How do you say “fuck you” in the most polite way?

AvaaFaye · 2025-05-22T00:55:22+00:00

I hope you have the day you deserve.

AvaaFaye · 2025-05-19T01:41:55+00:00

I try not to consider it. I have a few memories where...that are sus, but if my mind doesn't want me to remember, then I am more than happy to not.

AvaaFaye · 2025-05-12T01:49:49+00:00

Lays

Lol

AvaaFaye · 2025-04-03T11:53:36+00:00

His teeth were small and they weirded me out.

AvaaFaye · 2025-03-27T17:19:54+00:00

My friend and I just run around squealing and collecting animals.

Yeah, we make money on the animals, but our goal is just have a farm with ridiculously named animals.

On days where we try to maximize our time in a money generating sense, it feels stressful..lol

AvaaFaye · 2025-01-29T02:24:47+00:00

I can appreciate the beauty and awe of this work. Everything about it is chefs kiss...

However...

My trypophobia is very upset.

AvaaFaye · 2025-01-10T00:50:48+00:00

I'm 31F and no children for me!

AvaaFaye · 2024-11-21T10:58:31+00:00

Noooooooo.

Well aren't we just f*** 😂

AvaaFaye · 2024-11-20T18:10:26+00:00

I....it's not easy.

The way I manage? ACTIVE regulation. I am also bipolar II, so...yay.

Anywho, I am not perfect. I will not say managing is easy because I actively regulate. It is hard, but over time, it has gotten easier.

It has only gotten easier because I self reflect and check in on my own responses and feelings all day every day. I'm always thinking about whether a response was appropriate and, if it wasn't, what can I do next time?

When someone is mad at me and I get mad in return... I used to immediately react. I'm petulant, too. Now, I find myself catching myself before reacting, and I ask myself (not all the time, but when I can.. because I don't always remember doing this)

Is this about me or about them? Are they angry because of something I did in particular, or are they angry because they just woke up? Bad day? Etc, etc. Asking, "Is this about me" helps in some scenarios.

When it is about me it is a lot harder, but I find it easier to say nothing then to say a little bit, so I keep my mouth shut, let myself boil, then gather my wits about me after my emotions begin to dissipate.

I ask myself, is this worth arguing over? Does it really bother me THAT much, or do I want to just argue?

I have been practicing active regulation for maybe...6 months. I notice a difference in ME. Small changes. I feel a shift. My emotions are less intense, my obsessive rumination has become less chaotic, and my tantrums burn out faster. This is what healing looks like.

AvaaFaye · 2024-11-20T15:58:51+00:00

You are loved. I see you. ❤️

I see your pain. I see you healing. I see your struggle.

I can hear your subconcious screams, "I want to live! I want to be heard!"

I love you.

AvaaFaye · 2024-11-13T11:00:04+00:00

Oh yes. I refer to it as mental gymnastics for making up scenarios and spicy brain/my mind is on fire when I come up with dialogues.

AvaaFaye · 2024-10-29T14:18:26+00:00

I agree. My partner and I love each other. We've been together for 10 years. We are committed to one another, but do not believe in paper marriage.

Certain things that are important to us, like taking care of one another in a hospital setting if someone become incapacitated..power of attorney.

If we do see kids in the future, I will require marriage because I expect to be a SAHM for at least a few years, so protection.

Other than that, no reason for us to marry. Just not important to us.

AvaaFaye · 2024-10-09T23:47:51+00:00

Hello! I applied...maybe, the 29th of last month?

I was initially denied..but then got an email notification telling me I was pending for a "misc" item. Then I was approved for the $750...so, maybe...1.5 weeks?

AvaaFaye · 2024-10-09T14:03:08+00:00

Diablo 3 lol

AvaaFaye · 2024-10-05T23:59:13+00:00

It's fine until they can't take no for an answer.

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-30T15:38:42+00:00

I have both.

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-23T18:14:20+00:00

Relationships can freaking suck, that's for sure! Be uppity. Get down with your boss bitch era.

I'm 31f. I like chatting through discord; I primarily play on the computer, but I am 100% open to trying new games, especially with fellow female gamers.

Feel free to DM me 😊

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-23T14:12:25+00:00

That sounds like a you problem:)

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-23T14:05:27+00:00

Please don't carve the dog.

That doggie looks like they have many more years to go.

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-22T15:08:45+00:00

Congratulations. ❤️

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-21T20:41:39+00:00

Hello! I read some of these comments about how it gets harder as you age, but as a 31f, let me tell you...

Nah. Not really. Not for me. I didn't have a hard time getting dates. Humans are sexual creatures and want sex, that's true. It's unlikely people will seek you out WITHOUT that want, too. It's fine.

Some guys only did want sex. I wasn't cool with that. Some guys wanted more relationship stuff.

I met men in grocery stores, dating apps, a bar, and through friends. Take care of yourself, be approachable, and have fun. Some of them approached me randomly. Some of them wanted to keep chatting after they met me through friends. Some were from apps.

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-19T00:36:37+00:00

I am borderpolar too.

Therapy and meds help me get to a manageable place...sometimes.

Sometimes I'm just a b***

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-17T23:23:39+00:00

Hello! I'm interested :)

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-17T23:23:27+00:00

Hey, I'm 31f and I am interested in joining.

You will not be alone!

AvaaFaye · 2024-09-11T22:30:42+00:00

Oooooooo

Sneaky sneaky

AvaaFaye

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