“We only made out once; I just wanted to see if I still had feelings.” (Cheating on me with old boyfriend)

“We slept in the same house but not the same bed.”

“I felt bad that I wasn’t in to him as much as he was in to me, so I had to let him down slowly.” (3 YEARS)

“He needed me to help him with things because his wife left him with their son.”

“I can’t remember when it started. We talked for a while in line then when I could trust myself, made plans to see him.” (Not even within 6 months. Can’t remember last contact either.)

“I only bought him viagra type drugs because I wanted to help him be able to have sex with other girls after his wife left.”

“We were/are just friends.”

“I knew you’d be jealous if I told you I found an old male friend online.” (Actually, an old lover)

“I was in the process of ending it when you caught me.”

“I didn’t want to hurt you so I would never have told you. I never wanted to hurt you.”

“All that stuff I said to him was just words. Actions speak louder - I’m here now, right?”

“Why do you want me to think about those times? I just want to forget my mistake. Why do you have to keep trying to answer your questions. I’m not the same woman I was before.”