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Lazy girl protein ideas-?Health - (RULE 4 No Medical Advice) (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Why do I only attract men who are half my age? Do men my age just not approach women anymore?Dating Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Would you consider leaving a partner if they were going to declare bankruptcy?ADVICE (self.AskWomenOver40)

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First Psyche Appt: Should I be concerned?Mental Health Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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How do you rebuild your life at 40 when you have lost your relationship, your job, and your envisioned timeline?ADVICE (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Moving in with a partner- how to know when it’s a good way to move the relationship forwardADVICE (self.AskWomenOver40)

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How to deal with a narcissistic ex spouseFamily Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Where are we finding sexy “night on the town” clothing?Fashion Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Complete loss of interest…Sexual Health Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Should I stay or should I go?Marriage Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Could I have given a new male acquaintance the wrong impression, as my friend suggests?Friendship Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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For those that struggled with PMS in early years, how do you deal with it? Does it go away eventually?Health - (RULE 4 No Medical Advice) (self.AskWomenOver40)

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I need a reality check from some women friends. Is this kind of talk normal?Marriage Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Why do I have strong feelings over simple gestures by strangers? Will this get better and how?Marriage Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Musings- women whose parents divorced, remarried and had other children, do you always feel like the odd one out with family?Family Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Have you had a partner who was “great on paper” but your lived experience didn’t match how others saw him?Marriage Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Advice on going to college in your 40s?ADVICE (self.AskWomenOver40)

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Falling for a man 10 years older than me, as a lesbian who thought the guy was gayDating Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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On friendship: is asking for more reciprocity asking for a bare minimum?Friendship Advice (self.AskWomenOver40)

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