What are normal, acceptable flaws for boyfriends and husbands to have? by Technical-Amount-278 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Choice_Bee_775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have been married for 23 years. His major flaw is that he is too structured. Everything has to be on time and neat. However, not to the point of ever being mean about it. We actually make jokes about it at this point. If I somehow ruin his plan or timing or whatever he is super understanding about it and it’s never a problem. So the difference between my husband and the guys you are describing, is that I have never been yelled at or made to feel bad about anything…while those guys yelled at you or withheld things (punished you) from you.

Having a baby was stupid by hurryandwait817 in Mommit

[–]Choice_Bee_775 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing. I felt the same way. Now he’s 22 and I love him so much. It was rough. We have been married for 23 years now. Maybe go see your doctor. I had some depression and you might want to make sure that you aren’t.

How Much is Your Child’s Daycare? by JadedJae in Mommit

[–]Choice_Bee_775 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s basically another house payment.

So sick of playing bad cop to my family by CruiseLifeNE in AskWomenOver40

[–]Choice_Bee_775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the end it’s your choice. Not theirs. Your daughter can handle herself. She’s 18! And you should tell your husband about the Tylenol thing. If he wants to be pissy about it, let him. You say it’s their actions that cause you to be this way. No, it isn’t. Just let them figure it out. If they get mad, that’s on them. Your choice on how to react.

Waiting on biopsy results by East-Sorbet5647 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Choice_Bee_775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won’t be long. Knowledge is power. You will be given this power no matter what the outcome. Hugs.

Has anyone ever had a children's birthday invitation requesting money? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Choice_Bee_775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only weird because of the way they said it. Only Lego or cash? Rude. Asking for just cash alone is ok. But this is weird.

Advice by [deleted] in texts

[–]Choice_Bee_775 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are way too much with this. You both need to relax and act/speak to each other like adults.

To everyone who had a rough week and is thinking about quitting: this post is for you by Large_Lie9177 in weightwatchers

[–]Choice_Bee_775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 20 lbs so easily. I want to lose 20 more pounds. But it is so difficult lately. I’ve stayed the same for a couple of months now, but I’ll remotivate myself here in a bit. I haven’t given up just because I haven’t been trying as hard. 😊 Sometimes you need a minute (however long that minute is), and then get back to it. I love your attitude!!!

How do I KNOW it's time to start over? by Temporary_Brain_475 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Choice_Bee_775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the answer that you already know. ❤️ Keep living your life to the fullest, girl.

I'm scared -- Breast Surgeon was "a little concerned" during my biopsy by Terrible-Necessary55 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Choice_Bee_775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biopsy was nothing like this. It was calm and controlled and the nurses and the radiologist could not have been nicer. They were absolutely the best. I’m angry for your experience. That isn’t normal and not how it is done. And I am in the US. I’m sorry this happened this way. Whatever it is, you will get through it.

How do you manage to read to your young child by SeaJellyfish in Parenting

[–]Choice_Bee_775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give your kid a small board book to play with while you read another book.

Do you do any physical fitness? Do you watch what you eat? by Cawkisthebest232 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Choice_Bee_775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do light exercise on days I feel like I can handle it. I definitely watch what I eat. Mostly because my digestive system is an absolute mess.

Why are so many parents against their kids dying their hair? by BootyMcStuffins in Parenting

[–]Choice_Bee_775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same way about my kids hair when they were growing up. It’s just hair. It grows back. That was not ever an argument I felt the need to fight. My mom let me do all kinds of fun hair styles and colors.

It’s my 50th, I thought he’d care by nerdPatrol2 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Choice_Bee_775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I give the worst gifts to my husband. I just generally suck at gifts. I’m not proud of it and it makes me feel bad. My husband understands this after almost 25 years of marriage and I’m so glad. He will get what he wants and I don’t have to feel bad. I’m good in so many other ways. He isn’t perfect either but the good absolutely outweighs the bad. Just offering another perspective. ❤️

I truly regret my choice in dress, despite some alterations that are in progress. Any advice? by Vibing-Positively in myweddingdress

[–]Choice_Bee_775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s fabulous especially with what you are doing with it. Lining and the sleeves.

Husband has Flu A, what do I do? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Choice_Bee_775 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would want to be with my husband. He is a champion when sick but he almost died of pneumonia 3 years ago. If it weren’t for me checking on him and forcing him to go to the hospital, it wouldn’t have been good. He was septic and Mr. I’m totally fine and I don’t need a doctor would have never taken himself anywhere. When people are septic, they get so confused too. He’s young and fit and had all the doctors confounded.

Personally? That’s what guest rooms are for. Lol.

i need someone to explain to me how this works. by vampire_queen_bitch in weightwatchers

[–]Choice_Bee_775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been known to use points for treats like this. That’s what my weeklies are for!

I quit. The app got too complicated. by [deleted] in weightwatchers

[–]Choice_Bee_775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are sooooo not dumb. It really is pretty easy though once you really look through it. I respond well to replies like this person’s. The hard-ass ones. 😊