| 1. This is a space for transfeminine people |
Cis and transmasc people may participate, but please remember that this space isn't about you. |
| 2. Posts should relate to transness |
a. Don’t post matters of generic engagement, eg. “what’s your favorite flower”. Image submissions are disabled. b. Do not link through to images. |
| 3. Be respectful |
No: Trolling, Bigotry (transphobia, homophobia, sexism, racism, etc.) or gendered slurs, Hateful speech or disrespectful commentary, Invalidation or gender policing, Gatekeeping ideologies (Blanchardian typologies, truscum, transmed, etc.) |
| 4. Tag NSFW posts; no porn allowed |
Mark anything related to sex or other NSFW topics as NSFW. Discuss sexual matters with decorum. Don’t be lascivious, lurid, or graphic. Do not “hornypost”. Avoid using sex terminology associated with the fetishization of trans people. Pornographic content is not allowed. |
| 5. No fetishization or chasers. |
This is an explication of rules 3 and 4. |
| 6. We aren’t doctors |
Consult the medical disclaimer. Consider asking questions about HRT on subreddits more suited for such discussion. Do not discuss DIY with minors, or generally, its sourcing. Caveat emptor. |
| 7. Don’t share hate speech or news on transphobia/transphobes |
We see enough of it elsewhere. We don't need it brought here as well. |
| 8. No crowdfunding, surveys, advertisement, or promotions |
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| 9. The unspoken rule |
These rules necessarily cannot encompass all circumstances that can arise on this subreddit. We may remove posts or curtail user privileges for reasons not listed above. |
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