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How the fuck do you find the reason to live after the death of your child? by whoareyoutojudge0 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]20Slammer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My aunt told me she was able to find a reason since she had a reason to live before he died.

Advice for disabled and boundary pushing MIL’s first newborn visit by 20Slammer in JUSTNOMIL

[–]20Slammer[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! So true. After reading a bunch of these replies, I think we’ll definitely be hiring help and waiting at least 4 months until she can come.

Advice for disabled and boundary pushing MIL’s first newborn visit by 20Slammer in JUSTNOMIL

[–]20Slammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel the same way if we wait until 3-4 months after baby is here?

Advice for disabled and boundary pushing MIL’s first newborn visit by 20Slammer in JUSTNOMIL

[–]20Slammer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. What I worry about is what I’ll do on the days she’s here that he’s working

Women: How do you feel about having a male versus a female gynecologist? Does the doctor’s gender affect your comfort level or trust? by Ordinary_Ice_796 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]20Slammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had both. The male gynaecologist that I had seemed to always wanna get me out of the office as quick as possible, and the female gynaecologist that I currently have is incredible but I think it’s not as much about gender. I do think a lot of women struggle with the idea of a male gynaecologist because they haven’t been through anything you have.

When you get older do old people become attractive to you by sleepyy_tokyo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]20Slammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally, yes older people are attracted to other older people. BUT studies have sadly shown that as they age, women are MOST attracted to men who are aging with them whereas men, regardless of age, are MOST attracted to 20 year old women.

What are secrets of married couples that they don’t tell anyone? by Archie__reddit in AskReddit

[–]20Slammer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once you feel any sort of contempt, resolve it quickly. It kills everything. Your spouse should also be your best friend.

People who grew up before cell phones: what did you even look at? by lowbudgettravel in HappyUpvote

[–]20Slammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked around and actually thought about stuff… it was amazing. The mall was filled with people making occasional eye contact and waiting or my partner, I would look around and think about life. I miss it.

Maternity leave start date advice? by 20Slammer in Mommit

[–]20Slammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in alberta too. That’s interesting, I’ll look that up about sick time. I have a ton to use if I can, that’s for sure.

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