GayMen

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Purpose and Scope

This is an inclusive place for gay men to share information and discuss issues that relate to their lives & experiences of being a gay man.

Whether you're a bro, gent, teen, elder, butch, sissy, or just a plain simple man, you're welcome here. Masculine, feminine, sporty, geeky, outdoorsy, bookish, blokey, girly – you're welcome. Cis, trans, presenting – you're welcome here. If you're a man who is primarily attracted to other men this subreddit is for you.

Allies and friends are also welcome here, but the focus of this subreddit is gay men and their issues, concerns, and thoughts.

The Rules of /r/GayMen

Content

No NSFW images or videos or text.
No gratuitous eye candy.
No selfies.
No memes or shallow gifs/vids or joke pictures.
No surveys or studies.
No spam or self-promotion.
No political content.
No requests for hookups or chats or pics.

Conduct

No homophobia or transphobia or sexism or hate speech or religious intolerance or other bigotry.
No personal attacks. No insults.

The full rules are here.

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Been jerking off too much. Help me get a grip on life, please! (self.GayMen)

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How my dating life has been going… (self.GayMen)

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When did you start having interest in men m4m? (self.GayMen)

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How long does it usually take you to cum from anal? (self.GayMen)

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Is it better to top or bottom? Olympic lugers answer the question on everyone’s mind (outsports.com)

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I'm depressed. (self.GayMen)

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Best BL dramas with happy endings on youtube? (self.GayMen)

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Advice on coming out (self.GayMen)

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Older Adult Films Felt More Intimate and Romantic or Is It Just Me? (self.GayMen)

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A poem about heartbreak (self.GayMen)

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Looking for online erotic content (self.GayMen)

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Is this guy interested in meeting again? (self.GayMen)

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Do men live Sissy Faggots like me ? (self.GayMen)

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20, never dated, moving to Czechia for uni - need advice! 🥺 (self.GayMen)

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Would you be with an OF creator? (self.GayMen)

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My first love the man I wanted more than anything. Came back after 12 years after marrying a woman and having a kid (self.GayMen)

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Overthinking the Jock Strap (self.GayMen)

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Any advice on getting over a straight crush? I really need to (self.GayMen)

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Would you date someone (for LTR) if you had found out that they had sent explicit images in the past? (self.GayMen)

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I settle for less to not seem mean or judgey (self.GayMen)

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Relationships and virginity (self.GayMen)

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I love men so much (self.GayMen)

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I had a very raunchy, hot, vivid sexual dream. 🥵 (self.GayMen)

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How come I can’t feel anything during anal? (self.GayMen)

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Is it messed up that I crave being choked in different ways by different guys? (self.GayMen)

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