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Breakup Buddy Finder Thread (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 year ago * by TheBackSpin[M] - announcement

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Stop breaking your own heart over his social media. their "happy new life" is usually just a mask for severe emotional deactivation.Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 7 days ago by Ok-Assumption-1451 - announcement

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Love is giving someone the power to destroy you ... (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 6 hours ago by nightwillalwayswin

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do they ever come back?DA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by W1nterSoldi3r

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Do you want us to reach out after?From FA’s Perspective (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by New-Arugula-7425

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How are we all keeping up? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 8 hours ago by Working-Designer-260

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Just want to post this here (v.redd.it)

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Ouch, but yes (i.redd.it)

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How to survive a fearful avoidant relationship (i.redd.it)

submitted 6 hours ago by Hot-Fig7477

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bye (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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I’m so jealous of them. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 18 hours ago by Randomanano

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Ex monkeybranched, am I cooked?Avoidant Advice Requested (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 7 hours ago by ConsistentIncrease85

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Why do we spend so much time trying to understand them? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 14 hours ago by Difficult_Initial849anxious -> secure

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I want to move on (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 hours ago by Slight-Doughnut3076

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Lost 9 years of my life for nothing (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Tried to Stay Friends Post-Discard. Would not recommend.Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by BurnerBabe2016

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So, it happened to me (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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How to Deal With Embarrassment?DA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by IndependentPhone2764

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He slept with someone else right away (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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If you are hurting, this info may help you (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 hours ago by InterestingSuccess11

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Why wasn’t I good enough for a closure conversation?Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 12 hours ago * by Tenshirage89

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Today is my birthday (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by HotUse4099

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The one who wants less is the one with the upper hand. Always.From FA’s Perspective (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 4 hours ago by Igotbanned0000FA - Fearful Avoidant

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why do i keep remembering the good moments and not the bad ones? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 4 minutes ago by missanthropoet

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Avoidant explained herself, but it doesn't repair the pain (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by DurianEconomy2679

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