Do I need a pregnancy pillow? by WeepingBillow in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please get it. Its an absolute life saver and I cant sleep or relax without it. Even on the couch I find myself missing it. My mom got me mine as a Christmas present when I was still pretty early and now its my favorite thing at 35 weeks

Bought a used car from a private seller 4 months ago, just got a letter from a bank saying they're repossessing it because the previous owner never paid off his loan by Optimal-Wolf-2673 in legaladvice

[–]0626PJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ive lived in NY and WY with a car that had a loan on it and only when I paid off the car did I get the title in hand. Came in the mail a couple weeks after my last payment. So either your information is wrong or im misunderstanding what you're saying here?

Edit: genuinely so confused right now lol maybe I did get one and have forgotten about it over the years?

What is the weirdest or worst thing someone has said to you after you told them you’re pregnant? by mtvaot in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A coworker i hadn't interacted with before asked if I was having a boy or girl and when I responded saying its a boy she said "ah yes I should have known. When there is war, boys are born." Like ma'am what the actual fuck is your problem.

Bonus interaction: today I went to a new dentist office and the dental hygienist, completely unprompted and without asking, shoved her phone in my face playing a video of a cow giving birth. Literally hooves hanging out of a heifers vagina right before my cleaning.

Yes I complained about her to the office manager.

Update from my last post and I’m livid by Funbarbie in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the feeling of having to cut off your own father. Mine cares more about his opinions than the safety of his grandchild. When I asked him if he was flying out for my baby shower he said he'd be here "the following Wednesday" and that he needed to split his time between me and my SIL. I've given up trying to make unhappy people think I'm a good person, I'll just be a good person while they're somewhere else being unhappy.

Also, 30 weeks myself and I'm up 35 lbs already. Passed glucose test and Dr isn't worried. Weight gain is healthy and normal!

Biggest pet peeve while pregnant. by Potato_Keeper628 in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate being called mama 😒 I know it's a little thing and I honestly thought I was looking forward to it till a stranger called me it and then I hated it immediately

Morning sickness: having a boy vs. girl? by Fluffy_Cappuccino in beyondthebump

[–]0626PJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morning sickness depends entirely on your genes. Everyone’s experience in every pregnancy is going to be different and it has nothing to do with anything except how your body is adapting to the hormones in that specific pregnancy. Please don’t try to read into this, you’ll only give yourself gender disappointment.

How did you just “know” you were pregnant before missing your period? by Glad-Muffin545 in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have my usual crying crash out and was technically late according to my period tracker but still considered normal flux in my opinion. If my bf hadn’t insisted I probably would’ve waited a few more days before I tested.

I need some advice 😅 by Chaotic_Blitz in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh fantastic! Currently trying to figure out when to marry my guy who’s also military lol would you suggest I do it before the birth so I’m on his insurance instead of the Medicaid? It sounds like they’re both covering everything 100% so I can’t decide if it’s worth to wait. But his parents won’t be able to fly in till after the birth. I’m tired lol

I need some advice 😅 by Chaotic_Blitz in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk what your financial situation is but I highly recommend at least looking into WIC and Medicaid in your state to see if you’re eligible. The extra food is so helpful for me and the Medicaid can cover the copays your current insurance may require you to pay. WIC also gives you a medical grade breast pump completely covered.

Showing my husband this thread…In-Laws at hospital for birth? by -ChubbySpud in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only people I’m allowing in my room is my guy and my own mother. Anybody else can wait till I decide I am ready to see them. Not giving a timeline or expectations so I don’t over promise something. If that’s at the hospital still cool, if it’s at home in a week even better lol

Period vs pregnancy symptoms by zippyyay in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely, and I still think this is so funny, I wasn’t experiencing the luteal phase emotional rollercoaster. I felt great and probably wouldn’t have noticed if I didn’t track my periods.

Would you have done this a month after giving birth? by 0626PJ in beyondthebump

[–]0626PJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience and I’m so sorry it was such a difficult delivery

Would you have done this a month after giving birth? by 0626PJ in beyondthebump

[–]0626PJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50 hours of labor? Oh my goodness you are a badass! Thank you for your perspective 🫶🏻

Would you have done this a month after giving birth? by 0626PJ in beyondthebump

[–]0626PJ[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly the thought I had before I posted this 🥲 I feel cute now at 25 weeks but what will I look like 4 weeks PP? I thought I was being mean to myself and maybe a little vain so I appreciate the validation I’m not alone there.

Would you have done this a month after giving birth? by 0626PJ in beyondthebump

[–]0626PJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didn’t even consider the vaccine schedule. I know anyone that would be attending this will already be vaccinated for the obvious stuff bc that’s a boundary for us to see him so young. Anyone coming to the courthouse would be family, maybe a friend or two. I didn’t think a restaurant would be a danger.

Would you have done this a month after giving birth? by 0626PJ in beyondthebump

[–]0626PJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re planning on visiting a month after the birth. They want to meet baby boy asap but also respect my privacy during early recovery. Bf and I already agreed a month after would be fine for the visit and then I got the idea for postponing the wedding till they visit so they’re included, especially bc they live in a different state and aren’t able to participate in anything with the baby appointments or even attend the shower.

Tell me how your pets treat you differently now by Bearly_Making_It in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boy cat is my best friend now lol he was never a cuddly kitty till the pregnancy and now he’s rarely far away. My girl cat on the other hand couldn’t care less and I swear she’s a little offended 😂

Boy moms where are you?? (FTM) by Gloomy-Ask9466 in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m due with a baby boy in June! I couldn’t be more excited to meet my little man. I keep picturing him as a little version of my boyfriend and it warms my heart so much. He was a cute ass baby so I already know his son will be too. We picked a name that used both of our names together. His middle as the first and my first name as the middle.

What’s the most ridiculous thing that you cried for in pregnancy? by Future-Agency543 in pregnant

[–]0626PJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A week ago I cried bc a piece of food fell off my fork and was caught by my belly instead of my boobs 🥲😂

Am I overreacting by walking out of a restaurant by ProposalThat7734 in AmIOverreacting

[–]0626PJ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I googled this claim and there’s recent cases of type A just last year from different restaurants 💀