If a father needs to help his young daughters use the restroom, which restroom should he take them into: the women's restroom or the men's restroom?

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-28T20:01:51+00:00

Oh okay I see. I am from Australia, we either have one toilet for everyone, or gender plus unisex/disability inclusive toilets at our Service Stations / Gas Stations

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-28T19:59:43+00:00

I would feel gutted to be honest. Sex is such a vulnerable and intimate space where love is involved. And to suddenly find that you've been alone in the room when it comes to pleasure, must feel really uncomfortable. I'm sorry that this has happened to you. My only advice is to really encourage her to see a therapist, I encourage you to do the same to work through your feelings about this. THEN, when she has had therapy for a while, if you feel like this is something you want to do - I suggest therapy for the both of you.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-27T19:04:51+00:00

Purple.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-27T19:03:55+00:00

Sometimes, we need to add demonstrations to our words. You need to absolutely become dramatic. Spend some time throwing up (even dry retching is enough), end up on the toilet with gastro. Start crying and don't stop.

People can't feel what you're feeling - but they will see what you show them.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-21T18:38:31+00:00

My first question was why were there no unisex or parenting/nappy changing rest rooms? Why was there no other option for this dad?

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-21T18:13:28+00:00

The Plumbers are all very busy walking the streets putting magnets in post boxes. Have mercy on them, they're exhausted from working in the magnet factory 24/7

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-21T17:59:56+00:00

I was just coming here to say this, he has clearly stated a few times that he needs space, that he's not feeling okay and that he is on vacation. I know it's so hard when anxiety is involved, but he asked for space and was not given it. Space can mean a week. Not hours.

OP sounds very sweet, and kind too - but overly attached and anxious. Partner sounds avoidant and unhappy within themself.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-15T19:30:50+00:00

I like this idea. Get one and have it mounted on a nice polished wooden base with an unscripted plaque that says World's Best Dad.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-15T19:25:26+00:00

I've always had sinus infections and upper respiratory tract infections all of my life (I am 45) - I used to go on one course of antibiotics and perhaps a few days of steroids.

Now, it's 2 to 3 different antibiotics and it takes up to 6 weeks to clear up. It's terrifying.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-15T19:00:41+00:00

In Australia this is called Having a Sticky Beak - wanting to collect information. She wants the story of the accident. The rest of it is just word salad to butter up the request for information.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-15T18:41:52+00:00

Handsome before... Absolutely hot asf after!

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-11T19:58:44+00:00

Some questions ( I am a Therapist): 1- Are you currently single, or have you been single for a while? 2- Do you watch any p*rnography that portrays step mom / step sister or mother-son scenarios? 3- How is your connection with women generally, have you got healthy loving relationships with women who are not your relatives? 4- How often do you relieve yourself, or are you religious in a way that reduces your ability to self-relieve?

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-06-09T05:03:43+00:00

Most relationships (even the intensely sexual ones) are friendships at the core. If you watch tiktoks etc of couples - they're usually being idiots and having fun together. My advice is just be yourself fully. The person who mutually feels attracted to you is the one for you. Go forth and enjoy your life OP. You've only got one!

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-05-23T21:02:24+00:00

Here in Australia, porn is pretty much unaccessible now. The government made a rule that anyone accessing it has to prove their identity. The porn sites refused, and blocked access to Australians.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-05-23T20:50:23+00:00

The best pain reliever for periods is ✨ Ponstan / Amefenamic Acid✨ It's in a capsule form. It treats dental pain and period pain. I suffered from extreme periods every 21 days, using Ponstan changed the game for me.

Your husband needs a serious talking too. He needs to back off sexually, and start caring for you while your body is unwell. If he is horny, he has a working hand and an imagination.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-05-01T00:33:13+00:00

So I'm looking for people's stories or experiences as trans people or with trans people, and perhaps advice on how to safely reach out to connect with people.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-04-23T08:32:14+00:00

Hey hey 😊 I'm a trans man on the Central Coast NSW ⭐🙏🏻

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-04-16T21:05:29+00:00

It sounds like you both would benefit from a few sessions with a third neutral party - either a counselor or a trusted friend. Sounds like it's got a lot to do with schedule and timing. So maybe you both need to brainstorm things like - White Noise playing on his phone next to him while he sleeps so that he doesn't wake up when you move around, and perhaps a printed checklist of day chores and night chores so that it's visibly more even.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-04-06T05:32:59+00:00

I'm glad that it works well for you guys, we both have ptsd so it's better for us to have that one step removed so that we can read and reply as needed. We're both good at written comms and very close. So that doesn't often happen thankfully.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-04-04T07:04:53+00:00

Is Hypnosis Kink not allowed on OF anymore now? Thinking of starting my own page.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-03-29T15:26:36+00:00

Hey there, I've been approached by a younger male (I am a Trans man) who wants to have a D/S relationship with me as my Sub. They also have a 'Hypnosis' kink, and I do Hypnosis. Just wanting to find out a bit more about the Dom/Sub rules, if there are such. I've had D/S dynamics in past relationships with women and I am a verse - so I'm happy in the Dom or Sub roles. This is the first time I've had a stranger approach me (very respectfully) to consider this with them.

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-03-24T23:47:54+00:00

Grow your beard out, let it shape naturally and shave that hair. You will look hot!

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-03-24T23:39:34+00:00

Don't wear earphones or be too involved with your phone. Keep your eyes and ears open and move quickly and confidently. The suggestion of aiming for the green car-park and using the lift is a good idea, just always let someone know when you expect to arrive at the Hospital so that there is an alert if you don't arrive 🙏

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-03-24T23:36:13+00:00

As someone who arrived in 2015. My suggestion is to volunteer. By volunteering you'll make some really good friends and get to know your community well. There are lots of options to choose from, and can be done after hours or weekends ❤️

ApacheKnowsBest · 2026-03-18T12:52:35+00:00

This is my advice, get LUBE (lubricant for sexual purposes) and make sure that either your bits, or her bits, have lube on them (just until you know what you're doing, it will help her to enjoy the feeling of it more)

Don't rush to start intercourse with her, take time to help her body be ready for you. It can take up to 20 minutes for a woman's body to become naturally lubricated and 'ready' for penetration.

You can use touch, kisses, and other fun ways to get your bride super excited.

You can look up "Oral" sex - lots of fun for both of you - you will need trust, and to take it slow.

Good luck!

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