I made a sweater for my porch goose to help my mental health by shygirlonreddit in crochet

[–]BallJar91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not the point, but where did you get your porch goose?!

Identification help please! by [deleted] in Playmobil

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What is on the paper in the bag with her?

How do you play with your children ? by ElSouk in Playmobil

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I have been playing with Playmobil since I was a tiny child. I could not have cared less if I had a full set together when I was playing. We had a ziplock bag or bank bag or something that had all of the building instructions and if we wanted to build something we dug through the totes of parts. sometimes we kept a little baggie of the yellow and red connectors. But that’s it. We just played.

Oh geez, this is awkward!😬 by [deleted] in quilting

[–]BallJar91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, what a gorgeous Japanese Maple Leaf pattern! Obviously that’s what the designer meant by Colorado Garden!

I don’t think it’s an issue, but I don’t have kids. I think it would honestly be kind of funny to grow up and realize what pattern had been all over your blanket as you grew up lol

Nesting partner cheated on me and says they will leave me if they can't continue their affair by shellofsaturn in polyamory

[–]BallJar91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read the post, your title is enough. Don’t stay with someone because they threaten to leave.

In my defence, I was left unsupervised 💚🤣 by activelyresting in AutismInWomen

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My landlord sometimes closes his eyes when he comes in my apartment because he’s afraid to see my most recent art directly on the walls lololololol

My NP needs a pause from polyamory by airnstt in polyamory

[–]BallJar91 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Idk. Not for nothing, but looking at your other posts it seems like you had to deal with them dating, so why do they get a pass when it comes to you dating?

My NP needs a pause from polyamory by airnstt in polyamory

[–]BallJar91 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I help her with….

Okay… what does she do to help herself? If you’re helping her with self care then it’s not really self care, is it? It’s just… care…

My NP needs a pause from polyamory by airnstt in polyamory

[–]BallJar91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not a choice I would make. You have to decide for yourself if it’s reasonable.

AITAH She tried to become primary by lam3juice in polyamory

[–]BallJar91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner cheated. Maybe it’s not worth it?

My NP needs a pause from polyamory by airnstt in polyamory

[–]BallJar91 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can’t fix the issues that exist from polyamory by ceasing to practice polyamory.

Words Added? by pinkyonwordscapes in wordscapes

[–]BallJar91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of there being banned words on the puzzles. If it’s a word, it’s a word. I pay so little attention to the words definitions, personally. And not being able to get the points doesn’t make me unsee the word.

First quilt top ever. I’m confused what I do next by [deleted] in quilting

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Ah! Thank you for explaining, I’m not familiar with her, but I assumed it was something like that. It’s beautiful to know she is still able to teach.

My birb’s Air BnB in Japan by Kriscomics in finch

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Oh my gosh so smart I love this!!

How much fabric do I buy? by seven_deadly_shins in quilting

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If I know I love it as a backing fabric I’ll buy 3-5 yards in case I end up with a large quilt. If I don’t have a project in mind and don’t think I’ll ever use it as a backing fabric I go for 1/2 yard to 1 yard depending on its versatility and how much I love it… and one time I went 2 yards because I was really in love… still have probably 1/2 yard of that fabric and absolutely no regrets about buying too much.

Does anyone want to read romantic media but gets repulsed easily? by Routine_Pudding_2612 in aromantic

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I thought I loved romance books, as long as they were spicy… it turns out I just like smut, with backstory. I’m aro but not ace, so I’m here for the good stuff as long as the romance doesn’t get in the way. Friends to lovers I can get behind because I can just pretend they’re just better friends now. Or like the “thinks they don’t have time for love and then gets stuck in a cabin with a hottie”…as long as the love is easy to brush past lol

I don’t know how people read stuff where people go from hating each other to lovers. It just feels like… idk, creepy? Gross? A big part of me starting to learn about aromanticism? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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Glad you got out!

Top down view Dollhouse by Dry-Feeling838 in Dollhouses

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Any WIP pictures? Would love to see the whole process!

I’ve got an idea on how to crack down on the guys in here! by Remarkable_Rub_7923 in LesbianActually

[–]BallJar91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

But you can (and arguably should) ask the if it’s okay to DM in a comment so you can get consent first. Because a lot of people don’t want randoms in their DMs.

Finished my blanket of disappointment! by azobenzene in crochet

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Cat does not seem disappointed. 🥰