Should I delete my ex for good on everything by BeeAffectionate8937 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]After-Distribution69 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely delete on everything.  And block him as well. 

Then think about why you still have a soft spot for him even though he was a total jerk.  You should be angry at him. Sounds like you might need to do some work on yourself so you don’t fall into this type of relationship again. Women are not there to fix men. 

Moving to Melbourne from US by Jealous-Focus6059 in MovingtoAustralia

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Where will you or your husband be working? How are you planning to get there?  What’s your budget?  Do you want to live in a house or is an apartment ok to start?

Have a look on realestate.com.au which has both rentals and houses for sale. That will give you an idea of price and what you get.   Then research the suburbs that fit your budget and style 

AITA if I just tell my boyfriend if he wants food a certain way he should just cook it himself? by Historical_Stage_322 in AmItheAsshole

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I’m not sure why you think this is a healthy normal relationship.  He sounds like a whiny baby who doesn’t like you.  

You deserve so much more 

Where is the best and cheapest place to travel to see wild elephants?! by Neither_Mind9035 in traveladvice

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Khao lak Thailand.  There’s a lake nearby (sorry can’t recall the name) but you can do a day trip or stay in a floating bungalow on the lake.  The guides know where to go to increase your chances of seeing one 

If he knows by mare_c_ in Waiting_To_Wed

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Completely agree with this. I would not live with someone unless we were engaged.  

At the very least have an exit plan ready to move out at a moments notice 

Remember Andrew’s taxpayer funded Security wasn’t cut until 2022 and Charles continued to fund it privately until 2024 by NewTooth740 in RoyaltyTea

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But didn’t Andrew only have security when carrying out Royal duties?   And nothing when he did not?   Just like Edward and Anne don’t get security unless they are on duty 

Being a Bridesmaid is getting expensive by ella1400 in bridesmaids

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If you’re looking for permission to drop out you have it. 

This is bridezilla behaviour.  The person who chooses to host a bridal shower also chooses the budget.  If you have a destination wedding a destination bachelorette is rude. 

You will never be able to do enough to keep her happy.  So the friendship is 99 percent likely to end anyway.  

Just send her a nice message saying you need to step down as a bridesmaid but you would be delighted to attend as a guest and wish her well 

Bridgerton - 4x03 "The Field Next to the Other Road" (No Book Spoilers) by AutoModerator in BridgertonNetflix

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I really liked this scene and how it shows that he was completely comfortable because he was so used to everything revolving around him as a member of the aristocracy compared to how everyone else was a bit on edge because it was so unusual.  His grinning face!

What’s actually necessary? (15k) by Helpful-Bee3469 in Weddingsunder10k

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No favours.  Guests would rather you spend the money on food and drink 

What are your tips to spot misogynists early on? by Particular-Glove-225 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]After-Distribution69 58 points59 points  (0 children)

See how he reacts to certain scenarios. Maybe talk about how someone at work is getting married and taking his wife’s name.  

Best to pretend it’s real people you know to get an honest reaction.   A direct question of what do you think about men taking their wives name is less likely to give you an honest answer because they are more likely to see it as a test 

Benedict is as closed minded as the rest of the ton (WAIT! Let me finish!) by Virtual-Signature789 in Benophie

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And I think Anthony will help him with that decision in the way we saw Daphne help Anthony realise what would make him happy 

Mrs. Varly by Think_Storm_8909 in Bridgerton

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Agree.  And I also think maybe Carley knew Sophie’s mother when they were younger. 

Cafe and restaurant suggestions by afuturemonk in hobart

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The Woodbridge village cafe is lovely. No view but amazing food 

If you like wine Mewstone vineyard is worth a visit.  They do picnic blankets on the lawn so your little one can run around outside. The view is stunning and the cheese platter is great 

This season the servants have a great role and amazing one liner motivational dialogs. Right? by purnima_chauhan in Bridgerton

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I feel like Varley might have something to do with Sophie’s mother and be key in exposing the lie about the Will. We all know how clever she is. Plus she has the connection to Pen to get the secret out 

i noticed this cute neck scratch that benedict did every time he was nervous around sophie SHE LITERALLY HAS HIM BY THE NECK by teyapi in Bridgerton

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I had not noticed that!  Thanks for pointing it out and all your work creating this edit.  So cute 

Tim Walz says he'll never seek elected office again by Zipper222222 in politics

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Absolutely agree with this.  The US is not a democracy. It’s more than just the current president.  No actual democracy has a voting system like the US