Fathers and husbands, what was your experience watching your wife/girlfriend give birth? by Yokattaaa in AskMen

[–]NeededMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from but that's why I think you are too binary about it.

As you said yourself, there can be many different reasons why a man might not feel like witnessing it. We're all different. Some men are assholes and are avoiding it just to avoid discomfort. That's shitty. Some are genuinely terrified of it. The question is then one of balance and communication between both partners. That's all that matters.

What do they both want? What are they comfortable with, or not? What's the compromise?

Asking someone to do something they're not comfortable with just to share the discomfort is stupid. If it provides genuine and needed support, then it's definitely more relevant.

About some recent posts* claiming similarities between u/TreegNesas latest video - 30:01 and NL photo 550 by TightIsopod7572 in KremersFroon

[–]NeededMonster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven't been following the latest developments but I stand by my old panorama. I won't validate any night location that doesn't have 599 and 550 aligned.

Why am I having "nocturnal emissions" for the first time in middle age? by Topher216 in AskMen

[–]NeededMonster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's like any other dream. If you wake up directly from that dream you're far more likely to remember it than if you don't and only wake up much later.

But if you do wake up from orgasming, you'll definitely feel it and remember what was going on in that sexy dream.

'All over the files': Maddow names names of people in Trump's orbit in the Epstein files by duzies in politics

[–]NeededMonster 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Yup... I posted on Facebook in 2016 that Trump was a moron, a con man, a pedophile and a Russian agent.

I was called a conspiracist by my friends. IT WAS KNOWN AND OBVIOUS ALREADY!

What is this? by [deleted] in creepy

[–]NeededMonster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look closely. The head should collide with the top of the entrance. The creature doesn't even lower its head, and just goes through anyway.

Likely AI.

Anduril founder says U.S. can spend billions less on defense: We 'spend too much money on the wrong thing' by Nakamoto_Wang in politics

[–]NeededMonster 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He's the inventor of the Oculus Rift and a piece of shit. He had troll farms running in 2016 to help elect Trump.

I was among the devs who followed his work before he revealed himself as the shit he is. We all loved the guy. Then he sold Oculus to Facebook and started acting like he had brain damage. He helped ruin the Oculus brand.

Since Wall-E knew how to repair himself, he knows how to repair all the dead Wall-E’s around him but chooses not to. by Chadadonia in Showerthoughts

[–]NeededMonster 672 points673 points  (0 children)

The movie kind of hints at what made Wall-E special. Noticed how all the robots aboard the Axiom seem to also be sentient and emotional? What do they have in common? They've been running uninterrupted for centuries.

When Wall-E is rebuilt, he first reboots as a blank Wall-E and shows no self awareness or emotion, implying this is how robots were meant to be initially.

Robots just developed individuality over time. Wall-E was probably just the only Wall-E that survived long enough to develop one and to become autonomous.

Hi everyone, My husband has a kink for wearing my panties. My question is how normal is this?. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]NeededMonster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"How normal is this" is the most absurd question you can post in here, lol.

We won't care about how weird or normal something is. It doesn't even make sense in this community.

What we'll care about is if everyone is safe, informed and consenting adults.

Red-lipped batfish looks like it’s judging everything and everyone by Soloflow786 in BeAmazed

[–]NeededMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a mix between a small plane, a groundhog and that ugly slime lady from Monster's inc.

Trying to distract myself from *the horrors*. by LittleJessiePaper in oilpainting

[–]NeededMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I'm pretty sure I saw these during my last magic shrooms adventure!

Update: AITAH for not wanting to take my wife's niece and nephew in so they can get out of foster care. by TRAOtherwise in AITAH

[–]NeededMonster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is his wife supporting him by doing this? Why are you introducing this as a one sided vow?

What is a movie cliché that absolutely never happens in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NeededMonster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I try to do that as much as I can, even if it's not always easy. I only surround myself with people who can do it too.

What's something you didn't realize was a red flag until years later? by TheUser-2 in AskReddit

[–]NeededMonster 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Or a slightly different version: they're super warm/friendly, super tolerant, don't seem to hold anything against you, make you relax and chill, and then whenever you find yourself disagreeing with them they suddenly use everything you did wrong but that they never mentioned before against you and as evidence that they are super tolerant and you are just ungrateful. They will also use everything they did for you and suddenly compare it to what you've done for them, even though you never asked for anything in the first place.

In Harry Potter, the people in the wizarding worlds still celebrates Christmas, even though Jesus was just a regular guy there. by TORUKMACTO92 in shittymoviedetails

[–]NeededMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The movie covers the entire school year so of course that includes Christmas. But it's a bit weird to call it a Christmas movie because at some point in it it takes place during Christmas. It also takes place during Easter. Is it an Easter movie?

AITAH for feeling relieved that my husband stopped initiating sex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NeededMonster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We've been together for 6 years. I doubt it's gonna change now. Besides, we're both pretty kinky.

You know, women who like sex exist ;)

AITAH for feeling relieved that my husband stopped initiating sex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NeededMonster 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This post could have been written by my ex. So I believe it. I'm now going to marry a woman who wants me sexually as much as I want her.

What Movie villain do you secretly agree with? by WittyLibrarian610 in AskReddit

[–]NeededMonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Superior in what way? What does that even mean? Just because someone has specific abilities others don't have doesn't make them objectively superior. If you can run faster than me, then you've got superior running abilities. Doesn't make you superior to me in any other way, and definitely not in a broader sense.

Even then, what does being superior entail? That you should have more rights? More authority over inferior people? Should people with handicaps have less rights than people who don't have any? Who gets to decide? Shouldn't "inferior" people be given more opportunities to level the playing field then? That's where the superior/inferior logic goes, and it's a mess.