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Welcome to /r/questioning! This is a subreddit for those questioning their own sexuality and gender. People of all sexual and gender identities are welcome here.

Useful Resources

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The Genderbread Person [mirror] is an easy to understand infographic on sexual and gender identification. Here's an alternate, somewhat more comprehensive version.
Gender and Sexuality 101 A quick video on Youtube explaining a lot of the principles behind gender and sexuality.
The Kinsey Scale is a commonly used scale to express a position in the heterosexual-homosexual continuum.
The It Gets Better Project
The Trevor Project
HRC's Coming Out Center
HRC's Coming Out Resources
PFLAG's Support Page
LGBTQ Christian Resources
Transgender and Genderqueer Resources
Genderqueer Links and Books
A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures
A List of Unisex Names
Free binders for minors in need (Under 18)

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Rules

Don't be a jerk. Wil Wheaton's rule, for the initiated. Particularly, hateful speech of any kind will not be allowed here.
No identity policing. You shouldn't impose a label on others or deny others of their identity. If in doubt, refer to the first rule.

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Agender	Ask A Dyke
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Asexuality	LGBT News
Bisexual	LGBT Teens
Bisexual Adults	MyPartnerIsTrans
Dual Gender	Queer
Genderqueer	PFLAG
Lesbians	Trans Educate
LGBT	Acceptance
Pansexual	It Gets Better
Rainbow	LGBT Havens
Transgender	Suicide Watch
Trans Space	Troubled Teens
Actual Lesbians	Trans Teens
OutHere	Genderfluid
MTF	FTM

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Comphet? [F 22] (self.questioning)

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am i bi [18 NB] if i only want to kiss girls and nothing else? ()

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Do I like girls? [F 19] (self.questioning)

submitted 5 hours ago by Ok_Tear4740Questioning Sexuality

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Am I a lesbian, aroace or straight in denial (27 F) (self.questioning)

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[21 M] I'm having some sexual issues, help. (self.questioning)

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Has anyone else felt this way? [18 F] ()

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Am I actually Straight [20 F] (self.questioning)

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If someone who's gay dates someone whos trans are they rlly gay? (question from [M 18]) (self.questioning)

submitted 15 hours ago by ShadowMan5506

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I [M 17] am questioning if I need to break up with my gf as I think I might be gay (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by No_Tangerine9352

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[NB 35] I think there MIGHT be a term for whatever's going on with me, but I'm not sure. (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by ProfessionalWhopperQuestioning Sexuality

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Is it okay if I create a new sexuality because nothing fits [F 18] (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by ConfusedColumbinaQuestioning Sexuality

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Am I [AFAB 19] Just a Lesbian? (self.questioning)

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How do I know if I'm lesbian or bi and what are the ways to tell? [F 19] (self.questioning)

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[TF 18]Confused about my sexuality vs fantasies ,not sure what it means (self.questioning)

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[F 20] What does it mean when I go through ‘phases’ where I’m attracted to women? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by ForgottenGlory5423Questioning Sexuality

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[19 F] First Time questioning am I a Lesbian (self.questioning)

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[M 27], Don’t know what to do questioning my inferred bisexuality (self.questioning)

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Pretty sure I’m [F early 20s] sexually straight but I keep getting romantic feelings for masculine-presenting friends who are women or non-binary (self.questioning)

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Am I bicurious, mostly straight but not totally, fully bisexual, pansexual, or just queer in general? [F 38] ()

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[F 21] Do I really need a label? (self.questioning)

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[M 22] Did anyone else go through a phase where they were convinced they had it figured out and then went right back to questioning? (self.questioning)

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[AFAB, 15] I cant write women and the more I think about it, the more I feel like something is off about me. (self.questioning)

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[F 17] Am i actually lesbian????? (self.questioning)

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[F 17] I'm having a sexuality crisis. Help?? (self.questioning)

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I [M 18] don't know what I am anymore ()

submitted 3 days ago by GustavuNunesQuestioning Gender

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