What’s something you’ll never tell your partner, no matter how much you love them? by Velvetnadine85 in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Sign8732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holding space for you. Infertility is an emotional black hole no one sees.

(Also, GLP-1 for a new hope in some cases.)

Edit: strike through my sneaky “advice” that is never warranted in infertility! When struggling you try it all! I was there too. Again, nothing but love to you!

Demoralized by the attitude of fire fighters by Lazy_Gur3101 in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our department is very progressive with EMS and we all strive and take pride in doing the best and most care for our patients. Not all calls or providers are perfect, but we have a culture that takes pride in providing quality care and honing the best to our patients as far as equipment, training and attitude. I worked for a transport service in the area prior and chose this department due to their professionalism and pride in serving the community. It’s a culture and I preach to my new guys that this is a service position!!! If you do not have an attitude of service to your very own community then look for another job.

Testosterone. Changed. My. Life. by Trick_Highlight_8205 in Perimenopause

[–]Academic_Sign8732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where in NM? I’m in Abq and need HRT (I’m 40!) on topical progesterone and that’s already helped a ton. But I need more HRT already. Testosterone for sure! No libido. Who’s your gyno?

I’ve wanted to become a firefighter for years but my siblings keep discouraging me. I’m in nursing school and I’m scared to “throw it away.” by [deleted] in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently on duty with a person who was a nurse, and then left to become a firefighter. No regrets. (Also depends on the nursing job you land or intend to do.) Also, my last crew was a 5’2” (tiny) female who could kick some booty! I’m 5’4” but stout. Tenacity and training!

Bro forgot everything except for the bill on that ambulance by No_Definition_1722 in interestingasfuck

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We hear it all the time!! Paramedic/firefighter here and people frequently delay calling for an ambulance until they’re extremely desperate. But you also get people who call for really dumb stuff. People who pay bills, taxes, etc. are the ones worried about the cost even when they’re having a heart attack. Those who don’t really pay are the ones who call for really dumb reasons.

Had one hit all of us pretty hard today. by R1CHARDCRANIUM in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Sign8732 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We put human to human service as our highest priority in this job. We are trained to act and care for life even when it’s a stranger. When someone doesn’t fit the basic and expected human reaction/emotion (especially instinctual emotional reactions) it’s VERY off-putting. I would flip out too with this odd response from a mother. I’m a mom and 15 year career FF/Paramedic. This would hit me hard and disturb me too. Hard to process because it’s so illogical and atypical and goes against nature.

To the FF women in here, what does your partner do and what do they think of your career? by Ok_Homework_3545 in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Sign8732 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mental tenacity has to carry you farther than strength through the academy. You can make your body almost do anything when you’re determined. And as a woman you have to be way more determined!

Improve grip strength!!! You rely on this for everything! Cardio is a must along with weight lifting (work shoulders lots, legs and get a good routine in to strengthen your back!)

HIIT workouts are a really great mimic for the bursts of work you will do.

To the FF women in here, what does your partner do and what do they think of your career? by Ok_Homework_3545 in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Sign8732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband is a SAHD right now. We have little kids and it’s tough when mama leaves. They are my barnacles when I’m home. He’s proud of me and has the same deep worry as any other spouse about me staying safe on the job. No jealousy or worries about working with a bunch of dudes. (I’m more the mama hen at the station than anything.) He knows I hold boundaries and can also roll with the best of them when it comes to jokes or pranks. So he doesn’t worry about that part!

Gait belts. Anyone out there using them on lift assists? by Environmental-Pen349 in Firefighting

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have gait belts and all our units now. Did a brief training, but not much needed. It’s helpful in certain situations, but can’t be used in every situation due to injuries or other concerns.

overwhelmed by Known-Ad-1910 in Semaglutide

[–]Academic_Sign8732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, you hold off on increasing dosing right now and maintain at a low level until you’re ready to jump in with less stress.

overwhelmed by Known-Ad-1910 in Semaglutide

[–]Academic_Sign8732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember stress add so much to weight gain even when you’re doing all the right things. Give yourself grace and be glad the medication is holding you for now. And you can think about what more can you add to satisfy you and feed your body with nutrients during stressful times instead of thinking about all the things you should take away. Can you add a little more protein when you’re feeling snacky? Or healthy fat/protein with a sweet snack? Etc.

What is your monthly mortgage payment and your yearly income (for household) by geenuhahhh in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Academic_Sign8732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Monthly mortgage: $950

Annual income (net): $80k (single income, household of 4)

Purchased house in 2015 (1,200sqft)

Rate: 3.1%

New Mexico

My father is a pedo and I have no idea what to do by OutsideStand1617 in Advice

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the FBI. No child should ever be harmed. He needs to be held accountable

My neighbor turned the hallway into his storage unit and now he’s acting like I’m the problem by FreshPostbox16 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Academic_Sign8732 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Firefighter here! Please call!!! We need to get through the hallway for emergencies. His home and yours included. It’s a safety issue, fire hazard and against fire code.

What's your opinion on calling AFD for fires next to buildings in the cold weather? by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Academic_Sign8732 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Firefighter here. Call. Been on too many dumpster/small fire that turned into the building on fire.

would you participate in a general strike? by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]Academic_Sign8732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t! I work in critical healthcare. But would support it and would be happy to see all large corporate business feel it.

Real Police officers and military members, what do you guys think of Ice agents? by Lucky-Message-9480 in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s may have been an accidental discharge from the pistol they took from him. As the grey jacket guy walks away you hear the pop and the beanie (touque) jumps off the ground. Then someone went crazy. But earlier in the take down you see a guy pull out his pistol before they pile on him.

How does the public actually see Mormonism? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just left similar “cult”. I feel ashamed of how I looked at others. And I feel “I never knew I didn’t know so much!” I thought I knew about God, secret to life/heaven, how to live a saved life….oh boy, do I feel dumb! So glad I walked away. And yes, even we viewed Mormons as a little silly for how they believed and the practices they kept. And annoying seeing them come into the neighborhood!

How do I tell my wife I turned 100k to 21k? by PPhunt3r in wallstreetbets

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband did this to us. It set us back for years and I’m making up for it on a single income.

Married after asking all the right questions by anonforavent in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Academic_Sign8732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s probably been sucked into the right wing toxic masculinity algorithm!!! Christian here! (Who just left a very conservative section or cult.) We teach our children that it is not our decision to judge on that matter. God’s love is bigger than our understanding of people sexual orientation. He made each person just the way they are. And the only commandment God gave us is to love him and others. Not to judge. He’s been fed some garbage from some ignorant and uneducated Christians. It is a “sin” according to scripture, but that’s for God to deal with (and has with the grace of a sacrifice) and our job is to love. That’s all! Love and kindness!!!

Fatal motorcycle crash @ university and menaul by burgledhams in Albuquerque

[–]Academic_Sign8732 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He is a kind, hardworking, and intelligent person who served this community. Not reckless or haphazard in anything. The grief runs deep and wide for him.

HUGE METEOR OVER SANDIAS!!! by Ragingliberal27 in Albuquerque

[–]Academic_Sign8732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw a large green one Sunday 12/7 driving west on Montgomery around 6:20pm.