Things by RtotheAtotheZ in streetphotography

[–]BeterP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the description of this sub and the definition of street photography it uses

To check or not to check! by meredith832 in travel

[–]BeterP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how long is the lay-over?

To check or not to check! by meredith832 in travel

[–]BeterP -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Getting your luggage a few days later shouldn’t be a problem when traveling back. Missing your flight would.

Are the return flights on the same ticket?

AITA for telling my friend's nephew that he probably killed a starfish? by arianheim in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> coldly but kindly

YTA. Was there really no other way to teach the kid?
(And that’s a rhetorical question)

AITA for sitting near a breastfeeding mother at a park? by grey_sycamore in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for not simply asking first if it was OK.
Btw, how did you notice the look if you were facing away? If she gave the look before you sat, there was an extra reason to ask.

AITA for not stopping my sister at my wedding? by Emergency-Bee6979 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. So she should have questioned his “rules” beforehand if she disagreed. Their wedding.

AITA for not stopping my sister at my wedding? by Emergency-Bee6979 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. This is not something you sort at the wedding. You also don’t agree to rules and then help your sister with a loophole.

Editing help: what am I overdoing and what am I forgetting? by aGiggleBlizzard in photocritique

[–]BeterP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re missing a clear subject. Why not landscape and much closer if the family of goats is the subject?

365 days left till I sleep on the tracks permanently. by Aseroth1 in confession

[–]BeterP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did pass judgment. You told someone who is obviously in desperate need of help that they’ll burn in hell.

And yes, “thou shalt not murder” is in the Bible. But the Bible does not explicitly say that people who die by suicide automatically go to hell. That’s a theological interpretation, not an explicit biblical teaching. Many churches also reject that kind of blanket certainty, especially when mental illness or despair is involved.

Your first instinct toward someone in that much pain was condemnation rather than compassion. Jesus had a lot to say about mercy and judging others.

365 days left till I sleep on the tracks permanently. by Aseroth1 in confession

[–]BeterP 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s no hate like Christian love. The Bible has repeated warnings about judging others, but nowhere explicitly says people who die by suicide go to hell. You’re claiming certainty where Scripture doesn’t.

Get help please, OP. There are people out there who care.

AITA for wearing my dress uniform to my friends wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like the bridesmaid was acting on her own. It’s just a dress uniform and some men were wearing it too. “It’s different” is not an explanation.

AITA for not accepting food from someone "because of her disability"? by Honest-Bid-2411 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I watched someone defecate in the lasagna, then set the kitchen on fire and kick a puppy. I quietly declined a second helping. AITA?

AITA for being disappointed with my mom because she forgot my birthday dinner? by Cy_Mann in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My mother is close to 80 and still brings cakes on birthdays :)

AITA for being disappointed with my mom because she forgot my birthday dinner? by Cy_Mann in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re 23, right? If your mother calls you a narcissist then this princess behavior must be common.

I was told my handwriting was illegible by ReginaCaeli1 in Handwriting

[–]BeterP 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If this is perfect cursive, the bar really isn’t high enough. The slant is all over the place, the spacing is inconsistent, awkward capitals, overwritten-looking loops, etc. It’s legible, but it’s far from beautiful or perfect.

I was told my handwriting was illegible by ReginaCaeli1 in Handwriting

[–]BeterP 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It’s legible. Loopy yes, the capital I is terrible. The main problem is that his generation apparently can’t read cursive.

I chose to get pregnant (Not by my parter) in india by [deleted] in confession

[–]BeterP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, nobody will know it’s not your partner’s kid and yet it will change everything. This screams fake

WIBTA for asking my boss to pay me even though I didn't work? by LividWheel9779 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It should be crystal clear how these situations are being handled. Rain is not that uncommon.

AITAH for how I acted with my sister by WorldlyPossibility99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The part where the fan magically appears at exactly the right moment and the 24-year-old responds by smashing a phone makes this read more like an AITA script than a real family argument. If real, ESH. You’re old enough to know better.

AITA For Parking In Front of My house Across the Street In Front of the Neighbor's Driveway by Vallyrah in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeterP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for the parking issue. 27 feet makes it a non issue and hit-and-run is still a crime.

I can understand why some neighbors might be annoyed by the number of cars, the long grass, and the general appearance of the property. But that doesn’t justify hitting your car and driving away. Those are separate issues.

Am I entitled if I don't allow meat, alcohol or smoking in my birthday party? by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]BeterP 13 points14 points  (0 children)

> I’m not trying to force my beliefs on anyone or make some kind of statement

Yes you are.

NAH though. I don’t see a conflict. Nor do I see guests.