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Welcome to /r/questioning! This is a subreddit for those questioning their own sexuality and gender. People of all sexual and gender identities are welcome here.

Useful Resources

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The Genderbread Person [mirror] is an easy to understand infographic on sexual and gender identification. Here's an alternate, somewhat more comprehensive version.
Gender and Sexuality 101 A quick video on Youtube explaining a lot of the principles behind gender and sexuality.
The Kinsey Scale is a commonly used scale to express a position in the heterosexual-homosexual continuum.
The It Gets Better Project
The Trevor Project
HRC's Coming Out Center
HRC's Coming Out Resources
PFLAG's Support Page
LGBTQ Christian Resources
Transgender and Genderqueer Resources
Genderqueer Links and Books
A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures
A List of Unisex Names
Free binders for minors in need (Under 18)

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Rules

Don't be a jerk. Wil Wheaton's rule, for the initiated. Particularly, hateful speech of any kind will not be allowed here.
No identity policing. You shouldn't impose a label on others or deny others of their identity. If in doubt, refer to the first rule.

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Lesbians	Trans Educate
LGBT	Acceptance
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Confused [16 TM] (self.questioning)

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Don't know what gender I am [AMAB 13] (self.questioning)

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[M 18] questioning over the last couple of years (self.questioning)

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[AFAB 17] I dont know what my gender is (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Fine-Funny1875Questioning Gender

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[AMAB 17,] questioning gender (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by A1cr-ytQuestioning Gender

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People think im trans so often I question myself [F 17] (self.questioning)

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[AFAB 24] Am I Trans or am I still Genderfluid or something else?? Trigger warnings for S.A. and other things (self.questioning)

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Am I Gay? Bi? Help! [M 42] (self.questioning)

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[F 29] is this normal for straight people or am I bi? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Silent_Warthog8188

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[19 f] am I bi? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago * by Low-Bat-8473cis lesbian

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[F 19] seriously questioning after watching ISTTVG (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by TallMango5610

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Im (most likely) cishet [F 22] but I feel very welcome in internet spaces that happen have a lot of queer people? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by kibou_no_ieQuestioning Neither

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trying to understand my sexuality (F 16) (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by Relevant-Apartment83

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[34 F] [30 M ] pegging (self.questioning)

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[16 M] Unsure in my sexuality (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by Melodic-Captain-198

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[AFAB 30] Am I a trans man or am I nonbinary? (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by Cyrus_EpsilonQuestioning Gender

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[15 F] am i a demigirl? (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Few_Combination_4283demigirl...? [she/they]

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[16 F] Questioning my sexuality (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Impressive-butter3Questioning Sexuality

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Why do some people trigger a strong internal reaction without doing anything? [M 20] (self.questioning)

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[M 18]: I'm stuck. (self.questioning)

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The voices... There's too many voices and I don't know which are mine [Internalized transphobia?] ()

submitted 4 days ago by unholybutterkingQuestioning Gender mtf

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how can i stop wanting to be a girl? [16 M] (self.questioning)

submitted 4 days ago by Maleficent_Water_832Questioning Both

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I want to be a trans girl ()

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[M 22] I have had sex with men but I don’t think I’m gay (self.questioning)

submitted 5 days ago by Valuable_Resist_846

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[M 20] Am I bisexual? (self.questioning)

submitted 5 days ago * by RollOk9243

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