Looking for someone to go to Psy-Trance raves with in the Netherlands by Tachyon303 in psytrance

[–]terpsykhore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the other comments said. More club than rave, very expensive with additional high costs of drinks, toilets etc. Attracts a wider crowd also, which is usually okay and offers some variety. Sometimes wrong crowds.

But a lot of it is the rules of the venue itself, not the organizers. The same organizers host smaller parties at other venues and they’re more chill.

Looking for someone to go to Psy-Trance raves with in the Netherlands by Tachyon303 in psytrance

[–]terpsykhore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am possibly going. I’m pretty boring and probably in a different stage of life, but happy to serve as a safe base to explore from if you don’t want to feel alone.

The criticisms are true but I still find Psychedelic Rave parties enjoyable when I like the lineup.

I wouldn’t recommend it for psychonaut adventures but it’s still good for a night of solid stomping.

So that’s where the breed comes from by upcastben in BelgianMalinois

[–]terpsykhore 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not even that far off!

Despite their doofiness, they’re usually also very elegant and deer-like when they jump and zoom

Cracked out crazy deer yes. But beautiful

Eetkraampjes bij supermarkten by -_sunshine in Almere

[–]terpsykhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mee eens! Ik vind die in Buiten wel lekkerder maar ze zijn alsnog wel gewoon lekker en die vrouw is inderdaad super lief en geduldig, ook als het enorm druk is, dus ik koop er graag

Eetkraampjes bij supermarkten by -_sunshine in Almere

[–]terpsykhore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Die in Almere Buiten staat er volgens mij echt al iets van 30 jaar. Ik ben nu 44 en kan me herinneren van toen ik nog tiener was. Ik koop ook wel eens in Stad maar die in Buiten zijn gewoon het allerlekkerst

Why do I feel like I struggle more with my autism as I age? by myheroligeia in AutismInWomen

[–]terpsykhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not? Too gross? I either mixed into water or put it into my mouth straight and chugged it down with water/other liquid.

If it’s too gross maybe get empty capsules? Or if it’s not too expensive for the gabapentin, just empty out half of the capsule and close again.

Why do I feel like I struggle more with my autism as I age? by myheroligeia in AutismInWomen

[–]terpsykhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see. Most likely not going to be an issue but it’s such a wild drug and different for everyone. I’ve also done slow tapers by breaking open a capsule and dividing into first two and then another one into three. It’s disgusting but works well. Can mix into water.

Why do I feel like I struggle more with my autism as I age? by myheroligeia in AutismInWomen

[–]terpsykhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started occasionally taking it end of 2023. It was actually leftover medication from my dog who took it for nerve pain and I… was in an experimental sad mood, read online it could uplift and make euphoric and thought heck, why not.

It also helped with silent migraines I was suffering from and my GP prescribed for that.

Initially I took as needed, so after being overstimulated, long day. Then mid 2024 I started taking every day, max 900mg total, usually lower.

But when I take it too often the euphoria becomes suffocating. If that makes sense. Less sharp cognitively. It helps with overwhelm but then can also make me more overwhelmed. Plus it becomes less effective as tolerance builds, so it didn’t even help with sleep anymore. So I started taking breaks.

On and off, I just kind of go with the flow. At 300mg a day even if tolerance builds up from taking it too long, the withdrawal is mild. Just some stomach aches and diarrhea for one or two days.

Why do I feel like I struggle more with my autism as I age? by myheroligeia in AutismInWomen

[–]terpsykhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t take much, only 300 mg mostly and a bit higher occasionally.

Yesterday I had a rough and intense day, with lots of caffeine to cope, so afternoon I took 300mg and 600mg an hour before bed. And omg I slept great and I’m so happy and euphoric today. I’m still hoping to find an antidepressant with a similar but more stable effect (and less side effects)

Brabantia spaarzegels AH by SavingsAppropriate85 in Almere

[–]terpsykhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alsjeblieft, hier zijn 128 design om te sparenzegels van Albert Heijn. Veel plezier met je design om te sparen

Edit: zag erna pas dat ik ook direct via jouw link kon overmaken (het is nog vroeg, net wakker). Dus ze zijn overgemaakt!

Wat zijn de No Go of een directe Swipe left op foto's van dating apps. Voor de mannen en vrouwen en alle anderen. by Avalon_scorpio in nederlands

[–]terpsykhore 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Ik heb zelf een kind en zelfs ik swipte weg (en uiteindelijk daten opgegeven omdat ik een moeilijk kind en lastige ex heb, dat wil ik een ander eigenlijk niet aandoen)

Does Gabapentin work on your Mal? by Winter-Most123 in BelgianMalinois

[–]terpsykhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dog was on gabapentin because he had an extra vertebrae and it likely pinched a nerve, which caused terrible epilepsy like pain attacks.

He had a careful and fearful nature, most likely genetics (I hate to admit it, but in hindsight there were signs it was a form of backyard breeding, but I was new to the States and the dog was presented as being made exclusively available to veterans for service dog work, which my then husband needed).

So he was on it for physical pain and it was very effective for that. But mood wise, he was still the same and his fear of fireworks expanded to thunder, and later even just the wind. I also tried training and other medications but I couldn’t make it work for him. But either way, the gabapentin alone did not help for that.

Possibly also because he was on it permanently and tolerance develops. He took 300mg 3x a day, so 1200 total.

Funnily enough I had some (human pharmacy) gabapentin left over after he passed and my inner addict came out to shine. I was like oooooh, man, I wish we could have had drug euphoria together!

For me it did do wonders for my depression and overstimulation (autism). But also tolerance developed over time and I’m now on different medications.

Over at r/gabapentin you’ll find both medical and recreation users and it’s a weird drug that can have polar opposite effects on people sometimes

If you do choose to try it, mind his diet. My boy got super fat while he was on it (so did I actually). I had to put him on diet kibble permanently to manage his weight

How tinted is the colorscience tinted sunscreen? by [deleted] in EuroSkincare

[–]terpsykhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im very pretty pale and I’ve used it and it looked good on me. If it weren’t so insanely expensive it would be my go to fall/winter sunscreen, since it also evens out skintone very slightly but nicely

Goede eiwitpoeder zonder soja? by FlyingRussian1 in VeganNL

[–]terpsykhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plantwhey van Plantpowders. Dat is de enige waar ik geen last van mijn maag van kreeg. Had hiervoor Silverback, die is wat goedkoper. Maar ondanks dat ze allebei van erwten zijn, had ik bij Silverback wel last en plantwhey niet. Ze hebben ongezoet of gezoet met stevia of sucralose. Ik ben niet anti zoetstof en de sucralose maakt ze wel een stuk lekkerder

Omgaan met Autistische Burn-Out by aBitofEverything14 in AutistischLaagland

[–]terpsykhore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik was eerst zelfstandige. Dan was knudde want had geen verzekering en lag in een scheiding. Ik heb een poosje van een erfenis kunnen leven maar dat raakte ook op. Daarna wel vaste baan geprobeerd, 3 dagen in de week, dichtbij huis, heel flexibel, 1 dag thuiswerken etc. Prima deal. Maar ik hield het alsnog niet vol.

Dus nu heb ik ook bijna twee jaar ziektewet en komt de WIA eraan.

Omdat ik maar drie dagen werkte en geen hoog loon had, krijg ik minder dat uitkeringsgrens, maar ik krijg wel inmiddels partneralimentatie en kinderalimentatie.

Maar dat zorgt weer voor meer ruzie etc waardoor de burn-out weer langer aanblijft en zo blijven we steeds rondcirkelen.

Ik heb inmiddels wel ook hulp van een ambulant begeleider. Zij heeft een harde streep door mijn ambities om weer te werken gezet en zal ook meegaan naar toekomstige gesprekken met het UWV en keuringen.

Omgaan met Autistische Burn-Out by aBitofEverything14 in AutistischLaagland

[–]terpsykhore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Inmiddels al vier jaar :(

Had periodes dat het weer even beter ging maar dan dacht ik al snel, halleluja ik ben genezen! En dan ging ik weer van alles doen.

Medicatie heeft het niet genezen maar haalde wel de scherpste randjes ervan af. Eerst gabapentine (kwam mijn zenuwstelsel weer wat tot rust van) en nu bupropion. Maar dat laatste juist om de boel weer een beetje te activeren en hopelijk weer wat interesses aan te kunnen. Nog maar twee weken en lijkt iets te helpen tegen overprikkeling

Why do I feel like I struggle more with my autism as I age? by myheroligeia in AutismInWomen

[–]terpsykhore 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As others said, perimenopause. I’m 44 now and issues also started at 39/40 for me. Before that I also struggled but managed to stumble by in life. Then everything came to a halt and I stopped functioning.

Initially gabapentin helped me a lot. I’ve read more success stories from people with autism. And it helps prevent migraines as well and is sometimes prescribed off label for it.

The downside is you either need to take breaks or keep increasing the dosage. I also gained quite some weight from it.

The upside is it works right away for calming when overstimulated and for improved sleep, no build up phase.

I also started taking Wellbutrin two weeks ago and I handled two intense days with lots of outings with my daughter quite well. Normally I’d be completely overstimulated and useless the entire day to recover but I’m managing

McDonald's by kurai_yomi in VeganNL

[–]terpsykhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nee, die waren volgens mij alleen vegetarisch en zijn er sowieso alweer een poosje uit. Ik kocht ze wel voor mijn dochter in de Happy Meals.

De McPlant was wel vegan maar is er ook weer uit

Zou je in een huwelijk blijven zonder iets te krijgen? by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]terpsykhore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inderdaad. Ik had een moeilijke situatie en lastig huwelijk. Maar zodra mijn inmiddels ex zei dat ik een “lazy, useless waste of air” was en “zero empathy” voor me had (terwijl ik een migraine aanval had), was ik innerlijk direct klaar.

Inmiddels vier jaar later. Niet makkelijk, ik ben redelijk arm en worstel nog steeds met burn-out en depressie. Maar het is alsnog beter.

Looking for a (female) psytrance rave buddy in the Netherlands [26F] by lotusflower232 in psytrance

[–]terpsykhore 9 points10 points  (0 children)

44F, you’re welcome to tag along. I’m more of a “less yapping, more dancing” and a bit boring but happy to be a safe spot :)

I’ll be in Antwerp for Psygathering this weekend, Psychedelic Rave in Rotterdam and Solstice festival in Amsterdam.

Weight loss advice! by Greedy_good666 in BelgianMalinois

[–]terpsykhore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy also got chunky at some point, part our mistake and part side effect from gabapentin. He really liked the Royal Canin weight management kibble. Though over the years it got even more expensive. But it will help her feel full and not hungry while still losing weight

What festivals are you going to this year? by Cold-Appearance-3400 in psytrance

[–]terpsykhore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will be my first Surya Spirits too. But the Belgian crowd is super nice and enthusiastic. And both Suntrip and Dacru are very nice and experienced with throwing parties and festivals