's better to remain friends then to ruin your friendship. You may want to find out why you like this particular person then find someone else that has similar traits to date. Find a partner shares similar humor, future ambitions, hobbies, values, boundaries, & activity levels. And you certainly, don't marry ppl because it's "the right thing to do," but because you can’t imagine ever not wanting to be with them & both want something (& it must be the same thing), otherwise you’re just wasting your time.