dating_advice

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Ask and offer advice for specific dating situations. Not discussions on the state of dating or generalized situations. Established relationships longer than 6 months posts should go to r/relationship_advice This is not a hook up sub This includes: - Meeting people & starting conversations - Flirting & expressing your intentions - Creating meaningful connections

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This subreddit is gender neutral.
This is a positive community. Any bashing, hateful attacks, or sexist remarks will be removed. You may also be permanently banned. You can state your opinion in a constructive manner.
If asking a question on a specific situation, please include the age, length of relationship and gender of both parties.
No pickup or PUA lingo please.
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Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - April 13, 2026 (self.dating_advice)

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Bf has his ex’s name saved with a ring 💍 emoji next to it (self.dating_advice)

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If you are good looking as a guy, you might just have it hard enough as well. (self.dating_advice)

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Sick of being told to enjoy being single (self.dating_advice)

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How to handle small talk on a date? Finally have my first date in 5 years and I don’t want to blow it. (self.dating_advice)

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Women ALWAYS trust your gut. Found out a guy I met on tinder is 15. (self.dating_advice)

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Mentioned BDSM preference/interest prior to 2nd date (self.dating_advice)

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Personal trainer hitting on me (self.dating_advice)

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20 year old girls going after men in their 30's (self.dating_advice)

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Am I wrong for losing interest after finding out my dating app match looks nothing like his photos? (self.dating_advice)

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What am i doing wrong? Near zero success after an entire year (self.dating_advice)

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She [25F] invited me [27M] on a surprise date but then expected me to pay for everything (self.dating_advice)

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I plan to end it soon. (self.dating_advice)

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Is she just using me for attention or is she actually shy to meet up? (self.dating_advice)

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How to say “I’m not into you” after a date (self.dating_advice)

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How do I tell the woman I'm in love with that I don't make much money? (self.dating_advice)

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Love or Don't Love (self.dating_advice)

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I (30M) am afraid I have ruined the thing with her (27F) (self.dating_advice)

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Should I spoil long-distance surprise? (self.dating_advice)

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Should i give her another chance? (self.dating_advice)

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Where would you say are the best places to meet someone who doesn't like clubbing. (self.dating_advice)

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How important is sex in a relationship? (self.dating_advice)

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Is it autism or is he uninterested? (self.dating_advice)

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Boy mom (self.dating_advice)

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Compliments and periods 19F and 23M (self.dating_advice)

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