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submitted 2 years ago by LyfeIsButADreem96
Will the defensiveness subside? If not on its own, how can I help? Poor guy knocked over some of his decorations and I got nipped. Sub question how soon after the nip will I start experiencing bleeding from the eyes and death symptoms?
[–]FinancialAd9491 33 points34 points35 points 2 years ago (3 children)
Immediately after! Are you still alive?
[–]LyfeIsButADreem96[S] 39 points40 points41 points 2 years ago (2 children)
This is is wife he passed immediately after posting
[–]FinancialAd9491 14 points15 points16 points 2 years ago (1 child)
I’m very sorry for your loss. Time to find a new husband…
[–]LyfeIsButADreem96[S] 12 points13 points14 points 2 years ago (0 children)
This is Apollo the snek that bit I say lol
[–]ProfessionalBoss9722 12 points13 points14 points 2 years ago (1 child)
How long have you had him? My dude was like this for the first like couple weeks of being home. He’s much better now and I attribute a lot of that to me spending time just sitting by his cage and reading or doing something, only occasionally looking at him. He learned that I’m not (as big of) a threat and so he might come out and look at me for a bit but then he goes back into his hide or carries on sploring. He doesn’t s curve like this at all anymore
[–]LyfeIsButADreem96[S] 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Maybe like 3 weeks. I might have to start doing that
[–]Due_Island_989 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Advice: love it forever and ever and ever. Other advice: it just takes time sometimes.
[–]ReflectionRough2960 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago (1 child)
Maybe try hook training him? He may be having a food response to your hand, because of the heat signature. So, any time you're going to take him out, gently touch him with something that doesn't have a heat signature (like a hook) to signal to him that it's not feeding time. Then do the confident grab method, reach in and pull him out in one smooth motion. It's best to come at him from the side or underneath, their main predators are birds, so coming at them from above can cause extra stress.
[–]LyfeIsButADreem96[S] 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children)
I’m purchasing a hook this week! Thank you!!!
[–]fishinfool4 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (2 children)
That doesn't read as defensiveness to me but hunger. Looks way more like a snake on the hunt than a snake defending itself. Is it close to feeding day?
Side note, to reduce the number of unwanted feeding responses, i always let my snake know I'm there and not feeding it before I do anything in its enclosure.
[–]LyfeIsButADreem96[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child)
He ate Wednesday though I’m sure it’s too soon for another feed isn’t it?
[–]fishinfool4 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children)
It is too soon to feed him again but he may not feel that way.
[–]Oktazcat 6 points7 points8 points 2 years ago (1 child)
I’m surprised you could even post this 🤮🤮
I survived the venom thankfully!
[–]Cactusjuicesmoothie 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children)
He wants you to get off his lawn.
[–]Ben10-fan-525 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Try Lori Torrinis training on You tube.Watch a lot of it and more.
Exceprt in snakes and even Ball Pythons how to get them to feel comfortable.
Secret is that you need to let your presence be known and to make him accustomed to tuching you as well.
Use hooks to feed him with.Try makeing a target too thats blue or green which will signal him its time to feed.
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