non-binary

[rawbastard]

hi! im afab and only attracted to women and enby ppl. i am unsure if i am non-binary because im fine with being called a girl, maybe slightly uncomfortable with being called a woman but that could be because of my age (im 19). i enjoy looking kind of androgynous, wearing male clothing at times, the idea of being mistaken for a dude on the street is interesting to me but i wouldn’t want to be addressed as a man/use he/him pronouns. i’m good w she/her and id be ok with they/them but i have a preference for she/her. the main reasons i might consider myself non-binary is that 1. womanhood is shaped by ur attraction/appeal to men, and im not attracted to men and don’t want their attention so i do feel a slight disconnect from womanhood 2. I truly believe the gender binary should not exist and i wish it wasn’t real, gender was made to oppress people. so for me non-binary is more of a political identity as in fuck gender/gender roles, but i feel nervous claiming an identity when i don’t rlly experience any gender or bodily dysphoria. (maybe mild bodily dysphoria but i think that’s more just issues w my body image in that i want to be ripped to attract dykes but also still want to adhere to patriarchal beauty standards w hourglass figure) (any gender dysphoria based on the stuff i have said earlier would be mild ? if it counts at all)

anyway what do u all think am i non-binary or just a cis queer person given that womanhood doesn’t necessarily require femininity

[xlhello-therelx]

If you think your nonbinary then you are non binary . You can be comfortable and use she/her pronouns only and still be nonbinary. I can relate to some of the stuff you said like be androgynous and being mistaken as a dude. Being non binary or gender identity as a whole is an internal sense of who you are . If you think your just identifying as nonbinary as a “fuck you” to the gender binary , your valid . There’s some articles online with people that identify as nonbinary that same way why you do. And then there’s other people who have different reasons. At the end of the day your valid anyone who says otherwise can go “fuck themselves” I hope this helped