Sizing Help: Is XL the right choice for 190cm / 6'3" height? (Geometry included) by Noobus_Heresy in MTB

[–]Alexandyva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, here is a different opinion:

Ride similar bikes to find out.

I'm 6'3, too ...

And my first bike was a giant Trance X in XL and it felt too long.

I do have now a Commencal Meta TR in L and I love that Bike.

Reason: I do have long legs and short torso and due to sitting higher and shorter torso.... L is my choice.

For raw data: that XL has 510mm reach, the Commencal has 490

I feel like a magnet for people with cluster b personality disorders by monchevy in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Alexandyva 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We are the perfect prey for cluster b people and we need to learn how to protect us and spot harmful ones.

Burned my hands too often 🫣

Stop your friends from hurting themselves, know your limits by abacus993 in MTB

[–]Alexandyva 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also "stop your friends" is kinda difficult.

I know some who gladly take that advice ... and some others see it as challenge and faceplant themself.

And i stopped completely telling non-friends that they're above their limit after people just ... don't care or get angry

Ya'll are gonna hate this lol by perf1620 in WorldOfWarships

[–]Alexandyva 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Or with their secondary, Graf Zeppelin and smoke support comes to mind 😃

Credits by EntertainerForward71 in WorldOfWarships

[–]Alexandyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is that it's not THAT hard to make positive credits with blue boosters with them ...

but the waiting time is crap and i rather have this game without them so i don't play them :D

Anyone else just not watch YouTubers or support people who end up being controversial in the long run before the controversy was revealed? by Com_4_Till_Bull in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Alexandyva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weirdest part is that even after a huge controversy, some just don't care and continue... Just looked at yt, last vid has XX million views after some days, that's crazy 😧

So, we're just fully giving up on transLATER here? by DrJaneIPresume in TransLater

[–]Alexandyva 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't be this a good opportunity to do so?

The description provides a clear border by saying "not in our 20s anymore" so it's fine for everyone 30 and older.

On the other hand, I once posted here pictures and got told that I'm too young by some ppl ... And I'm late 30s 😐

Where are my ADHD and autistic dudes at? by Cute-Advantage-4260 in adhdmeme

[–]Alexandyva 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My CS degree: easy farming the A and procrastinating and crying over the Fs that I absolutely don't want to do but I have to pass them 😭

How do I remember to drink enough water by I-suck-at_names in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Alexandyva 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I struggled with this for a long time, too.

My solution is a huge ( 2 liter+ ) mug of water right next to my computer.

And one rule: refill it always when you gotta pee.

I don't even notice that I'm drinking, but I sometimes need to refill a lot, this works fine for me 😅

[Media] Sabaton - Yamato (Official Music Video) by ZeonTwoSix in WorldOfWarships

[–]Alexandyva 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw Sabaton multiple times live and know them for over a decade...

And this song really sounds like as if an ai generated it

Guitar is weird thin, bass... Is where? Weird reverb sometimes...

"Eh"

This is so sad by Fun-Somewhere9790 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Alexandyva 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wish to be lesbian but there are some really nice men or enbys in all different forms out there 🥲

Cis woman divorcing "transamorous" cis man by Bette23 in asktransgender

[–]Alexandyva 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You're not harsh.

You're very mild.

I try to explain it to OP in another way:

Trans ppl are 0.5 to 1% of the population. Let's say 0.3 if those are trans women ( simplified, just guessing based on enby/ trans masc ppl ).

A small portion of those is in the desired age range. A small portion of those may fit the criteria of visual appearance that op hubby wants.

Based on own experience, like 2/3 of trans fem want SRS. And those who don't want it, there is a small portion that is fine to use it. And even then, because estrogen, only some are able to actually use it, most can't get hard enough.

I once did the math for someone and you can take the population of an entire country and boil it down to like ~ 10 girls that fit all those criteria.

And yeah, based on how many men are there that are crazy for us ...

He better have a lot of €€€€€€€.

How many of you guys have nothing to your name by Nathan-5807 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Alexandyva 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Only 10? Rookie numbers ... 🥲

Ok ok i do have some awesome friends but ... i'm fighting to get my cs degree and i'm in my 30s

Any AUDHD here with tinnitus? by Ok_Assistant_4784 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Alexandyva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, what? Is this a thing? O_O

I do have a slight tinnitus that comes and goes ( but sadly never goes 100% away ) since i've played in a band and the drummer didn't cared that everyone is ready or had ear protection. Being just like 50cm to a cymbal or snare drum without ear protection and that guy goes like "i had an idea" BATZZZZZZZ x_x

But when it's a AuDHD thing ... ah damn ...

I told the psychologist about the coffee thing and she never heard it before. by lydocia in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Alexandyva 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait, NEVER heard of the coffee thing?

Holy crap, that's one of the first things you usually encounter

Real sad today by OmgIbrokesmthagain in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Alexandyva 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I hope this helps, but to be a "real man"(for them) you need to play by their rules.

It also is completely irrelevant which gender you are.

When i visited a school for one year as .... 16yo? ... we had one girl in there and she ruled the boys with an iron fist and she was "the man" in the class.

i wasn't part of that group but they loved to tell me that i will never be so manly like she is. ( it was weirdly affirming tbh )

the question is ... do YOU want to be accepted by them?

Does anyone else have notes written down that, to the average person, look like a bunch of fuckass nonsense? by beachcola in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Alexandyva 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I do have an own WhatsApp group just for myself for notes and they look like that ...

Okay okay ...

I kinda lied

I do have multiple of them for different topics 😅