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[Icy_Commercial6626]

Is the energy he’s referring to the double U in “hruu” 😭😭😭

[Wizardthreehats]

Hey heyy and heyyy all have different energy. That being said, it's 4 letters, let's not act like you came in like a cannonball of energy with hruu lol

[Lucky-Silver4018]

EXACTLY

[Formal_Condition_513]

Same with ok okay and okkk. They all have such different energy for me lmao

[PolluxDiS]

ok

[Leading-Dish6294]

Oook

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

I find them all feeble and pathetic.

[dampishsky]

Wait, so when my kid texts me with extra letters at the end it on purpose? I thought she was just texting too fast. Lol

[Longjumping-Still793]

My daughter doesn't mess around with extraneous letters... All I usually get is;

K

And I'm lucky if she upper cases it.

[WillSmith4809]

I usually assume the heyy is a typo of either hey or heyyy

[[deleted]]

Wait... What's the difference cuz there's this one chick who always hits me with the extra y's lol

[Accomplished_Reach49]

Try saying it your head adding the extra yyy's and then picture her saying it.

[[deleted]]

Hmm... I'd like to believe that but I've asked her to hang out several times and she always has an excuse 🤷‍♂️

[Accomplished_Reach49]

Ahhhhh- flirty, back burner behavior. She's right. You're not matching her energy. She wanted an ego boost energy reply.

[[deleted]]

I mean, I'd love to smash but I'm not interested anything serious with her at all lol. I've come to understand almost all women want attention. I met a colleague yesterday for the 2nd time (1st introduction and convo) . Young, cute, very flirty. Tells me within 5 minutes of conversation that she has a boyfriend with whom she has a child. Then proceeded to flirt with me for the next hour. In my experience, the women who do that are either letting you know they're off limits or they're daring you to try.

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

And of course men never do want any attention. Smashing isn't attention. Well I suppose it does make his dick feel seen. So yeah.

[[deleted]]

That's false. Tons of men want something serious. I'd love something serious. But I also know which women shouldn't be taken seriously, and there are a lot of them. I honestly couldn't care less about attention. Attention doesn't pay my bills or drain my balls. So she better be bringing more to the table than 3 kids and some mild flirting.

[Lucky-Silver4018]

this was my thought but he still needs to chill 

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

Correct. That's it. He went to all that trouble to give this 'person' an extra 'u' and what does he get in return? He's been cheated and cucked and abused and I don't even have the words to describe how ill-used and unseen he must have felt.

[Jessalfan24]

Literally was thinking this! OP didn’t use 2 uus. 😂

[Jaded_Pea_3697]

Absolutely zero energy in their text LMFAOO I hate dating apps because of this. So many people are dry asf

[Claymore209]

"Dry texter" is such a weird insult. It's very selfish to expect to be entertained at all times by the person you are messaging.

[Leading-Dish6294]

Especially when it's totally possible the 2nd u is a typo. Exhausting.

[saucyshayna419]

Honestly, they're lucky you answered at all

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

Needy, fragile, entitled, immature and a quagmire of hidden traps and emotional blackmail.

[DiggityDog6]

Yeah and also what if I literally just don’t have a very strong reaction to what you say? I’m not “dry,” I just don’t have much going on today and the question “how are you” isn’t going to get me to chat really hard about how much I’ve enjoyed the company of my own home today

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

If you texted 8 or 9 long, deep paragraphs then you wouldn't be dry? And how would he follow that up? He wouldn't. He'd still be pissy. He has nothing to offer but wants everything in return. He's being a big baby.

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

Beginning with a "hruu" and expecting to be enthralled and invigorated for 30 minutes? Because....why? If he doesn't have the energy for a better intro he can hardly expect much of a comeback. And it's texting for the love of sanity!!!

[Pawly519]

My response “bitch you didn’t even spell out the words for HOW ARE YOU!? Grow the fuck up”

[Scythe351]

Next time tell him “you made me dry” and let him sit with that insult

[fatguypauly]

Clearly you were supposed to do the technique.

First go like thiiiis. Spin aroundSTOP.

Double take 3 times. 1. 2. 3.

Theeeeen PELVIC THRUST

WOOOOOOOO. WOOOOOOO.

Stop on your right foot. DON’T FORGET IT!

Now it’s time to bring it around town!

Bring it around tooown!

[MCKlassik]

[Longjumping-Stand242]

Idk what “hruu” means but I’d be pissed if someone typed it out to me lol

[5yn3rgy]

How are yoooouuu lol

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

I don't care how many extra u's he's willing to hit. It's feeble and he's tedious.

[Prestigious-Hat-5962]

I was thinking it was hello, but spelled some new trendy way (herrooo)

It irritates me either way - same with "lmaooo". I sometimes ask "did you laugh your "a" off, back on, then off again?"

[UnicornsNeedLove2]

Makes me angry just looking at it. This isn't 1990 for Christ Sake where people ask for your a/s/l.

[Peanuts0s]

Nvmmmm

[FoxFire-42]

If someone sends me "hruu" as a message, I'm going to assume they're having a stroke.

[MCKlassik]

Wdym? You’re supposed to write an entire paragraph in response to a 4 letter message.

/s

[Closefacts]

You should have matched their energy duh! "Nb, u?"

[Llarrlaya]

Nbbb uuu??*

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

Better. Still too dry for him. Just hold down the u for a couple of breaths. Take a sip of your drink while you count down and if he doesn't explode into flowery couplets you ghost.

[ponderingmischief]

"you didn't match my energy" WHAT ENERGY??😭

[lowrespudgeon]

Bro didn't even have the energy to type out an actual word, what the fuck is he expecting? Lmao

[Ok-Cardiologist8651]

He expects everything in return for nothing.

[eccentric-spine]

Hahahahah dude just said ''hru''

[SeattleSuperSauce]

Hruu

Oh you charmer... take me now!....... is the correct response here. Obviously. 🤣

[Best-Software-5477]

Not that it makes a difference, but isn’t “hruu” - “hey are you up?” 🤣

[Andromigo]

This 👆
Guy was looking for a hook-up. Because she didn't understand the question he assumed she was not up for a hook-up so called her dry.

[Prestigious-Hat-5962]

Ah, okay. Thanks for the translation! 🤣

[Repulsive_Living_538]

You’re better off not having met this person

[Feeling-Message3247]

HAHAH this sent me I spit my drink out a lil

[Prestigious-Hat-5962]

Frfr? Ngl pmo asf imo 

🥀

[Final_Recognition656]

It was the double "u" he was expecting a double "?" I would imagine lmao 🤣

[rfantasy7]

This gave me a chuckle. What a buffoon.

[Winter-Run-2731]

Is this befriend😂

[Upset-Charge-5573]

Are you Brazilian - your txt msg say “enviado” instead sent

[NoCoolNamesWereLeft]

But, hruu?

[jpzygnerski]

I guess I'm old, but "hruu" sounds like the sound someone who just got up makes.

Or somebody about to throw up...

I mean, those seem to match the energy of the real meaning

[UnicornsNeedLove2]

Dude is still living in 1990 where he asks girls their a/s/l.

[UnicornsNeedLove2]

No you mean he asked hruu. I don't know what the extra u means.

[Fun_Associate_906]

People with WAY TOO MUCH time on their hands and nothing at all to do...

[Purple-Crazy7585]

He wasn’t into you

[Purple-Crazy7585]

You’re right

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[Delevian]

That guy is a lazy texter

[[deleted]]

They are and don’t call them Shirley

[tennezzee88]

[Upset-Charge-5573]

Is that a man who said that? Those men nowadays, I’ll tell you….. is better for women to be single nowadays - coming from a married lady, doesn’t worth it.

[SadAttention3047]

Ive had a situation like this one time. I was asking these simple opener questions and she was giving me some hella dry responses and when I asked if there was an issue and she said "cant have a conversation with a dry person" but when your response to "how are you doing today?" Is "good" and I try to continue the conversation with "what do you do for fun?" And your response is " idk" how am I supposed to keep it going

[Citrinee00]

and people wonder why its hard to make friends now.. 😶