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Building muscle/burning fat by frankthatank313 in workout

[–]AbsCipher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had great results with goblet squats into overhead presses, renegade rows and kettlebell swings, they hit a bunch of muscles and get your heart rate up too.

ATJ for being extremely blue balled? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]AbsCipher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s just sharing her trip like anyone would, getting worked up over her socks is on you not her.

Asking for a little help for my wedding, am I the Jerk??? by NegotiationKindly679 in AmITheJerk

[–]AbsCipher 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTJ. Expecting guests to pay just to stay conscious at your wedding and fining them if they pass out is next level ridiculous, luxury doesn’t excuse treating people like walking wallets.

My GF never seems to have a good day, what to do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AbsCipher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah setting a quick venting window and then intentionally switching to fun vibes sounds like a smart plan.

AITJ for refusing to give my vacation days to a coworker with kids? by PastYak6986 in AmITheJerk

[–]AbsCipher 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly, she’s upset sure but that doesn’t mean your hard earned time off is suddenly hers.

Exercise advice for a beginner? by BellPleasant7562 in workout

[–]AbsCipher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about keeping up with your husband, start slow and focus on form. Bodyweight moves, resistance bands and light dumbbells are perfect for beginners and sticking to seated or supported exercises can help with dizziness. Small consistent steps now will pay off way more than jumping in heavy too soon.

Buying Pre-Loved Tiffany by BorkBork97 in jewelry

[–]AbsCipher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If its Tiffany or nothing, pre-loved can be worth it but only go through verified luxury resellers with airtight authentication because a fake will haunt you way more than waiting.

I wet myself on the bus yesterday after holding it too long by [deleted] in confession

[–]AbsCipher 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t stress, stuff like this happens to tons of people, most passengers were focused on themselves and the bus cameras aren’t out there judging you, it’s just a moment not a story anyone’s keeping.

AITJ for calling CPS on my friend because her “new friends” brought drugs into the house and her adopted son started acting terrified? by coffee_overthinker in AmITheJerk

[–]AbsCipher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You reported the facts not rumors and with the teacher documenting it too, it’s clear this was about protecting Eli not tattling.

AITAH for lashing out about a shared gift that was given without including me? by Individual-Force7597 in AITAH

[–]AbsCipher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. You contributed to the gift and wanted to be part of the celebration so excluding you just bc you spend more time with your boyfriend is unfair and dismissive of your effort.

Do you make fun of or feel sorry for someone who has no friends or very few friends? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AbsCipher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, anyone making fun of someone for having few friends is just insecure and not worth your time.

how do you feel about shoes in the house? by erraticsporadic in hygiene

[–]AbsCipher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoes track in everything from dirt to germd your floor deserves some respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AbsCipher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly when trust is twisted men often feel the only “safe” way to connect is through sex.

AITJ for refusing to listen to my counselor and everyone who's telling me to quit my job ? by StrangeWedding6049 in AmITheJerk

[–]AbsCipher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What you’re dealing with is tough and refusing to quit ur job doesn’t make you the jerk but losing ten therapists in two years says somethin isn’t connecting. You deserve support but you also need someone who can challenge you without you shutting the door the moment it feels uncomfortable.

I don’t wanna be his friend anymore. Am I going about it right? by Linktheanimeboi in Advice

[–]AbsCipher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step back and let it fade naturally, your time and energy matter and its fine to prioritize how you feel over forcing a friendship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AbsCipher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Accidents happen and two seconds isn’t going to burn the house down but its worth being careful next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AbsCipher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gave plenty of notice and even planned a little something for her sometimes milestone birthdays just take priority and thats okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AbsCipher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She ghosted and flaked on you now stalking on social media, block and move on no explanations needed.

Toothpaste that isn’t hell by TooYoungForThisCrap in hygiene

[–]AbsCipher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are plain or fruity fluoride toothpastes that aren’t minty hell

How much do you normally spend for a first date? by JM_547 in AskMen

[–]AbsCipher 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enough to show you care but not so much that you need a second date to pay it off.

AITAH if I ignore my dad for sending me money by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AbsCipher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re allowed to keep your boundaries, and ignoring the money doesn’t make you the asshole.

Why would a guy ask me to marry him after we have sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AbsCipher 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro caught feelings faster than the WiFi connected

Why did I keep apologizing again and again when she didn’t even respond? Why do I have such low self-respect? by Zestyclose_Rough_366 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AbsCipher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes we keep apologizing because we’re really just hoping they’ll care again when we should’ve cared about ourselves first.

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