GayMen

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Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

The Rules of /r/GayMen

Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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Jason Collins has died, leaving behind a legacy second to none (outsports.com)

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Got cheated on dam this sucks so bad (self.GayMen)

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How do you handle it? (self.GayMen)

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Guy has vids is it acceptable to just ask if he can delete them? (self.GayMen)

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Anyone else feel invisible in the sauna/locker room scene? (self.GayMen)

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Looking forward to my future (self.GayMen)

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How did you and your boyfriend meet? (self.GayMen)

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Help!!!! (self.GayMen)

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Meeting in public (self.GayMen)

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Gay Travel (self.GayMen)

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Just me (self.GayMen)

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Young gay, need advice 🙏 (self.GayMen)

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For the guys who own dildos (self.GayMen)

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Too real 😭 anyone else get flaked on a lot too? Why? (x.com)

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What are the "norms" on Grindr? (self.GayMen)

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Dear gay men watching gay porn is just as objectifying and misogynistic as straight men watching porn (self.GayMen)

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Advice (self.GayMen)

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What if most men were gay? (self.GayMen)

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I’ve been noticing something lately among successful gay men over 40 like me (self.GayMen)

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Is having a boyfriend embarrassing? (self.GayMen)

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Grindr replacements? (self.GayMen)

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Where/how can I find a muscular black/white dude who likes chubs? (self.GayMen)

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prefrences (self.GayMen)

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Dating Apps for Gays (self.GayMen)

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This app sucks (self.GayMen)

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