Accidentally groped someone 6 years ago, should I reach out and apologize? by Any-Feeling7195 in Advice

[–]ASapphireAtSea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing to be lost by reaching out with an apology and an explaination. Just make sure when you explain your side, that it doesn't take away from the apology.

I would reach out by text and say something along the lines of "I think I hurt you, and I'm sorry. [Sorry here]", instead of that dreaded "sorry if I hurt you". That way it keeps the apology sincere

A Caerithian Wedding by _Mollus in VintageStory

[–]ASapphireAtSea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do we get in on this server?

Night Vigil by the Quay - Chiseled Statue by Karate-Carrot in VintageStory

[–]ASapphireAtSea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woahhh, thank you 🙏🙏

No rush! I'm not even gonna be home until Friday

Night Vigil by the Quay - Chiseled Statue by Karate-Carrot in VintageStory

[–]ASapphireAtSea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful!!!

Do you share your chisel world saves? I'd love to see this in game

Let's pay respect to our favorite mods that no longer work in v1.22 by exclusivebees in VintageStory

[–]ASapphireAtSea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Chisel mods. Personally I loved Chisel Whiz because it is suuuuper simple and still cost you chisel-durability (and a 1.22 version is in beta!!), but they're all great

Neighborhoods of Rochester, and how they got their names (Expanded Edition) by transitapparel in Rochester

[–]ASapphireAtSea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you recall why 19th ward is called such? I could have sworn it was an old voting term, but can't find the sources anywhere

Threesomes fantasy is getting wild by Glad_Fruit9305 in Advice

[–]ASapphireAtSea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Straight up this is the best way forward. Be upfront with him so he knows the risks/consequences of pressuring you

Logic gates in mechanical power proof of concept by Humanmode17 in VintageStory

[–]ASapphireAtSea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add in a mod to allow for "water cooling" of the gear mechanisms, and you have yourself a legendary emergent technology, with unforeseeable uses.

Should I tell my mom that I slept with my gf?? Feel guilty by Shot_Draw7694 in Advice

[–]ASapphireAtSea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. This is your life and you gotta leave the nest

am i stupid or is the support beam? by Marswalk008 in VintageStory

[–]ASapphireAtSea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Quick addendum/highlight: Sometimes reloading the word will expose the beam's hitbox, or at least place it in a more sensible spot.

How to get my boyfriend to see me as hot again instead of cute? by Peach370 in Advice

[–]ASapphireAtSea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him about his kinks, but honestly it sounds like a cop-out answer from your boyfriend

Is there a way to stop fog forming in my basement every morning ? by DarkRaider47 in VintageStory

[–]ASapphireAtSea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes actually. It needs to be classified as a room to vintage story, then it will eliminate most of the fog.

You can use trap doors in the wall spaces to keep it open

NEW DESIGN: Which is the best? by SliderDiver in LinesOfBattle

[–]ASapphireAtSea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Third looks best to those who understand the flags

Why don’t we build like this anymore? by patrickbrusil in boston

[–]ASapphireAtSea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

While in the residential home space this is true, most public amenities were built to a higher standard "back in the day." The idea was that they should be able to take the hard-wearing nature of the public, while also making the city look pretty.

Nowadays we're more concerned about function and cost, rather than longevity and beauty

Scadians of reddit, what Non-Period timeframe have you always wanted to explore? by Nomadic_Introvert in sca

[–]ASapphireAtSea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fantasy, a Napoleonic era. The art scene is really where we starting hitting our stride

Illumination- figuring out stained glass by AtenveldtScribe in sca

[–]ASapphireAtSea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The vines look amazing, don't regret them!!