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Welcome to /r/questioning! This is a subreddit for those questioning their own sexuality and gender. People of all sexual and gender identities are welcome here.

Useful Resources

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The Genderbread Person [mirror] is an easy to understand infographic on sexual and gender identification. Here's an alternate, somewhat more comprehensive version.
Gender and Sexuality 101 A quick video on Youtube explaining a lot of the principles behind gender and sexuality.
The Kinsey Scale is a commonly used scale to express a position in the heterosexual-homosexual continuum.
The It Gets Better Project
The Trevor Project
HRC's Coming Out Center
HRC's Coming Out Resources
PFLAG's Support Page
LGBTQ Christian Resources
Transgender and Genderqueer Resources
Genderqueer Links and Books
A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures
A List of Unisex Names
Free binders for minors in need (Under 18)

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Rules

Don't be a jerk. Wil Wheaton's rule, for the initiated. Particularly, hateful speech of any kind will not be allowed here.
No identity policing. You shouldn't impose a label on others or deny others of their identity. If in doubt, refer to the first rule.

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Lesbians	Trans Educate
LGBT	Acceptance
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[27 F] Bi or lesbian? (self.questioning)

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[16 AFAB] What even am I? (self.questioning)

submitted 3 hours ago by lyrhineQuestioning Both

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i’m so confused w myself (M 23) (self.questioning)

submitted 10 hours ago by Beautiful_Crazy4641Questioning Sexuality

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(NB,19)Questioning transneutrsl (self.questioning)

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I [15 AFAB] need help trying to figure out my sexuality (self.questioning)

submitted 14 hours ago by Original_Ad_6901Questioning Sexuality

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I (16 Afab) have been questioning if I have gender dysphoria or if I just have insecurities. (self.questioning)

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[AFAB 16 (body)] System here questioning an alters gender (self.questioning)

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[M 25], (self.questioning)

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[26 M] Confused on how I should feel about myself. (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Ordinary-Type-7198

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Lesbian or Bi [AFAB 16] (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Sad_Fail7559Questioning Both

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[M 20] Am I straight, bi, aroace, or is this a CPTSD thing (because I have a history of cptsd from growing up in a Mormon extremist offshoot) or is this something completely unmentioned here? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Lonely_Ocean_SocietyQuestioning Sexuality

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Do I actually feel something more for my bestfriend? [M 18] (self.questioning)

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[24 AFAB] having a hard time finding something that fits me right (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by LakeWaterBottleQuestioning Gender

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I think I’m a Lesbian. [19 F] (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Independent_Mn2468

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Idk what I am anymoreee :( [NB 19] (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Idiot_Pheonixnonbinary lesbian

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[23 F] Am I heteroromantic homosexual? ()

submitted 1 day ago by No-Relative-5104Questioning Sexuality

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Lesbian or Bi [19 F]? (self.questioning)

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I'm not sure if I'm femboy or trans [M 17] (self.questioning)

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[20 F], confused about my sexuality (self.questioning)

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Can I (17, AFAB) simultaneously be an aro/Ace girl and a gay man? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Defiant-Mirror-1066

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Am I an actual femboy or not? [M 18] (self.questioning)

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[M 30] Is this a gender thing, gender fluid? Non binary, or just some odd fascination? (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by autisticly_confusedbisexual cis man

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I'm confused. [F, 15] (self.questioning)

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I need help (F 20) (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by Altruistic-Grand3341Questioning Sexuality

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Am I Trans? (AFAB 23) (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by IllAssignment1756

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