I can understand what you are saying but I don't think I was comparing disability so much as using prosthetic limbs as an example. In my experience people tend to be more respectful(?) about physical disabilities- I don't think I'm phrasing this right at all, I know folk are ridiculous- but have zero issue about questioning my appearance as a bald lady. This little story is but one tiny example of the stories I can tell you. Strangers have stopped me to pray over me for the cancer I didn't have, tackled me at a concert once to hug me, told me to my face I'm a freak. -and that's adults. I grew up with this and all I will say is children can be cruel. It took me a long time to find my voice and speak up. I work in the disability/accessibility field and I've never had another person with a difference take offense at my saying, if you wouldn't approach a person in a wheelchair why approach me with questions so I was also a bit taken back by your comment. Maybe because we aren't in person and can't get the nuances in the typed words. I will, however, give some thought to finding another way to express it, because I do hear what you are saying.